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Turn-On or Turn-Off: Guys With Accents

DearSugar — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 10:00:00 -0800

Thank goodness for TiVo! Just like many of you probably did, I raced home yesterday to catch Brad Pitt on Oprah. I wasn't digging his mustache per se, but my ears perked up when I heard him talk. When did he get that accent? I've always been a sucker for a man with a foreign accent, but Brad's southern drawl definitely piqued my interest. Are you with me on this one? Are men with accents a turn-on or a turn-off?

Turn-On or Turn-Off: Gray Hair

DearSugar — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:30:00 -0800

We live in a culture that places a lot of emphasis on youth and looking young, which is why many women take to hair dye before they let a strand of gray tarnish their locks. While there are some men who also opt for a good dye job at the first sign of gray, it’s more common for a guy to let his hair naturally do what it’s going to do. Now, I’m not saying I’m into men decades older than me, but I do think a bit of gray flecking a beard or a salt and pepper mane can be pretty gorgeous. So do you think gray hair is a turn-on or turn-off?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Mustaches

DearSugar — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 11:00:00 -0700

George Clooney seems to be sporting a mustache these days, and it changes his look completely! I don't think there's any denying that he's still incredibly attractive, but I've got to say, I'm not a fan of his lip accessory. It might just be me, but mustaches seem to make guys look a little smarmy. I prefer my men cleanly shaven, but what about you? Are mustaches a turn on? A turn off? Or does it completely depend on who's wearing it?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Exposed Chest Hair

DearSugar — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 11:00:00 -0700

Since I know you ladies find a man with a hairy chest sexy, I'd love to have your thoughts about gents that wear the exposed chest hair look. Personally, I think a couple of buttons undone and a little chest exposure done right can be a turn on, but on some guys, I’ve seen it look more than a little sleazy. So what do you think? Is the exposed chest hair look a turn on or a total turn off?

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Turn On or Turn Off? Stay-at-Home Dads

DearSugar — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 07:00:00 -0700

There's something incredibly sexy about a man that's good with kids. Perhaps that quality just pulls on my maternal heart strings, but I have a feeling I'm not alone on this one. Though they're not set in stone, many of the roles we play are dictated by society, and women being the ones who stay at home is one of them. But what about when the roles are reversed and Dad is the one who wants to stay at home with the kids while Mom focuses on her career? Of course every family dynamic is different, so tell me, are stay-at-home dads a turn on or a turn off?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Bartenders

DearSugar — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0700

Perhaps by chance, most bartenders are cute and charming. I guess they have to be, since most of their money earned comes from tips, but catering to the drunk and sometimes belligerent would make me less than lovable! I have never dated a bartender myself, but I have a good girlfriend who has always been attracted to them - and the more tattoos, the better. So how do you feel about bartenders? In general, do you get turned on or turned off by these guys?

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Turn On or Turn Off: The Touchy Feely Flirt

DearSugar — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0700

The dating world is filled with all types of men. There's the elusive, practically perfect gentleman, the drunk and disorderly jerk, and everything in between. But there's something inherently intimate about a guy who uses the familiar powers of touch to create a connection. Obviously there's a difference between a few light brushes and inappropriate groping, but I think some touching inevitably establishes a temporary closeness. While I'm personally a fan of the more subtle approach, I can see how the familiarity of a touchy-feely flirt can be seriously appealing. What do you think? Is a man who uses the powers of touch a turn on or turn off for you?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Facial Hair

DearSugar — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 09:51:28 -0700

Facial hair is like a male accessory; whether a guy has some or not, it always says something about his particular style. And if he does keep facial hair, his particular trim job is what makes him unique. Maybe he goes for the lower lip flavor-saver or the rugged and masculine scruffy beard. Whatever his choice may be, facial hair can make a man shine or simply give him that unkempt look that some women do find incredibly appealing. Personally, I appreciate anything that highlights a man’s jawline, but I prefer the well-groomed look to facial hair. Do you find facial hair sexy?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Bringing Childlike Behavior to the Bedroom

DearSugar — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 07:00:00 -0700

We all know that teasing on the playground when you were little was a form of flirtation, but what about bringing that childlike play into the bedroom for some grownup flirting? Spanking, role playing, even pulling hair has the ability to be quite erotic, if it's done with just the right finesse, so ladies, let me ask you, is playful cat and mouse flirting - grownup style - a turn on or a turn off?

Turn On or Turn Off: Tattoos

DearSugar — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 12:00:00 -0700

I’ve always had this fantasy about getting a gorgeous tattoo scrawled across my wrist or hip bone, but I’d never go through with it. Really, tattoos just aren’t my style on my own body or on a guy’s. But some women absolutely love a man covered in tattoos. I guess there’s just something about all those colors and lines that make them go gaga. Though I can’t say a couple of tattoos would be a dealbreaker, I wouldn’t consider them a turn on. What about you?

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