We've discussed how a friends-with-benefits situation can lead to problems. But if you're single, sometimes you want to be able to enjoy a little nooky with a partner who you actually know, so there are some perks to having a trusted booty call. Of course it's all about finding a balance between physical intimacy and emotional detachment. In the hopes of helping achieve this perfect and elusive Read more

While quickies can be fun, I think there's something to be said for languishing in some serious foreplay. Not only does it really get you in the mood, but it's a great opportunity to communicate your needs to your partner. I think foreplay is best when you take your time, letting a burst of intensity sneak in every once and a while, but some people like foreplay to be short and sweet. Every Read more

Dear Sugar, My boyfriend and I are both 20, and we have been dating for almost two years. We're a very sexual couple and have sex at least three times a week, however I'm not so sure it's because he's attracted to me or because he just needs the sex. He watches porn every other day and masturbates daily. When we have sex, I usually pleasure him orally first and then we have sex because he says Read more

Have you ever seen Elexa condoms at the drugstore and wondered what made them so different? Yeah sure, they have a very lovely colorful package with a sexy woman on the front, but there's more to it. Elexa is a brand made by Trojan, that's specifically designed for women. They make a premium line of products created from a woman's perspective that are designed to help women experience a more Read more

I know I'm always looking for ways to spice up the action in the bedroom, so here's a fun idea you can try out. It's called "YOUR Turn — MY Turn," and here's how it works. Choose 2 consecutive nights that you and your partner are available. If you want, you can even plan a 2-night weekend getaway somewhere. Let it be your partner's turn first. That means for the entire night, they get to Read more