Gifts For Long-Distance Lovers


Updated 02/12/12 9:00 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Gifts For a Long Distance Boyfriend

If you're not living in the same city with your significant other, it might be hard to know what he's missing for his everyday life. But if you're shopping for a gift, you can simply go with something that will make the time apart more manageable. Whether for Valentine's Day, an anniversary, or just to say I'm thinking of you, here are a few gift ideas for your long-distance lover that are both Read more

Group Therapy: Man of My Dreams Lives 3,000 Miles Away


Updated 06/16/11 3:10 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Man of My Dreams Lives 3,000 Miles Away

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I met the man of my dreams a few months ago. We've chatted here and there, but he recently flew me out for the weekend to visit. He was a total gentleman and we totally hit it off. I am completely head over heels but he lives 3,000 miles away. I think he feels the same but I am not positive. Read more

3 Things to Consider Before Moving For Love


Updated 03/31/11 10:00 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Things to Consider Before Moving For a Relationship

Moving is hard enough, but moving for a relationship is risky. Fortunately, most people who've done it say it's a risk worth taking, even when the relationship doesn't last. Monday I asked what you would and wouldn't do again when taking yourself and a relationship to a new place. Here's some of your best advice. Move closer, but don't live together: "Going from seeing each other two weekends a Read more

Moving For Love — Tell Us What You Learned


Updated 03/30/11 3:08 AM · Posted by · 10 comments

Moving Long Distance For a Relationship

Whenever I meet someone who lives or has lived far from where they grew up, I usually ask what brought them there. Half the time the answer is a relationship, and for nearly all that half the relationship is long over. They never seem to regret it — how you arrive is less important than why you stay — but moving in together is tricky enough. Combine it with a long-distance move, and you have Read more

Group Therapy: How Do I Show I Care Without Seeming Clingy?


Updated 06/29/11 9:41 AM · Posted by · 7 comments

Not Seeming Clingy in Long-Distance Relationships

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Things are moving along with a guy I have been talking to for quite some time. We don't live near each other but we basically decided there's no one else we'd rather be with after seeing each other about a month ago. He has been more forthcoming than myself with how he feels (telling me not to Read more

Should Long-Distance FWBs End When They Get Too Serious?


Updated 01/26/11 4:41 PM · Posted by · 2 comments

Long Distance Friends With Benefits

Controversy over casual sex aside, a lot of people have long-distance minirelationships. Someone to "see" when you visit your hometown or a place you used to live, or whatever. We like to think of them as friends-with-benefit situations, but sometimes it's hard to keep it casual when it's so easy to IM, text, and read status updates. So if moving isn't an option, and you feel like you're getting Read more

Is Long-Distance Love Worth the Money?


Updated 01/21/11 3:16 AM · Posted by · 7 comments

Cost of Long-Distance Relationship

I was watching Suze Orman on TV the other day, and a girl called in to ask if her long-distance relationship is worth the cost as she's a struggling senior in college living with her parents. Suze told her that she did not approve of it as the girl admitted that she didn't know if she were going to marry the guy. I'm a big advocate of long-distance relationships, because sometimes the right fit Read more

Group Therapy: My Boyfriend Disappeared After a Year


Updated 10/25/10 2:48 PM · Posted by · 10 comments

Why Would My Boyfriend Disappear?

This question is an excerpt from Group Therapy in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I was in a long distance relationship, which began when I met the guy last summer in London while he was working out here. It was a whirlwind romance, and we had the best fun together . . . he was just amazing. After 4 months, he returned to France and we continued to see each other at Read more

Group Therapy: How Do I Confront a Liar?


Updated 08/18/10 8:02 AM · Posted by · 38 comments

Confronting a Lying Man

This is an excerpt from a Group Therapy question in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! About 3 months ago an older but extremely charming man asked me out: he currently lives in Asia (I am in London) but he runs a global business so is in Europe often. We met for dinner and had such amazing chemistry we have spoken or emailed every other day since and spend every night he Read more

Group Therapy: Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship


Updated 09/03/10 5:56 AM · Posted by · 11 comments

Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship

This is an excerpt from a Group Therapy question in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I just moved away from home for the first time to attend graduate school. I have left behind my dear family and friends but also my boyfriend of almost 2 1/2 years. We are very close and strong and have discussed being married, having children, and our lives together in the future many Read more