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Dear Poll: Do You Check Out Your Astrological Compatibility?

DearSugar — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 08:00:00 -0700

Most everyone I know loves reading horoscopes, though some people take them more seriously than others. Sometimes, the predictions and star-sign characteristics can be eerily accurate, but do you buy into the idea of astrological compatibility? I have one friend who, whenever she starts dating someone new, rushes over Astrology.com or somewhere to run a romantic compatibility report. Do you ever do this?

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Kissing Reduces Stress

DearSugar — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 10:00:00 -0800

It was great news when we learned that sex can reduce stress, but it turns out there's no need to get naked in order to ease your mind or your troubles - recent research shows that kissing is also a stress-reliever. When couples were asked to smooch for 15 minutes, there was a decrease in levels of the stress hormone, cortisol. Other couples who were asked to just hold hands, also had a decrease in cortisol, but kissing was much more effective.

The study also discovered that guys prefer sloppier kisses, which allows testosterone in his saliva to transfer to his partner as testosterone increases the sex drive in both men and women. So if you're having issues with your job, your sister, your roommate, or your finances, a little make-out or love-making session may be just the thing you need!

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Would You Read Your Dog's Horoscope?

PetSugar — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 16:00:52 -0700

I used to read my horoscope daily, without fail. But these days, I barely have time to read the paper, let alone delve into what the stars have in store for me. So it's a total guilty pleasure to read my horoscope on DearSugar first thing in the morning, and now I can get North's horoscope from Animal Planet! You should already have your kitty figured out with help from the feline astrological chart, now it's time to see what the future holds for your pooch!

Although I'm not sure if these horoscopes are anything like their human counterparts – where it's sometimes left vague so the message can be applied to more people – but yesterday, it mentioned his sensitivity to crowds, which I have to admit, was totally true. Maybe I'm reading too much into it. Or maybe I should check again tomorrow to see if it's really right . . .

Healthy Fitness Horoscopes

FitSugar — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 04:00:00 -0700

I am constantly reading my horoscope to see where my future lies in my everyday life, however they never really go into things about fitness. This is odd to me because fitness is a big part of my everyday life. So you can imagine how thrilled I was to see that the super smart folks over at SparkPeople have come up with this genius list of Healthy Fitness Horoscopes:

Aries
Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagittarius
Capricorn
Aquarius
Pisces

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Awkward! What's Your Sign?

TresSugar — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:00:00 -0800

"What's your sign?" This might be the most direct way to find out a person's astrological sign, but often the curiosity is disguised by less ugh-inducing words. "When's your birthday?" is what I often hear. "So you're a Pisces? Aries?" And then, inevitably, silence. Quietly judging silence.

The last time this happened to me, I fired back with, "What does that mean to you?" I never got an answer. Why ask the question if it's not going to segue into a new discussion?

Don't get me wrong - I read my horoscope almost every day, so it's not like I don't want to believe. It's just that I wouldn't use astrology as a tactic to get to know someone or, worse, seek a rationale behind someone's actions. Do sign seekers, overt or covert, ever make you want to unleash some Scorpio-style wrath?

(By the way - if you have some awkward tales of your own, join our Awkward! group to share etiquette questions and stories with other readers.)

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Wednesday Horoscopes

TresSugar — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:01:03 -0800

SAGITTARIUS: November 22nd - December 21st
You're all talk today -- and there's nothing wrong with that! Sometimes you'd rather hang back and let others take all the risks, and today is one of those days when you're better off supervising.
CAPRICORN: December 22nd - January 19th
Try hard to eliminate excess today -- if you don't trim the fat, it's sure to slow you down! You may not make any friends this way, but your results should start to speak for themselves pretty soon.
AQUARIUS: January 20th - February 18th
Your big brain is useful for more than just conjugating verbs and calculating tips -- you can also use it to impress people who aren't easily impressed. Today is the day to drop that bomb.
PISCES: February 19 - March 20th
Be as vague or ambiguous as you can be when describing your plans today -- you need to make sure that no one can pin you down any time soon. You should be able to figure it all out in a few days.
ARIES: March 21st - April 19th
Pass over the details and fine print -- they're for other people! You should be focused on the big picture, and make sure that your people are taking care of everything else so you can think.
TAURUS: April 20th - May 20th
You're in the middle of some delicate negotiations with your family or someone close, and you need to open up. It's a good time to discuss deeply held feelings, uncomfortable though they may be.
GEMINI: May 21st - June 21st
You're as busy as can be today, which is perfect for your mood. You've got just the right mix of people and projects to keep your mind active and engaged while you get lots of work done.
CANCER: June 22nd - July 22nd
You're stuck amidst a million little tasks today, and they aren't going to go away on their own. Step up and take them on one at a time -- or better yet, delegate to those who can get through them quickly!
LEO: July 23rd - August 22nd
You're mightily impressed by something a friend or younger relative says today -- so much so that you may start to think about taking a new direction in your own life. Take the plunge!
VIRGO: August 23rd - September 22nd
Your ability to chew up and spit out complex arguments is legendary, and today is even greater than usual. You may devastate your opponents in business or in some smaller-scale struggle.
LIBRA: September 23rd - October 22nd
You can't help but see every side of every question today, which helps your perspective immensely, but might mean that others lose patience with what they incorrectly perceive as dithering.
SCORPIO: October 23rd - November 21st
You almost certainly feel tempted by something new -- maybe something that feels extremely exciting -- but you need to make sure that you're not just compensating for a previous setback.

