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You 101: Drew Barrymore, Work and Love
In April's Glamour, Carrie Fisher interviews Drew Barrymore, exploring how she's managed to become such an unlilkely and unique success story, inside and out. There's much of interest in the interview, but this gem I selected just for you:
For years I've said that when it comes business, I am a woman, and when it comes to relationships, I am a child. I just haven't figured out how to bring the same confidence and conviction I have in the boardroom to my romantic relationships
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You 101: Why You Get Forgetful When Stressed
I hope I'm not alone when it comes to finding myself overstressed, overtired and absurdly forgetful. I've actually hung up the phone and been unable to remember, moments later, who I was talking with or what was discussed. I once found the handset in my refrigerator -- kid you not.
You 101: Why You Remember the Bad Stuff
The “negativity bias” is a well-recognized psychological phenomenon: our brains react to the bad more strongly than to the good.
When our thoughts wander, we'll end up brooding; the negativity bias also means that anxious, angry thoughts or memories grab our attention more consistently than happier or pleasant thoughts.
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You 101: Can You Spot an "Emotionally Unavailable Man"?
Do you keep dating the same kind of guy? He's not too nice and he's not plain bad, but he is very, very confusing? Any part of this list sound familiar?
SuperLove: Chat the Planet
One of the things about this site I value is the effort we make to know each other and support each through sharing our experiences. In very personal ways, we explore how we are similar and how we are different, and a real effort is made to be curious, open, and accepting. We're funny, serious, searching and we're real.
SuperLove: An Emotional Ellen Talks about the Oscars
Ellen always inspires me to dream big, to tell the truth and to never believe it's too late. I really wanted to share this with you, ladies, in case you missed it! But definitely go all the way to the end .
SuperLove: 400 Words about You!
I had so much fun reading the comments for Title Your Autobiography, I decided to go in search of a few inspirational sites where you could really let loose with your creativity, wit and expressiveness. And here's what I found! 400 Words is both an online and print project, where readers submit their autobiography in under 400 words; you're also invited to write 400-words-or-less about an upcoming theme.
Looking Inside
Denise Mosher had been counseling couples for years when her feelings about her own 18-year marriage began to trouble her. While searching for tools that would help her understand what was happening, she discovered Naikan, a practice of seeing one's self more clearly, which was developed by a Japanese Buddhist.
It involves asking yourself three simple questions everyday, and Mosher's answers turned out to be surprising, deep and powerful.
Why People Misbehave Online
It's happened to us or it's happened because of us, and it's called "flaming". That's when a person says something in an email to another person that wouldn't be said quite the same way in a face-to-face interaction. Whether the email is angry, surly, embarrassing or lewd, researchers have another name for what makes us do it: "online disinhibition effect".
Working With Feelings of Unworthiness
Many years ago, writer and Buddhist Sharon Salzberg asked the Dalai Lama his thoughts on self-hatred. Despite his long life of study and devotion, he had never encountered this condition and initially found it incomprehensible. Western students of Buddhism, on the other hand, faced a daily struggle with it.
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