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Tip No. 6: Surviving Valentine's Day When You're Single

DearSugar — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 13:30:00 -0800

Going outside of your comfort zone can be terrifying, but it can also be incredibly rewarding - I'm sure all you empowered women know just what I mean! Patty Brisben feels the same way, so if you want to check out what she's advising in her sixth tip, just read more.

Broaden your horizons by stepping outside your box and trying something new - whether it is supporting the arts by attending the theater, opera, or local art museum or even trying out a new hobby. By focusing on yourself, you will not only grow as an individual, but you'll also find that having a relationship is the last thing on your mind.

To see all of Patty's tips, click here.

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Tip No. 3 For Avoiding a Holiday Sex Slump

DearSugar — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 10:00:00 -0800

Patty Brisben, of PureRomance.com fame, is back to offer up another tip so we can learn how to avoid a sex slump of our own and master how to bring the romance back after the holiday stress is behind you. Check out her advice below:

Creativity has long been linked with sexual appetite, so share a creative project with your main squeeze - make personalized ornaments, bake holiday cookies, cook a romantic meal with one another, or decorate the Christmas tree. Even a small project like decorating a tree comes with challenges (making sure the tree doesn’t lean, that all the lights are working, etc.) and believe it or not, taking on a task and working through all the quirks together can often spark a little romance. You’ll both benefit from feelings of teamwork when you’re able to take a look at the final results of something you took on and accomplished together!

To learn more about Patty, click here and to visit PureRomance.com, click here. To see her previous tips, click here!

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The How-To Lounge: Hobbies

DearSugar — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 16:00:00 -0700

With life as busy as it is, it can seem like there’s no time to sleep, let alone take up a hobby. But a hobby can actually help you slow down and make invaluable time for yourself during the busiest moments. While I know there are those of us who’ve been rocking a hobby since childhood, I’m sure there are some of us still looking for a way to do something just for ourselves. To see my tips for starting up a new hobby just read more.

Instead of picking a hobby at random, think about what really interests you. If you’re not crafty, scrapbooking is probably not a great idea. But if you love sports, joining a recreational soccer team may just be a perfect fit.
Your hobby is supposed to be enjoyable so make sure you pick something you can actually have fun with! For example, just because you love politics doesn’t mean you want to take up political blogging, which could require more time, energy, and thought than you’re willing to expend. You want it to add to your energy, not to take away from it.
It might be unrealistic to make time for your hobby every day, but try to set aside at least an hour each week that you can spend doing it. If that’s too much, let it be what you can turn to during your alone time.
Like with anything else you want to accomplish, try setting a goal for yourself. Not only will it give you something to work towards, but meeting a goal will give you a sense of personal accomplishment you can’t get from the working world.
Use your hobby as an opportunity to branch out and meet new people. You can make new friends, and find even more excuses to invest yourself in an activity that’s just for you.

Hobbies are great stress relievers, so just because they may seem time consuming at first, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give them a try.

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Sarkozy Collects Stamps? 10 All-American Presidential Hobbies

CitizenSugar — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 07:00:04 -0800

French President Nicolas Sarkozy revealed yesterday that he really likes collecting stamps. It sort of surprised me that the supermodel seducer has such a harmless hobby. The little known fact also got me curious about American presidents' pastimes. Take a look at 10 of my favorite presidential hobbies. Source

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Group Therapy: I Need to Find Myself

Sun, 31 Aug 2008 11:00:00 -0700

My boyfriend and I broke up for a short time about two weeks. Though it was brief, it forced me to look at myself and the person I have become. I focus a lot on my boyfriend and me as a team and never pay too much mind to myself as an individual. I don't have real hobbies and enjoy the time I spend with my boyfriend who seems to brighten up even the most boring situation. I know that while that's normal, finding things that are enjoyable that I can do alone may end up being a bit more healthy.

I am 22 years old, suffer from depression, but truly love life, and I don't want to continue wasting it and not thinking about myself and my happiness. After the short breakup, I was utterly heartbroken, and now I have this urgency to do something to make me happy, and not just depend on him for it. I am at a complete loss as to what to do, and I feel strange for that. I feel like what I am striving for - a hobby, independence, or happiness - is completely unattainable. Has anyone felt like this? What did you do to pull yourself together and start caring about you?

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Relationship Protocol: What New Interests Have You Adopted?

DearSugar — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 13:00:00 -0700

As a relationship develops and your life begins to blend more with your significant other's, it’s likely you'll find your interests expanding to include some of his. At first it might just be a matter of exposure, but after a while his hobby can turn into yours, and vice versa. But the same goes for habits. I’ve seen plenty of night owls turn into morning people when dating a morning person or a health nut start appreciating the junk foods that her significant other loves. Ladies, what about you and your man? Have you guys picked up any of the other's habits or interests?

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You Asked: How Can I Make His Hobby Less Painful for Me?

DearSugar — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 06:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar--

My husband's favorite past time is to listen to live bands and he very much wants my company. I prefer early quite nights while the bands typically start at 10:30PM. How can I make the crowds, noise, and boisterous scene in general more bearable so I can actually spend time with my husband? -- Up for Suggestions Samantha

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Dear Up for Suggestions Samantha --

First of all, I must commend you for asking for suggestions on how to make his hobby more manageable for you rather than finding ways to get out of it. Your husband is very lucky to have such an understanding wife!

To make the late nights less daunting, make a compromise with your hubby -- as we all know, relationships are all about give and take. Grin and bare it every once in a while, but in return, let him know that you want him to spend some nights at home, relaxing with you, doing what you want to do. Perhaps you can do a little research and see if there is a different venue with similar music that has a more desirable show time. A cocktail or two will surely take the edge off and could make the noise a little more manageable -- and who knows, you might even actually enjoy yourself!

Knowing that the loud nights aren't an everyday occurrence will make them much less painful for you, not to mention having something to look forward to when it's your night to make the plans. I hope these tips help!

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Five Great Things About Being Single!

DearSugar — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 08:00:00 -0700

Being single has its ups and downs, but today, in the spirit of kicking off our coverage of National Singles Week, I thought it would fun to embrace our single-hood!
Sometimes you don't miss something until it's gone so make sure you don't forget these five great things about being single. As always, let me know what I've missed! Source

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Rule #2 For Jump-Starting Your Summer Fun!

DearSugar — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 13:00:00 -0700

If you're single this Summer, this week is for you! Since the days are long and the nights are warm, I'm here to offer you some tips on how to make the most out of your waking hours and possibly even meet someone to share them with! I hope you enjoy my five rules for jump-starting your Summer fun!

Rule Number 2

Though they may be the most popular places to meet someone, a bar is not always the best spot, so ditch that idea and join an intramural sports team in your neighborhood. The thrill of competition always creates camaraderie, so you can’t help but get to know other people, all while enjoying some much-needed fresh air and sunshine. Plus, there’s always the opportunity for a postgame beer with your favorite teammate! So hop online or ask around the office and find a team that works for you.

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Dear Poll: What's Your Neglected Interest or Talent?

DearSugar — Tue, 13 Feb 2007 14:01:00 -0800

I'm wondering what you'd do if you were given another two hours a night and an extra weekend day, just for something important to you. Imagine your family has already been given all the care and attention they need, and you can pursue your own pleasures entirely.

What is it you'd most like to be doing? Is there something you've loved but can't find time for? What's your untended interest or talent?

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