Tuesday Horoscopes

TresSugar — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:01:02 -0800

SAGITTARIUS: November 22nd - December 21st
You're feeling pretty great about something that is boring to most other people -- so keep with it! If you've got it all to yourself, so much the better. It's one of those days when you go your own way.
CAPRICORN: December 22nd - January 19th
You're feeling a bit more clear about an issue that has been confusing you lately -- but that doesn't mean it's exactly How you like it! If you take action today, you should find it somewhat simpler than you thought.
AQUARIUS: January 20th - February 18th
Your love life is never boring -- and today is one of the hot days! If you're seeing someone, expect some serious sizzle, but if you're somehow single, now is the time to look for someone sparky.
PISCES: February 19 - March 20th
You and your sense of poetic magic are on a tear today -- so bust out the pen or the keyboard and let it flow! You may stumble on some hidden emotional truths that need exploration.
ARIES: March 21st - April 19th
You should be on the lookout for new ideas -- the wilder, the better -- and make sure that your people are ready for you to switch directions at a moment's notice. Anything can happen today!
TAURUS: April 20th - May 20th
This is not the best day for signing agreements or starting new arrangements -- though that doesn't mean you need to flee. If you can delay for a short time, that ought to be all you need to do.
GEMINI: May 21st - June 21st
Let your big ideas lead the way today -- you should be able to get people to see that things don't have to be as boring or silly as they are right now. Your amazing energy is the cure for all ills.
CANCER: June 22nd - July 22nd
You need to bust out of your shell somewhat -- things are pretty freaky right now, and they're only going to get freakier if you stay safe and comfortable. Once you push, things get back to normal quickly.
LEO: July 23rd - August 22nd
Your big brainstorm today is worth more than you realize -- so go with it and see where it leads. Your peers or family are sure to at least give it a listen, but you may need to be your own advocate.
VIRGO: August 23rd - September 22nd
Your communication requires greater finesse today -- and while you've certainly got the chops for it, you may not have the patience! Choose your words with care of stay entirely silent.
LIBRA: September 23rd - October 22nd
You're flitting from place to place like a hummingbird today, and loving almost every minute of it! The busier you are, the happier you're likely to be, so get out there and take care of everything!
SCORPIO: October 23rd - November 21st
You're feeling pretty flip about some risky move that feels right -- but you need to think twice or three times before jumping in. Others are sure to get more out of it than you are this time.

Monday Horoscopes

TresSugar — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 00:01:03 -0800

SAGITTARIUS: November 22nd - December 21st
You're feeling pretty great about a new channel of communication you've opened with a friend, coworker or total stranger. Explore it further and see where it leads -- surprises are just head!
CAPRICORN: December 22nd - January 19th
Your good mental energy is just right for ensuring that you've got plenty of time for taking care of details. You can pretty much guarantee that you'll make a clean sweep of every last thing.
AQUARIUS: January 20th - February 18th
Your past is haunting you, but not through your memories. You may hear from an ex or an old classmate who needs to check in about every little thing, but you're more interested in looking forward.
PISCES: February 19 - March 20th
Focus your energy on the practical yet creative side of life -- cooking, decorating and making life more pleasant in general You should find that your skills rise to almost any challenge.
ARIES: March 21st - April 19th
Your values may be challenged in a serious way today, but you can fight back with ease. You may have to forgo other activities, but you can tell that this is the most important issue of the day.
TAURUS: April 20th - May 20th
Your ability to turn a profit is quite potent right now, so it's a good time to finish a deal or start a business. Your great energy should smooth over almost any obstacles in your path, too!
GEMINI: May 21st - June 21st
Settle down and really focus on that big project -- your mind is better able to concentrate today than usual, and you can almost certainly whip it into shape in a way that makes it easier to handle from now on.
CANCER: June 22nd - July 22nd
When you're brainstorming or trying to make a decision today, go with the craziest, most ridiculous scheme possible -- you are sure to be surprised by how perfectly it all works out.
LEO: July 23rd - August 22nd
Try not to get too wrapped up in the dealings of your coworkers or neighbors -- it is far too easy for your ego to get bruised by the back-and-forth. Thing should settle down very soon, though.
VIRGO: August 23rd - September 22nd
Get deeper into the research today, online or in a musty library. Your ability to ferret out the right information is strong now, and you are almost certain to be surprised by what you find.
LIBRA: September 23rd - October 22nd
Today is all about teamwork, which is one of your strengths. It's easier than ever to get stuff done, and you should find that people are much more willing than usual to compromise.
SCORPIO: October 23rd - November 21st
You're feeling pretty riled up over a rival idea or project today -- one that you feel threatens your authority or place in the system. Try not to fight back so hard that you give it more power than it deserves.

