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You Asked: Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon?
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We got together while I was still with my previous partner, something that I'm not proud of, but everyone involved has come to terms with it and we've all moved on. I was
with my ex for five years, and marriage was always top of mind for me, but I realized we were not meant to be.
A Do or a Don't: Ultimatums
Giving an ultimatum is supposed to be a last-ditch effort in trying to change a particular situation. Most of the time this approach is only used in the most desperate times. However, even as a last resort, ultimatums can be very problematic.
DearSugar Needs Your Help: He's Thinking About Living With Two Women, But He Won't Live With Me!
My boyfriend of one year currently lives in a three bedroom apartment with two of his guy friends. He's lived there for five years and absolutely loves the place. He's comfortable there, he doesn't have to pay much rent, and it's in an amazing area of the city.
Where Do You Stand: Withholding Sex to Get What You Want
Let's say your man smokes cigarettes and you want him to quit. You've tried talking to him about it, but nothing changes. So you throw him an ultimatum: No sex until he quits.
Dear Poll: Has an Ultimatum Ever Backfired?
According to a previous poll, 51 percent of you said you'd never give a marriage ultimatum, but 31 percent of you said you would. The thing with ultimatums is, you have to be willing to put it all on the line and accept the outcome if the other person doesn't oblige. Sure, a lot of times they light a fire under someone, but other times, they send people running.
Dear Poll: Would You Give a Marriage Ultimatum?
Ultimatums, they can either destroy a relationship or give the man a much needed push in the right direction. We've all heard the saying, s**t or get off the pot, but sometimes, when you're in the relationship, it's easy to get a little too comfortable and fear taking the next step.
I know two couples whose engagement came to be because of an ultimatum, and on the flip side, I know other couples who have been together for years and years with no engagement in sight because one refuses to put the other on the spot.
You Asked: Is It Ultimatum Time?
DearSugar --
I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years and living together for 2 1/2 years. Every time I talk about marriage with him he blows me off. I have a 7 year old daughter and she realizes that we are living together and we are not married.
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Matt Damon Still Perfecting Bourne Ultimatum
The fact that Matt Damon is back filming The Bourne Ultimatum in NYC concerns me. This is the second time that he's been back doing reshoots for the movie, which is scheduled to be released August 3. The trailer for Bourne Ultimatum was pretty exciting, but hopefully the fact that they're going back to the drawing board isn't a totally horrible sign about the film.
Will Matt Stop at Bourne Ultimatum?
Matt is still busy on the set of The Bourne Ultimatum in Berlin, the third installment of the Bourne series. I have to say while I have loved the first two I was really disappointed that we didn't learn more about Jason's real identity at the end of Supremacy. So will Jason finally learn the whole story at the end of the third film?
Happy Bourne Ultimatum Friday!
It's been three long years, but the time has come: The Bourne Ultimatum finally hits theaters today. It's been a blast seeing charismatic Matt as the one man promotional show for this movie, but it's time for the main event. Last night on the way into The Daily Show to chat with John Stewart (for like the 7 minutes he leaves for interviews), Matt careful not to wrinkle his suit by changing into it before the green room.
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