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Turn On or Turn Off? Guys With Hairy Chests

DearSugar — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 11:00:00 -0800

I'm a huge fan of hair on a guy's chests. It's attractive, sexy, and very masculine. With that said, a little goes a long way - I want the guy I'm dating to look like a man, not a bear.

So what do you think about guys with hairy chests? Are they a turn on or a turn off?

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Turn On or Turn Off? Guys That Smoke

DearSugar — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 14:04:26 -0800

I've never been all that into smoking. Not only is it addictive, hard to quit, unhealthy and proven to cause conditions such as lung cancer and asthma, I can't stand a smoker's stale breath. Who wants to kiss that? That's why I think it's such a turn off to see a guy light up a cigarette.

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That's just my opinion though. What do you think about guys who smoke? Is it a turn on or a turn off?

A Turn On or a Turn Off?

DearSugar — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 16:00:00 -0800

Russell Crowe was quoted in the current issue of Men's Journal saying, "I love going shopping, I have a black belt in it. My wife [Danielle] really appreciates that in me."

While he doesn't look like a metrosexual per se, it sure does sound like he likes to shop like one! So ladies, tell me: Do you think it's a turn on or a turn off for a man to be a full fledged shopper?

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Turn On or Turn Off? Guys Watching Sports

DearSugar — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 08:00:00 -0700

I didn't grow up watching sports. So when I started dating guys who were way into sports, I didn't know what to think. At first, it kind of annoyed me for two reasons: 1.) I didn't like anything that took time and attention away from my relationship, and 2.) I didn't understand what the heck was going on.

Then I dated a guy who wanted to share sports with me (the first present he ever gave me was a hat from his favorite baseball team). He explained the rules of the games, the history of the teams, and then I actually started enjoying watching sports with him. So now when I see a guy watching sports, I love it. There's something irresistible to me about a man drinking a beer and yelling at the TV with all his buddies.

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So what do you think about guys who watch sports? Do you think it's a turn on or a turn off?

Are You Into Tattoos?

DearSugar — Thu, 30 Aug 2007 11:00:00 -0700

Tattoos hurt and they're permanent, and these are two very good reasons that I don't have any - but that's not to say that I don't appreciate them! I totally respect the fact that they often represent an idea, a person, a memory, a place, a special date, or are just an artistic design a person has a connection with or loves.

The fact still remains that I am a huge wimp when it comes to pain and needles -- I can't even deal with one shot of Novocaine -- so I'm sure I would go absolutely ballistic if I got a tattoo. I'll stick to showing off my individuality in other ways.

What about you - are you into tattoos? Do you have any? Are you attracted to people who have tattoos, or are they a huge turn off for you? Does it depend on what or where the tattoo is? Have you ever dated anyone with a memorable tattoo? I want to hear it all.

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Dear Poll: Is it a Turn On or Turn Off?

DearSugar — Fri, 15 Jun 2007 14:45:00 -0700

Do you like when guys play hard to get or do you want to know right off the bat if they are interested in you? If you have seen the movie Swingers, you will remember the infamous voicemail scene when Mikey incessantly calls Nikki the same night he meets her, pursuing her just a wee bit too hard!!! While he clearly went overboard here, do you think it is a turn on when a guy calls you soon after he asks for your numbers or do you like the excitement and the anticipation when he is aloof and obeys the "three day rule"?

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Turn-On or Turn-Off: Guys With Accents

DearSugar — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 10:00:00 -0800

Thank goodness for TiVo! Just like many of you probably did, I raced home yesterday to catch Brad Pitt on Oprah. I wasn't digging his mustache per se, but my ears perked up when I heard him talk. When did he get that accent? I've always been a sucker for a man with a foreign accent, but Brad's southern drawl definitely piqued my interest. Are you with me on this one? Are men with accents a turn-on or a turn-off?

Turn-On or Turn-Off: Gray Hair

DearSugar — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:30:00 -0800

We live in a culture that places a lot of emphasis on youth and looking young, which is why many women take to hair dye before they let a strand of gray tarnish their locks. While there are some men who also opt for a good dye job at the first sign of gray, it’s more common for a guy to let his hair naturally do what it’s going to do. Now, I’m not saying I’m into men decades older than me, but I do think a bit of gray flecking a beard or a salt and pepper mane can be pretty gorgeous. So do you think gray hair is a turn-on or turn-off?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Exposed Chest Hair

DearSugar — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 11:00:00 -0700

Since I know you ladies find a man with a hairy chest sexy, I'd love to have your thoughts about gents that wear the exposed chest hair look. Personally, I think a couple of buttons undone and a little chest exposure done right can be a turn on, but on some guys, I’ve seen it look more than a little sleazy. So what do you think? Is the exposed chest hair look a turn on or a total turn off?

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Turn On or Turn Off: Chivalry

DearSugar — Fri, 09 May 2008 16:00:00 -0700

Most women enjoy a man who has old-fashioned values - a man who opens the door for you, who pulls out your chair, even a man who helps you out of the car. But there are a other women who find chivalry to be a turn off. How, I don't know, but to each her own! I understand the notion of not "needing" a man to assist you in any way, but let's be real: We all could use a helping hand every once in a while. Since I'm so old-fashioned by nature, I find chivalrous men to be incredibly sexy - knowing how to treat a women speaks volumes in my book, but what about you? Is chivalry a turn on or a turn off?

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