Acting Happy Won't Make Your Marriage Happy


Updated 07/20/10 1:35 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 10 comments

Acting Happy Won't Make You Happy in Marriage

Common sense may say couples who are nicer, less critical, and more forgiving last, but science now says nice is not for everyone. In fact, the only couples who benefit from acting happy are those who genuinely are happy. While couples who interact with courtesy, love, and respect have the best chance of lasting, forced positive thoughts and actions are not behind it; rather, their solid marriage Read more

Quiet Riot: Shyness May Lead to Marriage Strife


Updated 06/13/10 11:49 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 8 comments

Shyness May Cause Marriage Problems

Whether you think shyness is learned or innate, it can make finding a relationship hard enough. Now two new studies show struggles for shy people don't end after they've crossed the wedding altar. Researchers found shyness leads to more severe problems for newlyweds and lower marital satisfaction overall. From trust issues and jealousy to money problems and household management, shy people Read more

You Asked: My Friend Is Having Marriage Problems


Updated 01/05/08 8:40 PM · Posted by · 10 comments

You Asked: My Friend Is Having Marriage Problems

Dear Sugar, I have a friend who was dating this great girl. Things were going well, but he had to move away for his career, and they kept up a long-distance relationship. He recently came back to her and they got married, but something had changed. He says that she’s avoiding being intimate with him. She rejects most of his advances and refuses to make any of her own. He’s worried that she Read more

Link Time — Adele Is the Answer to Our Problems


Updated 02/13/12 5:11 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 1 comment

Adele Songs For Every Mood

Here's an Adele song for every problem life might throw at you — Huffington Post New Jersey's state senate passes gay marriage bill — The Daily Beast Valentine's Day dates for newly engaged couples — YourTango The dos and don'ts of PDA — CollegeCandy 10 reasons to love small boobs — The Frisky Disturbing tweets from Chris Brown's female fans — Slate The Vow tops the box office — Read more

"I'm Worried I'm Marrying Too Young"


Updated 02/12/12 9:15 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 7 comments

How Young Is Too Young to Marry?

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. I'm 20 about to turn 21, my boyfriend is 21. Weve been together for almost three years, we'll be moving in together in a couple months and plan to get married next year. We've never had huge problems, nothing to make us question our compatibility or future Read more

Tax Stuff Every Newlywed Should Know


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Newlywed Tax Tips

You're still hearing wedding bells, but don't let the honeymoon phase distract you from reality. Money is a huge factor in relationships and if you don't tackle it from the start, it can start to shake the cornerstones of your marriage. Kathy Pickering, the executive director of The Tax Institute at H&R Block, names a few things newlyweds should be aware of come tax time: Filing Status: A Read more

Glee-ful Highlights From Episode "The Spanish Teacher"


Updated 02/08/12 11:45 AM · Posted by · 2 comments

Glee Recap "The Spanish Teacher"

Glee goes Latin this week when guest star Ricky Martin stops by to shake it and teach Mr. Schue a thing about Spanish (which, despite being a Spanish teacher, he does not know). A couple more people find out about Finn and Rachel's engagement, though Mercedes and Sam are still far more unclear about their relationship. Sue also announces a highly frightening desire to be a mother while clawing at Read more

5 Surprising Health Benefits of Being a Sports Fan


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Being a Sports Fan Is Good For Your Health

We are excited to share one of our fave stories from Prevention here on FitSugar! By Cristina Goyanes, Prevention It’s no wonder your friends aren’t available to hang out on Sundays in the Fall and Winter — according to a 2005 Gallup Poll, 64 percent of Americans claim to be professional football fans, and as of 2010, women make up 44 percent of the NFL fan base. Being a sports fan Read more

"I'm Trying to Avoid Sex With My Boyfriend"


Updated 01/30/12 6:00 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 22 comments

Avoiding Sex With Boyfriend

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. We've had so many sexual problems. I'm 24 and he's 29. We've been dating for close to four years now. He was my first sexual partner. We started having sex after about a year together, although it was very rare. We would sometimes have gaps of up to two months at a Read more

Group Therapy: He Wants a Break — Should I End It?


Updated 02/08/12 4:00 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 13 comments

He Wants a Break, Should I End Relationship?

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I've been in my current relationship for nearly two years with a wonderful guy. We've been discussing marriage for a little over a year, with him just not ready. For the past few months it seems he has shut down in the relationship. Won't make decisions, rarely expresses emotion about Read more