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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/6376346&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=117  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/ed3/301/3019466/48_2009/25550ee5cee1f94e_AA006850.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today&#039;s the day to give thanks for all the small and large blessings in our lives. So I want to know: what are you thankful for?&lt;br /&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/6364859&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/ed2/192/1922195/45_2009/76e35436c6a834ce_stk78632cor.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ah, &lt;a href=&quot;http://tressugar.com/tags/thanksgiving&quot; &gt;Thanksgiving&lt;/a&gt;, a time to get together with family and friends, eat entirely too much food, and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/6376882&quot; &gt;dredge up drama&lt;/a&gt; that manages to stay dormant most of the year. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Although I&#039;m not facing any major family stress right now, I can still predict a handful of annoyances that will flare up among the group gathering for my Thanksgiving Day feast. Strong emotions are bound to come up when family gets together, whether it&#039;s over something as silly as who gets to make the mashed potatoes or something embarrassing your mom says when she gets tipsy. What drama are you dreading this holiday? Or, if you&#039;re drama free this year, I&#039;d love to hear your best stories from years past.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:00:30 -0800</pubDate>
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&lt;p&gt;These are the traditions that I will be looking forward to all week. What Thanksgiving traditions do you enjoy? &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.petsugar.com/6306853&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=99  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/ed3/192/1922243/47_2009/814cdc04b86bf059_tortoise.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hi, Mary . . . umm, I mean Terry. This Aldabra tortoise living at Cleveland Metroparks Zoo arrived in 1955 and, since then, keepers assumed he was a she. Since these reptiles&#039; reproductive organs are not usually visible, it took more than 50 years &#039;til they&#039;ve got her gender lined up right, so &lt;i&gt;he&#039;s&lt;/i&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clemetzoo.com/zblog/default.asp?Display=288&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;now known as Terry instead&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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This confusing situation got me thinking: with pets like fish, lizards, small mammals, or even stray cats, sometimes people assume a pet is one gender only to find out later she&#039;s something else entirely - that is if they ever find out for sure. I know I&#039;m not the only one with a salamander named Sam (that could have properly been a Samuel or a Samantha) - so share your stories of pets with gender-specific names and unknown (or noncorresponding) genders in the comments below.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Source: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clemetzoo.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Cleveland Metroparks Zoo&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.petsugar.com/6298463&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=117 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/ed3/192/1922243/47_2009/303afd2223735116_dogyumm.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Introducing large quantities of rich &quot;people food&quot; into a pet&#039;s diet on Thanksgiving is bad for their tummies! In fact, some typical holiday fare should never be fed to pets. One sure way to be certain no one slips up is to place the appropriate portion of your furry friend&#039;s normal snacks in a convenient location. Point out the healthy treats to your guests and encourage them to pamper your pals with extra petting or playtime . . . not to feed the snacks all at once. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Dog-Approved Snacks:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;Small piece of white-meat turkey&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;A few cooked, unseasoned carrots or green beans&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Spoonful of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.petsugar.com/2391025&quot; &gt;canned pumpkin&lt;/a&gt; (not pie filling)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.petsugar.com/slideshow/1910267?page=0%2C2&quot; &gt;Sweet Potato Dog Chips&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Small apple or banana slice&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;What&#039;s on your pet&#039;s menu for next week?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Source: Flickr User &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.flickr.com/photos/tudor/3419464051/sizes/o/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;TheGiantVermin&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Since we&#039;re headed toward a new decade, this story &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/TresSugar/status/5805417930&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;got me thinking&lt;/a&gt; about which lexicon newcomer would make a good word of the decade. &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/bellasugar/statuses/5805447832&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;BellaSugar suggested&lt;/a&gt; a Bushism like &quot;misunderestimated,&quot; or perhaps &quot;text&quot; or &quot;FAIL.&quot; Based on the high number of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/6185769&quot; &gt;depressing things that happened&lt;/a&gt; this decade, I&#039;d say &quot;FAIL&quot; makes an excellent candidate. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You all seem to have a good read on which words have &quot;lex-appeal,&quot; so tell me what you would choose as the word of the decade. &lt;/p&gt;
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A while back, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/5679671&quot; &gt;one writer guessed&lt;/a&gt; that vampires have overwhelmed pop culture thanks to a female desire for gay men. Confused? The writer explained that wanting to turn an unattainable vampire into your boyfriend is the same as wanting to turn a gay man straight. Well, I guess that&#039;s one theory. How would you explain the fascination with Edward Cullen, or any vamp for that matter? &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Yet, when Molly popped the same question to Robert Pattinson, &lt;a href=&quot;http://rush.popsugar.tv/6186427?autoplay=1&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;he had a very different answer&lt;/a&gt;. &quot;Ahh, maybe,&quot; he said. &quot;Yeah, yeah - I think so.&quot; Not too convincing, but more starry-eyed than realist Kristen. Could get awkward if they really are together, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/6130184&quot; &gt;as they seemed to be in Paris last week&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Do you believe there&#039;s one for everyone? What if your partner disagrees?&lt;/p&gt;
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