Sugar Editorial Picks
May 12, 2009 -
I liken newborns to birds because they often mimic their behavior at birth. As the mama bird, I feel it is my duty to give my lil chippers their wings to fly so they can become positive members of our society. A sense of independence gives a child confidence to conquer the world with a smile on his or her face.
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Mar 07, 2009 -
DearSugar and Searching Sandra need your help. While in a five-year relationship, she lost track of the person she is and the woman she wants to become. Now that she and her boyfriend have split up, she wants to find herself, but she doesn't know how.
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Oct 21, 2008 -
Although being independent is great, if you happen to have a stubborn streak, your determination may hinder you from reaching out for help when you need it. For whatever reason, asking for help has become synonymous with not being tough enough, but I’ll be the first to say, that’s just not true. So if you’re one of those girls who has to do everything herself, read my tips for how to reach out for help when you really do need it when you read more
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Aug 31, 2008 -
My boyfriend and I broke up for a short time about two weeks. Though it was brief, it forced me to look at myself and the person I have become. I focus a lot on my boyfriend and me as a team and never pay too much mind to myself as an individual.
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Jul 18, 2008 -
My boyfriend and I have been dating for roughly a year and a half. We both lived in the same student building when we met, so when we started dating I naturally began spending more and more time in his room, until I had "unofficially" moved in. At the end of term when it was time to look into finding a group of people to get a house with for the following year, it just seemed natural that he and I should live together — we reasoned that if we didn't live together one of us would wind up spending the majority of our time at the other's house.
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Mar 21, 2008 -
Some women prefer company while others prefer solitude, but being around people isn't the only thing that defines a woman's independence. In fact, independence has a lot more to do with a woman's attitude then anything else so let's find out if you need to start working on stretching those wings.
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If you need help, do you ask for it?
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Oct 17, 2007 -
Dear Sugar,
I just graduated from high school this past May and am currently living from home, but since then, I feel like everything has gone downhill. Most of my friends have moved away to go to school and I still live at home. I attend an amazing university, but still, I can't help but feel depressed.
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Aug 08, 2007 -
When you're in a relationship, do you like to do everything with your significant other? Do you like to exercise with him, go shopping with him, even sun bathe with him? Or do you like to be more independent -- would you rather come home at the end of the day with stories for him or surprise him with that new top you bought?
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Jul 11, 2007 -
I just came across a wonderful poem whose commandments (if you will) struck a chord with me. I wanted to share it with all of you so just click here to read more
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Mar 19, 2007 -
DearSugar --
My friends tell me because I am successful, have my own money, etc., that I am intimidating to men, and thus why I can't find a date. I don't believe this! I am cool, very approachable and easy to talk to.
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