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Say What? Police Chief Waxes Philosophical
"There is never a good time to leave, but there is a right time. It is the right time."
— Los Angeles Police Chief William J.
Words That Move You . . .
"If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living."
— Anatole France
Need more motivation?
You Asked: How Can I Change?
Dear Sugar,
Me and my boyfriend got into a couple of bad fights last month. Actually it was more like me yelling like a crazy person and him trying to walk away. He says he does that so he won't say something he'll regret, but I take it as him not listening or not caring.
Dear Poll: Are You Good With Change?
Change makes the world go round and it enables us to grow and learn more about ourselves, but change can be terrifying for some. While I appreciate the lessons learned once the change has occurred, as a creature of habit, I have to admit that I don't handle it very well. What about you?
You Asked: Can I Trust That He's Changed?
Dear Sugar,
I was with my boyfriend for eight years; we were engaged and owned a house together. Things changed over the years, and he became a very negative and controlling boyfriend — we fought all the time. To make a long story short, I broke off the engagement and moved out.
Greg Behrendt on Common Dating Mistakes
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but when it comes to dating, I see women making the same ones over and over again. I know it's hard to see clearly sometimes when you're smitten with someone, but repeating bad behavior can quickly turn into a vicious cycle.
If you're curious to see what author Greg Behrendt thinks the most common dating mistake women make is, just read more
Group Therapy: My Boyfriend Has Anger Issues, Can He Change?
The guy I first fell for was amazingly sweet and loving. Then, after moving in together, he began to reveal a verbally abusive side of himself. He'd dish out offhanded criticisms over the smallest things, and when he was really angry (usually under the influence), his temper would fly to frightening extremes.
Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Sex Life?
Last weekend I asked you all to share the one thing you'd change about your relationship, and though your responses were all over the board, a few of you alluded to making changes in your sex life. Having a healthy sex life takes a lot of communication in the bedroom, so do tell, if you could change one thing about what happens behind closed doors, what would it be? And don't be shy, I'm sure your gripes aren't far off from everyone else's!
Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Relationship?
Many of you are making personal resolutions for 2009 such as losing weight, exercising more, or quitting smoking. Now is also a great time to think about your significant other and the changes you'd like to make in your relationship. I'm not talking about how you'd like to see your partner change — like you wish he'd stop leaving dirty underwear on the bathroom floor — I'm talking about a change you'd like to make as a couple.
Do Tell: What Adjustments Did You Make to Start Off '09?
Starting the new year off on the right foot doesn't have to be about New Year's resolutions — it can be taking a new route to work, joining a book club, or carrying a new purse — anything to break the monotony of 2008. I started '09 with a new hair cut so do tell, what personal adjustments did you make to start 2009 off with a bang?
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