Group Therapy: I Found Naked Pictures of His Ex!

Feb 03, 2009 - I have a great boyfriend who I have been with for nine months. We recently got back from a vacation together where we took many pictures of the sights, etc. When we got home, he put them on his computer for me so I could upload them and send them to friends. - 10 Comments

I donnu where to start!

Oct 29, 2009 - i have stumbled many times starting this post .where should really to start ?should i go back to my childhood or start from now backward? i think it wont matter as long as u read all the way through till the end i feel so naked exposing myself but i will appreciate any input i will start from now and go backward i am 34 my life from outside looks really pretty nice ..i have great career got married 4 yrs ago ...see i am stumbling again when i say "I" JUST doesnt feel right ..coz i feel lost ...i was born in a christian family my mom was very religious dad was pretty much available but not much involved mom was almost everything .she was the decision maker she would say when i eat sleep read shower etc ...i had quite few freinds during childhood but we moved a lot so i never keep up any friends for a long time ...i moved away from my family when i was 23 ...i know quite old but that is because of too much schooling i was already done with my grad studies at that point i would say i am very friendly resposible and caring person ...down to the earth ...i had so many friends and i get along with people easily i always felt very different about myself ..i didnt have much freedom to choose or think on my own as a child or teenager ...i had multiple incidents when i was a kid. i was molested many times when i was between 8-9..was .raped at 16 ...i questioned why that happened to me several times ,but never had an answer ..i told my parents about my childhood incidents but they didnt give it any attention ...i think they were in denial...i didnt tell them about  my teenage incident coz i was ashamed and i was sure they wont do anything about it as usual...i felt very helpless at that point as well... - 5 Comments

Husband is cheating???

Oct 21, 2009 - I recently visited my husband at work and walked in on a bad situation with another woman.  I heard low, husky laughter the pause...this continued until I heard a loud smacking noise and then heard him " moan ".  I was in the hallway just a short distance from his office.  When I walked in ( they heard me coming, I heard them say so) her back was to him and he was seated in his office chair.  He had an erection. His shirt was up to his navel.  He yelled at me in front of this other woman and told me I was crazy.  Later, he tells me they were just "flirting" and he had an erection because she had on a low top blouse.  I may be naive, but seriously.  Can a man get an erection just from looking at someone???  He is middle-aged so I am thinking no.  A few years ago, I found pictures a girl he worked with (she was no older than 21) in our e-mail.  She was naked.  There were several of them.  Also, other e-mail minus the naked pics.  Money was missing along with him going to "the store".  I found out later they shared the same off days.  He says he didn't cheat then either.  My opinion is that he is a lousy liar.  I have caught him in way 2 many lies.     ANY ADVICE?????   Both these girls have harrassed me repeatedly.  Esp. the girl that sent him the pics.  She would call and even came by my house demanding to "talk" to him.  She even prank called me several times.  Very childish girls that he picks.  What hurts the most, is that they were not even attractive.  One of them literally has the face of a man.  He would talk down about me to them and to others at work.  We have 3 kids and a home and this is so hard to deal with.  I feel I am married to a monster.  How could someone who loves me do this to me???  I have found porno sites on my  computer that he blamed our son for.  He has also looked at classified ads on porn sites...out of "curiosity" he says.  Counseling doesn't help because he doesn't think he has a problem.... - 10 Comments

Teenage son saw my pics in the nude..pls help

Oct 04, 2009 - My teenage son decided to snoop in my cell phone and found naked pictures of me and a very graphic text message.  He confronted me about it in a very angry manner, etc.  Please help.  How to approach this situation and what to say to him?  - 4 Comments

The green czar affair should put the final lie to The Times’ ‘objectivity’

Sep 13, 2009 - Van Jones — unfit for print The green czar affair should put the final lie to The Times’ ‘objectivity’ By KYLE SMITH Last Updated: 3:51 AM, September 13, 2009 Posted: 1:10 AM, September 13, 2009 “This is not an excuse,” the managing editor of The New York Times said after offering the following excuse for completely missing the Van Jones story, except in a blog post: “Our Washington bureau was somewhat short-staffed during the height of the pre-Labor Day vacation period.”<p> </p><br> Here’s how long-staffed The New York Times actually is. Long after Glenn Beck reported — back in July — that Jones was history’s first communist czar, and even after Gateway Pundit reported, on Sept. 3, that Jones had signed a wackadoodle 9/11 “truther” petition, The Times sent two reporters to Boston (in a story published Friday, Sept. - 2 Comments

How much porn use is too much?

Sep 07, 2009 - I live with my boyfriend of 3 years and for the past year, our sex life has steadily gone downhill.  We used to have sex 4 or 5 times a week... I don't expect that much now, and would be happy with 2 or 3 times a week IF he seemed into it.  I discovered about a year ago just how much porn he is looking at - it's every single day, sometimes 4 or 5 times a day, and he masturbates while he's watching it.  At first, I thought it was OK that he spent some time getting off to porn as long as we still had regular sex and he was satisfied by me.  By the way, he still says that he gets turned on with me and that I totally satisfy him sexually. The problem is that when he started losing interest in sex, I started looking at his internet history.  I thought he might be cheating on me, but found out that he is not.  He started a job that is very close to home so he comes home for lunch every day, and gets home from work a couple hours before I do.  I found out that not only does he jerk off to porn every morning, but he also jerks off to it almost every day at lunch time, right after he gets home from work, and sometimes in the evening before I get home.  He also looks at porn every time I leave the house on a weekend (like grocery shopping).  During this time, he has lost interest in having sex with me.  He will offer once a week or so, but it feels like it is a chore for him, which hurts me deeply and makes me feel rejected and unattractive.  I cannot compete with the endless stream of women he has access to online.  I chose my profile picture because she is his "ideal woman" - gorgeous face and body with HUGE natural breasts (I'm a D cup, but feel small compared to this!).  I also looked at his cell phone online history and have discovered that he also looks at porn on his phone, uploaded porn videos to it, and has lots of photos women with big tits. - 23 Comments