Sugar Editorial Picks
Oct 28, 2008 -
Although people have varying opinions on whether or not guys and girls can really just be friends, I do think there’s something to be said for having the male perspective at your disposal. If you’re wondering why your male co-worker always asks you to lunch but never asks you out, your guy friend may be able to shed some light on a subject that your female friends wouldn’t. But would you take it one step further and describe to him a problem or question you have related to sex?
- 26 Comments
Sep 26, 2008 -
For the past year you’ve been single, and it’s been great, in part to the good friends you’ve made; one of whom happens to be a guy who is also single. You've headed to the bars together and lamented your dating woes on multiple occasions and he's been a great support. But out of nowhere, he asks you to a more formal dinner.
- 22 Comments
Aug 28, 2008 -
I met a guy a few years ago while on vacation. Since that time we have stayed in contact and become the best of friends. Of course, there have been romantic undertones to our relationship.
- 13 Comments
Aug 22, 2008 -
You and your best guy friend have known each other for over ten years and you’ve never been anything more than friends. You’ve both watched each other go through difficult times and failed relationships, but now things have become complicated. He’s finally settled down with a girlfriend, and you’ve found yourself pining away for his closest male friend.
- 10 Comments
Aug 01, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I have had a two-year relationship that is loving, exciting, and strong in all respects. My only concerns stem from the fact that he maintains contact with several females who he once had romantic relationships with. He sees them on occasion when he and his friends hang out — they're part of his group.
- 49 Comments
Jul 17, 2008 -
Though many of you have had perfectly platonic relationships with friends of the opposite sex, inarguably, there are certain friendships that can leave one person wanting more than the other. While the fear of ruining a friendship can help squash these feelings, sometimes the attraction and connection is so strong that a person can’t help but put themselves out there regardless the consequences. So what I want to know is, have you ever had someone break the just-friends rule with you?
- 11 Comments
Jul 14, 2008 -
Quite rightly, opinions vary about whether or not men and women can truly be just friends as everyone has encountered different situations from which to draw their point of view. And things only get more complicated when you’re in a relationship.
I’ve always figured that once you’re in a serious relationship, friendships of the opposite sex would naturally fade away.
- 45 Comments
Jun 19, 2008 -
One of my best male friends has been acting a little nervous around me for the past few months now, and since it isn't normal, I asked him about it. He evaded the question, so I let it go. Recently he asked me if I was free anytime to talk, which brought me to the conclusion that he has at least a few feelings for me.
- 15 Comments
May 14, 2008 -
I have been best friends with "John" since we were both 15 years old. We are 26 now, and he is beginning to express an interest in something more than just friendship. I feel completely unsure about this.
- 10 Comments
May 01, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
A few months ago, I got out of a long-term relationship and started dating again. After the breakup, a lot of my friends chose to side with my ex over me, and I have had increasing financial and professional problems ever since. Under all of this stress, I started going out with my current boyfriend.
- 12 Comments