Do Older Women Have More Orgasms or Lower Expectations?


Updated 07/29/10 1:09 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 5 comments

Age and Orgasms

A new study reveals sex complaints change with age. Most younger women, between 18-30, list not being able to orgasm as their number-one gripe, while women over 30 say it's lack of desire. Desire seems like a prerequisite for an orgasm, so could it just be that older women have lower — or more realistic — expectations. Partially. Only 30 percent of women actually do orgasm from sex, so more Read more

Ever Faked an Orgasm Because You're a Mom?


Updated 04/07/10 9:00 PM · Posted by LilSugar · 5 comments

Kristina Fakes Orgasm on NBC's Parenthood

Last night on Parenthood, Kristina admitted to Max's behavioral therapist, Gaby, (and later to Adam) that she has faked orgasms because she is so preoccupied with her kids. She said: The worry never goes away. I find myself up late at night just worrying about Max and is there something we should have tried, something we should try. When I'm not worried about him, I worry about the fact that I Read more

Hump Day: He Has Trouble Orgasming


Updated 12/30/09 4:09 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 4 comments

My Male Partner Has  Trouble Orgasming

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. If you have questions about sex, send them to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's question: “I've always had trouble having an orgasm, but my latest partner does too, and it's the first time I've come across this in a man. We just end up stopping before anyone climaxes. Any Read more

Hump Day: How Can I Become Multi-Orgasmic?


Updated 11/11/09 8:00 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 3 comments

Hump Day: How Can I Become Multi-Orgasmic?

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm? Is there something you'd like to try but you're worried it's too weird? Send your questions to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's Question: "I keep hearing about women who can have 'multiple orgasms' and I Read more

Hump Day: Where's My G-Spot?


Updated 11/03/09 5:12 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 4 comments

Hump Day: Where's My G-Spot?

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm? Is there something you'd like to try but you're worried it's too weird? Send your questions to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's Question: "I have decent enough sex with my boyfriend, but I don't always have Read more

Orgasms: Too Much of a Good Thing?


Posted by FitSugar · 13 comments

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder

Achieving an orgasm is a hot topic. Women want more, are faking it, and are looking for ways to make it easier and more enjoyable. Can you imagine what it's like to have too many orgasms then, as in 100 to 200 a day? This condition is known as persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) or persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS) and can leave the affected woman in a state of arousal for hours, Read more

Hump Day: What Are Some Unconventional Erogenous Zones?


Updated 10/27/09 12:02 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 5 comments

Hump Day: What Are Some Unconventional Erogenous Zones?

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm? Is there something you'd like to try but you're worried it's too weird? Send your questions to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's Question: “I would like to be a better lover. What are some unconventional Read more

Have You Ever Faked an Orgasm?


Updated 09/12/10 11:31 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 22 comments

Have You Ever Faked an Orgasm?

I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who told me that she'd never had an orgasm with a man — but that she almost always faked it. It really surprised me because she seemed otherwise like a take-charge kind of woman — confident, beautiful, and certainly not shy. I didn't understand why she'd feel the pressure! (She was an actress, though, so I guess that kind of makes sense.) Most Read more

Slow-Sex Movement Guru: On Orgasms and Sex Positivity


Updated 08/24/09 8:36 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 0 comments

Nicole Daedone on Orgasms, Sex Positivity and the Future of the Slow Sex Movement

"I’ve never actually met a woman who wasn’t orgasmic. I’ve met women who’ve put themselves against a cultural idea, but we orgasm differently from the model that we’re told orgasm is." This is the last post in a four-part series of interviews I had with Nicole Daedone, who is emerging as the leader of the slow-sex movement, and who founded the OneTaste urban retreat center in San Read more

Hump Day: Difference Between Clitoral and Vaginal Orgasms?


Updated 08/20/09 5:16 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 1 comment

Hump Day: Difference Between Clitoral and Vaginal Orgasms?

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column! Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm? Is there something you'd like to try but you're worried it's too weird? Send your questions to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's Question: "Is there a difference between a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal one? I Read more