May 26, 2008 -
I am not sure whether i should move on or i should stay...but i really do like him.
I got in touch with a guy a few months back.Initially,he wasn't interested in dating me,because he didn't know me at all.He was friendly and seemed like a fine guy.(this was online and we had common friends from way back).After a few weeks into the talks.He told me a little about his past
and as said that he had been into casual relationships before.He wanted to tell me all that so that I could still decide if i wanted to talk to him.I haven't dated anyone seriously before this.I didn't judge him on that,as i thought he was a fine guy.He told me that he dated
girl for a few years and later she cheated on him and dumped him.He was on a rebound and also wasn't looking for a serious relationship,so he chose the casual way.But when he dated he never cheated.I met him a few times and spent a lot of time talking to him on the phone.(this is long-distance)
But after a few months he said that he liked me,and wanted to know whether i liked him.I also asked him whether he was looking for a serious relationship,because i was not the fling/one night stand types.He said he was serious and wanted to know more about me.The time i've spent with him has been nice and i could totally trust him on that.
I know a quite a bit about him now,he is also hinting me about marriage.But now,the issue about his casual relationships/one night stands makes me wonder whether that was wrong on his part.He now is very serious about me and has been trying very hard to keep things working.
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Nov 25, 2009 -
Background information: Dated a jerk for 3 years, of course didn'tknow it, the last 3 months of the relationship was long distance which allowed me to see that I was being played for a fool, so I broke up with him because he wasn't treating me the way I should be treated. Skip forward maybe 2 months, I find out he had actually been cheating on me for 6-9 months of the last year.
So now, its been almost a year post break up. I have cutoffall types of communication and including moving out of the country. But moments of the relatinoship keep popping up in dreams, any time I have down time, am alone, that I rethink how events went and I just get so mad at myself. I can see so many moments that I should have broken up with him much earlier but didn't because I was this fool. I guess I hate feeling like this fool that got really taken advantage of.
Even now, I"ll be dreaming/fantasizing about guys that I have met and this "fantasy" turns right back to the ex and ruins it. How can this jerk of a boy still have this kind of effect on me. I havne't been on any real dates, have tried to get back into the datingworld, but its like I am not getting any hits at all. I also feel that I need (need being the operative word) to have a new boyfriend to really get my mind past the jerk because I definately deserve something awesome. But with that, I feel like the guys I meet definately see what I have on my mind - even when I do not speak of it to anybody - and pass.
I really just want to move on, start new, and have someone wonderful in mylife because I know I deserve it but it feelslike fate has said no to me. I am a believer in Karma, but I feel these days that karma has failed me, and my ex is still with the girl he was with before and it's like how does he deserve to be in a 'successful' relationship and I deserve to suffer. I know no one can answer this but when will my day come?
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Nov 24, 2009 -
see all the pics from the photoshoot HERE, and watch a video from the shoot HERE
Here's the interview from the magazine(Source:rollingstone.com)
In our latest issue, Taylor Lautner reveals how he went from a skinny martial arts kid to starring in the blockbuster Twilight franchise. In this bonus Q&A you won't find in the issue, he examines the love triangle that drives Stephenie Meyer's stories.
Don't you think that when some fans see New Moon, they may be disappointed, because you're kind of the villain in a way.I have some pretty passionate team Jacob fans [laughs].
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Nov 23, 2009 -
Ok, this is going to be a bit long and I am sorry in advance for it.
I have been on and off with my boyfriend for close to 11 years now. In the begining it was perfect but due to some family issues on both sides, the pressure of being together began to be too much.
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Nov 22, 2009 -
I was in a 2 1/2 year long relationship and it wasnt the best... it was bad... so i finally worked up the courage and left..
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Nov 21, 2009 -
Chances are that if you’ve been in a relationship, and you’re a woman, you’ve probably faked an orgasm. But did you know that men fake them too?
The research that brings us this important sexual discovery was conducted at the University of Kansas on 180 male and 101 female college students.
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Nov 20, 2009 -
As evidenced in my holiday TV sneak peek, this week's episode of Grey's Anatomy puts the doctors on a fast track that starts on Thanksgiving eve and runs through New Year's Eve. As we all know by now, the Seattle Grace surgeons aren't always big on merriment, but the holidays are always the perfect time to bring out the truth in feelings and relationships.
Meredith bonds with the Chief while Mark learns that he has a teenage daughter.
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Nov 20, 2009 -
As evidenced in my holiday TV sneak peek, this week's episode of Grey's Anatomy puts the doctors on a fast track that starts on Thanksgiving eve and runs through New Year's Eve. As we all know by now, the Seattle Grace surgeons aren't always big on merriment, but the holidays are always the perfect time to bring out the truth in feelings and relationships.
Meredith bonds with the Chief while Mark learns that he has a teenage daughter.
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Oct 10, 2007 -
My fiance has had a rather, um, colorful sexual history. On the other hand, I'm pretty conservative about sex--not that you should wait until marriage, just that it is something special to be treasured and not given out to the masses like a freebie.
Everytime we make love, I can't get the thought that everything he's doing with me, he's done with tons of other girls before.
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Nov 18, 2009 -
I've been with my BF for 5 months now. We are very happy, he's a very attentive person, taking care of my needs - all of them but one. I asked him a few times what he thinks of cheating and he said that he would forgive, as it's human nature.
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