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You Asked: I Can Only Orgasm Alone
Dear Sugar,
I seem to have problems orgasming during foreplay or sex, especially when my significant other and I are being romantic. I can have an orgasm usually every day from masturbating, but have to put so much effort into having one when I'm with a guy. When he gets all romantic, it's even harder for me.
You Asked: My Hubby Says He's Horny But He Doesn't Want to Have Sex
Dear Sugar,
I love my husband very much, and he says he loves me too. The only issue is that he's 43 and says that since he's older than me (by five years), at his age he just isn't interested in sex with me, or with anyone for that matter. So why, if he says that, does he stay up all night long on the computer, going to porn sites and chatting online about sex?
You Asked: My Boyfriend Won't Have Sex With Me
Dear Sugar,
I really don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship for two years and we've been living together for a year and a half. I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 34.
You Asked: Is It Wrong to Masturbate While I'm Married?
Dear Sugar--
I have been married for almost two years. In the beginning the sex was great but it always seemed it was only when he wanted it. At first I thought it was like that since I lived with my parents we didn't have as much alone time, but now we've been married for a year and I don't climax when we have sex.
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Group Therapy: Can Virgins Be Sexually Frustrated Too?
Okay, this is quite embarrassing but discussing it in this forum makes me feel better because everyone gives big sister advice so here it goes.
I am a 20-something year old virgin and lately (as in the past few months) I have been thinking about sex ALL THE TIME. I mean I'm not virgin because of religious reasons, I'm just waiting until I find a boyfriend that that I really connect with.
Hump Day: My Boyfriend Is a One-Minute Man
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
A Sexually Frustrated PSA
Someone seriously thought the best way to promote healthier eating was by way of a phallic looking dessert? And to make matters worse, they animated it to show how it's turned on by itself? This is one PSA that doesn't rise to the occasion, no matter which way you think about it.
Writer Boldly Goes Where No Mother Has Gone Before
I've had a love/hate relationship with Ayelet Waldman for some time, but the more I read her work and listen to her speak, the more I realize that my ambivalence is with the subjects she discusses more than it is with her: motherhood, work, feminism, and the idea of "having it all."
Waldman, whose husband is writer Michael Chabon, caused a bit of controversy a few years ago when she declared (in a rhetorically bold and questionable move) that she loved her husband more than her children. She said she wanted to contrast herself from the women in her circle she noticed were no longer sexually involved with their husbands because they'd subsumed their identities to being mothers.
Craigslist Casual Encounters: A New(ish) Sexual Frontier
I wonder how many people Craigslist founder Craig Newmark has helped to find an apartment, sell a guitar . . .
You Asked: His Sex Drive Has Disappeared
Dear Sugar,
I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. In the beginning, he was crazy about me and more into me, sexually speaking, than I was into him. At that time, we'd have sex pretty much every time we saw each other.
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