Sunday Horoscopes

TresSugar — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 00:01:03 -0700

SAGITTARIUS: November 22nd - December 21st
You're feeling a bit more conciliatory today -- and that's perfect for your schedule! You should do whatever you can to oblige the important people in your life, if only to rack up some points.
CAPRICORN: December 22nd - January 19th
Focus on the basics today -- like safety and preparedness. This doesn't mean you're due for a disaster, simply that your mindset is most useful for taking care of worst-case scenarios.
AQUARIUS: January 20th - February 18th
You're in the middle of some serious weirdness with your family -- especially with those who are older than you. It's not catastrophic, but you've got to work through the discomfort to avoid making things worse.
PISCES: February 19 - March 20th
You need to get your creative energy flowing today -- and it's easier than ever! In fact, the energy of the universe seems to give you a push as long as you're trying something new and daring.
ARIES: March 21st - April 19th
You don't have to do much more than keep moving in the same direction today -- and it may be too hard to do much more, anyway! Keep from giving up and you'll end up way ahead of the pack!
TAURUS: April 20th - May 20th
Focus on your inventory today -- either literally, at work, or figuratively, at home. Your possessions are important to you, though not in a superficial way. You can derive great pleasure from quality.
GEMINI: May 21st - June 21st
You can understand more than usual today, so you may want to revisit some complex social issue (or math problem) that has been bothering you for some time. It's simpler than it looks!
CANCER: June 22nd - July 22nd
You may be shocked at how well your ideas are received today -- especially if you've been advocating them for quite some time! People have turned around sufficiently to back you up.
LEO: July 23rd - August 22nd
This may not be the best time to do a self-evaluation at work or to critique your own art -- while your self-esteem is riding high, it could have an adverse impact on your ability to see things clearly!
VIRGO: August 23rd - September 22nd
You're deep into a personal issue today, and your great spiritual energy should help you come to the correct conclusion in a way that makes life a lot better for you and your people.
LIBRA: September 23rd - October 22nd
Your friends are always important to you, of course, but today they provide some service way above and beyond the call of duty -- so let them know you appreciate it! Your good energy is always welcome.
SCORPIO: October 23rd - November 21st
You're not exactly diplomatic in your dealings today -- but it could be that a little abrasiveness is perfect for scouring away the gunk that has built up in some of your relationships!

Saturday Horoscopes

TresSugar — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 00:01:02 -0700

SAGITTARIUS: November 22nd - December 21st
Your creative energy is a huge asset right now, so make sure that you're showing off your wild side! It's a great day to work with art or writing or music -- anything that makes you think differently.
CAPRICORN: December 22nd - January 19th
Don't stress yourself out today (though that may be easy) -- you should blow off something that is relatively unimportant so you have all the time you need for your serious business.
AQUARIUS: January 20th - February 18th
Be yourself, even if it hurts -- your commitment to doing what seems right is sure to pay off in the short run as well as the long. It's one of those days when you are certainly better off blazing your own trail.
PISCES: February 19 - March 20th
A close friend or partner is extremely puzzling today, but almost certainly not because they want to be. Their energy is even weirder than yours, and they can't speak plainly even if they want to.
ARIES: March 21st - April 19th
You are often an early adopter, and today you spot something that you need to be the first to try out. It may be a gadget or a joke or almost anything else, but it's likely to be a big hit.
TAURUS: April 20th - May 20th
You may run into some trouble late in the day as your wary pace feels like a burden to your mate or a good friend, who is quite impatient. Try to get them to see the value of getting things done correctly
GEMINI: May 21st - June 21st
A friend offers some good advice -- but you probably resist it. Now is a good time to follow their lead, though, no matter how odd it sounds. There are hidden factors at work that clear up soon.
CANCER: June 22nd - July 22nd
You are easy to get riled up even on quiet days, but your temper is legendary on days like today! It's a good time for you to get some time for your self, if only to calm done between flare-ups.
LEO: July 23rd - August 22nd
It's a good day for fun and games -- and for learning new things about your friends and family while you're at it. You're participating, but you are also observing, so enjoy both layers.
VIRGO: August 23rd - September 22nd
Any financial troubles should be handles with care today -- there's nothing to be gained from rushing to handle them. You may want to get some expert advice, but you need to hear them out completely.
LIBRA: September 23rd - October 22nd
You need to compromise -- with yourself! It may not be all that hard to see what needs to happen, but it's a safe bet that you're in the right place for something that can make everyone happy.
SCORPIO: October 23rd - November 21st
Focus on the details, even while those around you are rushing ahead madly. They are certainly going to have to redo some of their steps while you keep forging ahead at your own quiet pace.