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Where Do You Stand? Flying With a Sex Toy

DearSugar — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 10:00:00 -0700

A friend of mine went overseas for a long business trip, and since she wasn't going to be seeing her boyfriend for almost a month, she took her vibrator along for the ride.

Now I'm sure you can relate to missing your significant other - especially the lovemaking - but would you go as far as packing a vibrator in your carry-on? With the souped-up security in the airport, would you be worried someone would discover the treasure you packed, or do you feel safe traveling with anything (even your unmentionable) discreetly?

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Love It or Leave It: Clone-a-Willy Make Your Own Vibrator Kit

DearSugar — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 15:00:00 -0800

I just came across this bizarre Clone-a-Willy Homemade Vibrator Kit ($45), which enables the user to make an exact reproduction of his penis so he can then turn it into a vibrator! I guess guys would prefer their ladies use the next best thing if they happen to be away for the night, but tell me, would you feel more comfortable (and aroused) using a vibrating replica of him, or does the idea of this just totally freak you out?

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Which Came First? Orgasm Alone, With a Vibrator, or With a Partner

DearSugar — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 15:00:00 -0800

I talk a lot about sex and how to have better, more consistent orgasms. And as we all know, getting there happens differently for all of us. So what about your very first orgasm? How did the magic happen for you the first time around?

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Where Do You Stand? Spending Money on Sex Toys

DearSugar — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:00:00 -0800

Last year most of you agreed that spending $12,000 on a vibrator was out of the question, but what about $1,440? Dave Stewart of the Eurythmics recently worked with an adult-only specialist firm to design a vibrator made of solid steel with a satin finish, adorned with an "eternity band" of 28 diamonds for the high price of $1,440. For a famous musician that might not seem like a lot, but for the average Joe, $1,440 could pay for more than a month's rent!

Sex toys and vibrators mean something different for everyone, so tell me where you stand on spending high prices for such bedroom accessories.

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Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: I'm Happy, But Not Sexually Pleased

E Jean Carroll — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 13:30:00 -0800

Dear E. Jean,

I’m 25 and have been with my boyfriend, a perfect gentleman, two years. In the beginning everything seemed wonderful; and things are still great except for the sex. We just can’t get it right these days. Either we have sex and it ends in disaster (over too quickly), or we make no attempts to do it at all.

I mean he tries to make "moves," but I usually reject him because I’m no longer turned on (mainly because I know how fast it will be over.) I can count on a few fingers the times I’ve had an orgasm with him in this two-year relationship! Aside from the sex we’re pretty fabulous together. He wants me to be happy; but I’m starting to feel desperate. We plan to marry next year! - Pleased, But Not Satisfied

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But Not, My Blossom,

My God! Has the man never heard of oral sex? Give him Dr. Ian Kerner’s She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman and hold a vibrator to his head until he reads the entire chapter called, "The Tongue Is Mightier than the Sword." After that ask him what he likes. It’s time you both develop sexy curiosity and open minds.

To see more advice from E. Jean, visit Elle magazine and AskEJean.com.

Love It or Leave It: Santa Vibrator

DearSugar — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 13:30:00 -0800

If you're looking for a gift for the girl that has everything, check out this cheeky vibrator shaped like Santa ($5), complete with a red hat and beard! He can bring the ultimate gift on anyone's list and he doesn't care whether you've been naughty or nice. Ho Ho Ho! So what do you think? Do you love it or could you do without it?

You Asked: My Friend With Benefits Doesn't Make an Effort

DearSugar — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 14:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar,

I had a horrible breakup not too long ago, and so I'm not currently dating right now. I'm OK with being single, but the one thing that I am not a fan of is the lack of sex. I started up a sex-buddy relationship with an ex of mine that I'm still really good friends with because we're both unattached, but I never see him! Our schedules are hard to coordinate and I don't feel that he makes the effort. I read your rules on casual sex, but I don't know how to talk to him about our lack of sex or even if I should since we're not in an actual relationship. I would think that he would be jumping at the chance for hot sex with no strings attached! Should I confront him about this or am I better off just leaving it alone?

- Sexless Stacey

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Dear Sexless Stacey,

It's true that the general idea behind a friends-with-benefits situation is that you actually get to have sex when you want, but it's also a situation centered on convenience - yours and his. By broaching this subject with him, you're automatically redefining your relationship and venturing out of the casual and into the emotional. If you want this guy to just be your sex buddy then you have to accept the flippant nature of that relationship. But instead of dealing with all of that, why not give yourself a hand and use a vibrator! I know it's not the same as having sex, but the perks are unbeatable - it comes with absolutely no drama and it's available whenever you want it!

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Dear Poll: How Many Sex Toys Do You Have?

DearSugar — Wed, 27 Feb 2008 16:00:00 -0800

Paying the price for an orgasm has been on the brain these days. Sure, nothing can beat a free orgasm, but that doesn't mean that sex toys that aid the cause should be off limits! Now ladies, you've admitted to having a vibrator, amongst other things in your nightstand, so what I want to know is, just how many sex toys do you have?

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How About a Less Expensive Orgasm?

DearSugar — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 08:00:00 -0800

OK, so most of you agreed that $12,000 was way too much to spend on an orgasm, but how about pleasure that costs a mere $92? Remember this Sex and the City episode where Miranda introduces her friends to The Rabbit? After this show aired, sales of this vibrator skyrocketed!

There are tons of vibrators out there (and other sex toys) that are supposed to guarantee miraculous life-changing orgasms. Call me cheap, but something around $100 may still be a little too steep for me but tell me, would you pay Rabbit prices for an orgasm?

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Have You Seen Me?

GiggleSugar — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 10:30:00 -0800

Why would anyone steal another person's "masturbation machine?" Oh, that's right - to use as a back massager.

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