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Dear Poll: Will You Be Buying New Lingerie For Valentine's Day?
As you know, we're giving away a $500 shopping spree at Agent Provocateur to get you ready for Valentine's Day, but if you're not lucky enough to be our big winner, I'm curious to know if you'll be buying something hot and racy for the big day regardless. Lingerie is sure to spice up the night, but some women just don't feel sexy wearing it. So ladies, what about you?
You Asked: Do You Have Any Orgasm Tips?
Dear Sugar,
I'm a 47-year-old woman and I've only had sex with my first love — my husband of 31 years. The reason I'm writing is to ask if it's normal to only be able to climax in one position. I can only orgasm when I'm on top which makes me think I'm missing out on so many other fun positions.
Have You Ever Made a Sex Tape?
Thank you all for participating in Maxim magazine's sex survey so far — I'm sure their male readers have learned quite a bit about what women want and expect from them! To finish off this fun series, I have one more question for you to answer before taking the rest of their survey here.
As we all know, some couples like to experiment in the bedroom, and since your secrets are safe with us, tell me, have you ever made a sex tape?
This or That: Caught in the Car or Stuck in the Rain?
In an attempt to spice things up, your boyfriend decides to take things out of the bedroom and onto the open road. But what you think is just a romantic mini road trip ends up being more than you bargained for. Parking off a one-lane, seldom-used road, you guys to try something totally new.
You Asked: Our Sex Life Is Missing Something
Dear Sugar,
I'm 27 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been together for four years. He and I are in the process of purchasing a home and moving in together with his 7-year-old son of whom he has primary custody. We have a great relationship, operate a successful business, and are building a nice family.
The How-To Lounge: Spicing Up the Mundane
One of the most common couples' complaints is not having enough time for intimacy. In response, people always offer a rather silly solution: Set aside a special “sexy” time. This may work for some people, but personally I think the idea of setting a sex schedule is mildly depressing.
You Asked: Am I Ready for This Next Step?
Dear Sugar,
I can't believe I'm going to ask this but I don't have anyone else to ask and I have come to trust your opinions, so here it goes. I am a very happy married young lady and my relationship with my husband is great and so is our sex life, but for the past couple of months he's been wanting to have anal sex — something I've never done before. I must say I am really scared of having sex that way and I don't even know why ( I guess I think that it will hurt) but I also want to satisfy my husband's needs.
How Can I Spice Things up in the Bedroom?
I have so many friends that have been in a relationship for over a year, who are complaining that the fire is less than blazing in the bedroom. The beginning was all fireworks and romance, and now it's such an effort to keep things going sexually.
It's totally normal for couples to hit a dry spot.
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Have You Ever Had an International Lover?
As with food, adding some international flavor to your love life can really spice things up. Results of a poll that asked women to rate the men they've slept with based on their country of origin (German men came in last and Spanish men came in first) got me curious about how many of us actually date people of different nationalities.
Now I'm looking to you readers to clue me in: have you only explored a dating pool made up of fellow citizens, or have you had an international lover?
Where Do You Stand? Getting Kinky Gifts
One way to spice things up in the bedroom is to bring something new and exciting into the mix. Sex toys, candles, erotic music, and edible undies are all surefire ways to turn your libido from blah, to blow-your-mind amazing! So I'm wondering how you'd feel if your partner surprised you with a kinky gift — maybe a light-up vibrator, a provocative piece of lingerie, or a steamy porn video.
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