How much money should you save before moving in together?

Apr 09, 2009 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I'm a recent college graduate from New Jersey. I just got a job a few weeks ago and he's still in college about to graduate in May. - 5 Comments

I'm moving away for grad school and I'm not sure what to do about *him*

Jul 28, 2008 - So backstory. I dated R for about 3 years--throughout most of college--and we broke up last October. Since then we've begun dating again and it is incredible--loving, fun, and drama-free. - 5 Comments

How can I convince him to move here?

Jul 15, 2009 - My boyfriend has dropped hints that he is planning to propose and I am very excited. We went to school with each other as teenagers, lost touch for 10 years, and recently found each other again last year. It has been a whirlwind, but I know we are meant for each other. - 8 Comments

should I move?

Jul 19, 2009 - This is a complicated story at it's best.. My ex and I have been apart for a couple of months now, we were together for 2 years. We broke up twice, knowing that right now is not the time for us to be together. - 11 Comments

Would you move to another state to be with your boyfriend?

Jun 18, 2009 - I love my boyfriend very much & we have been having a long distance relationship for a while. I've had long distance relationships before & don't mind them, but would prefer to be in the same city, if possible. The issue at hand is really somewhat of a small one, but it is a bit troubling, nonetheless: I used to live in Florida (Miami - I like big cities) & my boyfriend lives somewhere there that is a much smaller city, with - I'm discovering, fewer options for me as far as places to buy my groceries, (I'm a vegetarian going vegan) - There is no Trader Joe's, no Whole Foods, there are no little clinics inside any CVS or Walgreens, there are no wellness classes through any local health system there, there are very few options for mind/body things...I know this sounds trivial -I should move because HE is there & his CHILDREN are there & that should be enough. - 17 Comments

move or not to move?

Jan 08, 2008 - Hi ladies! I am a 23 year old professional, living in the south and working for a real estate developer. I just graduated from college a year ago and I have gotten tired of the real world already. - 3 Comments

Moving on too quickly?

Jun 29, 2009 - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 10 years about four months ago - my decision, it had been brewing for a while, I could see no future for us together, and he wasn't convincing me that he did either. We work together (he started working at my office after we got together, not my preferred situation), and so still see each other regularly, and stay civil to each other. I have no interest in ever getting back together with him, and was happy to stay single for a good while. - 7 Comments

Should I move

Jun 01, 2009 - Ok, so, I'm a 19 year old girl who still lives with my mom and step dad. I am out of school and have a job, but my parents still treat me like a child. On week nights I have to be home around 10:30 or 11 p.m. - 11 Comments

No closure in sight; but I mentally need to move on.

Nov 09, 2008 - I dated my ex-boyfriend for over 3 years. We met at a bad time because I had just broken up with a boyfriend of 2 years. I felt really guilty and was trying to get over that. - 4 Comments