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You Asked: Did I Destroy Our Friendship?
Dear Sugar,
I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for three months — we had been together for more than four years. After the breakup we talked occasionally and our friendship was pretty solid. She recently flew to another city for a job interview and we got into a fight.
Dear Poll: Have You Ever Had a Friend Cross the Line?
Though many of you have had perfectly platonic relationships with friends of the opposite sex, inarguably, there are certain friendships that can leave one person wanting more than the other. While the fear of ruining a friendship can help squash these feelings, sometimes the attraction and connection is so strong that a person can’t help but put themselves out there regardless the consequences. So what I want to know is, have you ever had someone break the just-friends rule with you?
The How-To Lounge: Just Being Friends
It’s happened to all of us, right? You meet a great guy, and although you’re not attracted to him like that, you just adore him as a friend. Then suddenly, you get the vibe that he's feeling a bit more than friendly towards you.
You Asked: I'm Having Feelings For My Best Friend
Dear Sugar,
I developed feelings for my best, guy friend a couple of months ago. We had been hanging out for less than a year and I thought we were compatible. When I finally got up the courage to ask him if he thought we would ever be more than friends, he rejected me.
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You Asked: I'm Ready to Be More Than Friends
Dear Sugar,
I have a guy best friend that I've known for six years. We hooked up a couple weeks ago and he confessed that he's always been attracted to me. Since we were friends for so long, I told him that we couldn't be more.
Do You Think You're Emotionally Intelligent?
In some ways, this is a trick question, because if you're not emotionally intelligent — defined very broadly as someone "particularly good at establishing positive social relationships with others, and avoiding conflicts, fights, and other social altercations" — you might think you are anyway!
But October is Emotional Intelligence month, and it seemed a good time to remind people, as Emotional Intelligence author Daniel Goleman claims in his book subtitle, that "it can matter more than IQ." We've all known the brilliant boss or friend who had a horrible temper or little ability to empathize and couldn't figure out why, in the case of the boss, no one ever stuck around for long, or, in the case of the friend, people had to break up with them they were so toxic.
Ask a Party Planner: Should I Date Outside My Religion?
Conventional Wisdom is a different kind of advice column. Your questions will be answered by people from all walks of life rather than by advice experts. If you have a question you'd like answered on Conventional Wisdom, you can submit it here.
Hump Day: I'm Self-Conscious About Receiving Oral Sex
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
Clash of Cultures Puts Latina Teens in Danger of Suicide
According to the Centers For Disease Control and Prevention, one out of seven Latina teenagers attempts suicide.
Psychologist Dr. Luis Zayas of Washington University, who has spent the last 25 years studying Latina teens, believes that this rate is so high because of the teens' troubled relationships with their mothers.
Ask a Divorced Woman: Can I Save My Marriage?
Conventional Wisdom is a different kind of advice column. Your questions will be answered by people from all walks of life rather than by advice experts. If you have a question you'd like answered on Conventional Wisdom, you can submit it here.
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