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Do Tell: What Are You Thankful For?

TresSugar — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:00:20 -0800

Today's the day to give thanks for all the small and large blessings in our lives. So I want to know: what are you thankful for?

Do Tell: What Are You Thankful For?

DearSugar — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 06:00:00 -0800

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! As we all know, this day is about being thankful for our blessings. So ladies, do tell, what are you thankful for this year?

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5 Things to Be Grateful For When You're in a Relationship

DearSugar — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 07:30:00 -0800

Yesterday I gave you five things to be thankful for if you're single this Thanksgiving, but there are plenty of things to be thankful for if you're in a relationship too. If you need a reminder, check out my list below:

You always have a “wingman” at family gatherings.
You have someone to share your second piece of pecan pie with.
You have someone to recap the night with.
You have two families to celebrate the holiday with.
You don't have to feel like the third wheel when you're with your coupled-up relatives.

What about being in a relationship are you thankful for this year?

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5 Things to Be Grateful For When You're Single

DearSugar — Mon, 24 Nov 2008 06:00:00 -0800

Thanksgiving is the one holiday dedicated to being grateful for what you have, something we could all do a lot more of if you ask me. While it's sometimes easier to see the glass half empty than half full, I thought I'd put together a list of five things to be thankful for if you're single this Thanksgiving, if you're in a relationship, and if you're spending the holiday with your family. To see what I think the single ladies should be thankful for, read more.

You don’t have to worry about anyone’s holiday plans but your own.
You can spend your holiday volunteering if you want.
You don't have to share leftovers (especially that last piece of pumpkin pie!) with a significant other.
You don't have to worry about meeting anyone's family.
You can spend all your free time doing what you want to do!

Tune in tomorrow to see what all of you in relationships have to be thankful for!

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10 Women We're Thankful For

TresSugar — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:00:25 -0800

While you're giving thanks today, take a moment to be thankful for these 10 women who are changing their - and our - worlds in big and small ways.

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The How-To Lounge: Writing Wedding Thank-You Notes

DearSugar — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 15:00:00 -0700

Once the wedding is over and you're home from your honeymoon, it's time to get back to normal life and take care of long list of to dos. Hopefully you took note of who gave you what gift because now's the time to write your thank-you notes.

Time is of the essence so to see my dos and don'ts on how to make this process fast and painless, read more.

If you didn't order thank-you cards to match your other wedding papery, stick to something that has a similar look. These cards should be on the more formal side.
It's best to get your thank-you cards in the mail ASAP, preferably two to three weeks after receiving your gift, and six to eight weeks at the very most.
Be sure to hand write your thank-you notes - email does not suffice!
Make your thank-you notes personal. Mention the gift you received and be sure to note any special efforts made by that guest, if they traveled a long distance, made a speech, etc.
Even if someone didn't attend your wedding but sent a gift, be sure to send them a thank-you note. And remember, wedding thank-you notes should be separate from shower or engagement thank-you notes.
Although some think it's the wife's job to write all the thank-you notes, the husband should do his part as well. Always say "we" instead of "I" and be sure to have both signatures on every note.
Getting all your thank-you notes written can seem incredibly daunting, but if you set aside a few hours a night, throw on some music and open a bottle of wine - it shouldn't be too painful. Do whatever you can to try to make it as fun as possible!

The How-To Lounge: Writing a Thank You Note

DearSugar — Tue, 03 Apr 2007 09:30:00 -0700

Writing a thank you note is always a polite way of showing your appreciation, and a sure fire way to make someone feel special. Unfortunately thank you's oftentimes slip through the cracks, but for those that remember their manners, a thank you goes a long way. For those who need a refresher on how to write a perfect thank you note, I am here to help.

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Although sending a quick e-mail or making a phone call is more time efficient, the personal touch of a hand written note will leave a much more memorable mark
Being timely is important, but the saying "better late than never" applies when writing thank you notes
Thank you notes are most commonly written after receiving a gift, but they are also appropriate after a job interview, being a guest at a dinner party or a wedding, and can be written as a token of friendship and support
Thank you notes should be short and to the point
Make sure to add personality to your note and let the recipient know how much you loved your gift or how much you enjoyed his or her party
If you are sending a thank you note to a potential employer, spell out why you are thanking them and be sure to reiterate how much you appreciated their time
Sending flowers is another way to extend your gratitude, but don't forget to add an additional thank you on the card

Regardless of your reason for thanking someone, make sure to thank the person again before signing your name, and don't forget to check your spelling!

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The How-To Lounge: Writing Thank you Notes to Potential Employers

DearSugar — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 10:00:00 -0700

We all know that writing a thank you note is the polite way to express your gratitude, but when it comes to potential employers, many people come up blank when figuring out what to say.

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Time is of the essence when it comes to thanking potential employers. Write your thank you notes the same day as your interview or meeting and stick them in the mail ASAP so they can received either the next day, or as soon thereafter.
Thank you notes give you another opportunity to express your interest in the position at hand and to mention anything you might have forgotten to say in your interview, so choose your words wisely
Since you are most likely not the only person to interview for the position, make sure to remind them who you are. Reiterate some key points from your interview or something you had in common to jog their memory
Be sure to keep your thank you notes personal. You should send a separate note to every person you interviewed with and don't sound robotic -- make each one different and unique to the conversation you had with the person you are thanking
If you went on an informational interview where there wasn't a job available per se, a thank you note should still be written
Always thank your interviewee for their time and reiterate how interested you are in the job. Be confident but not overly presumptuous
Be sure to have someone proof read your thank you note. Spelling or grammar errors can actually help you not get the job so be precise and diligent when writing your letters

I hope these tips are helpful if you are right in the middle of a job search. Remember, while nailing the job might be your first priority, your potential employers are most likely swamped with work, so don't get too let down if you don't hear from them right away. Oftentimes a follow up call or e-mail is necessary to get the ball back in motion. Good luck and if anyone has other tips that they found helpful, please share what you've got up your sleeve!

Do Tell: How Do You React When Someone Doesn't Say Thank You?

DearSugar — Thu, 01 May 2008 10:00:00 -0700

As someone who likes to share with friends and family, I'm amazed by people's manners, or lack thereof. I feel that saying thank you, even when something seems expected, should be second nature, but the older I get, the more I realize that not everyone feels the same way. But is there anything you can do or say when your generosity isn't appreciated or acknowledged? I bite my tongue whenever someone "forgets" to say thank you, but sometimes I feel like I shouldn't. I might be overly sensitive on this topic, but ladies, do tell: How do you react when someone forgets their pleases and thank yous?

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Group Therapy: a thank you to everyone!

Mon, 18 Jun 2007 15:41:32 -0700

This isn't really a group therapy post, but I wanted to say thank you SO much to the sugar girls who gave me advice on my post "looking for a new job." I took your advice and got a great job offer today! THANKS LADIES!!!