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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/3010634&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=106 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/25_2008/200274605-001.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The annual Pap smear could become a relic if a new DNA test proves as effective as promised. According to a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/07/health/07virus.html?scp=1&amp;amp;sq=pap%20smear&amp;amp;st=cse&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;study published last week&lt;/a&gt; in the &lt;b&gt;New England Journal of Medicine&lt;/b&gt;, a new screening involving DNA could be better than all other tests in detecting &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/hpv&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;HPV&lt;/a&gt; and cervical cancer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For women over 30, the test would only have to be performed every three, five, or 10 years, which would mean an end to the annual smear. But doctors are hesitant to abandon Paps altogether, since the procedure has been incredibly effective at reducing rates of cervical cancer. The new test could be most helpful in lower-income countries, where there are fewer doctors trained to read Pap smears and it&#039;s more difficult for women to return for followup appointments. I&#039;m sure I&#039;m not the only one who would welcome a less invasive test; what do you think?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1964543&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=106  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/37_2008/56678278.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Now that we&#039;ve delved into &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1909280&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;what is and isn&#039;t normal&lt;/a&gt; when it comes to your period, I thought we could take a closer look at what can cause a period that lasts longer than an average of seven days. If you&#039;re experiencing this frustrating change in your cycle, a trip to your gynecologist is a necessity. But in the meantime, it&#039;s a good idea to educate yourself on possible explanations in order to prepare yourself for your exam. Here are some of the &lt;a href=&quot;http://women.webmd.com/features/when-your-period-signals-problem&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;general possibilities&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;For women on the pill, spotting or extended bleeding may be solved with a simple change in prescription to a pill with a higher dosage - not all pills are &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1115464&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;created equal&lt;/a&gt; when it comes to hormones. Or if you&#039;re chronically tardy when it comes to taking your pill, you may just need to be more diligent.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; If you&#039;re not on the pill, hormonal issues can still play a role. If you&#039;re having any other strange symptoms outside of your period, be sure to mention them to your gyno; she may want to make sure your thyroid gland is functioning properly. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Both &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1640034&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;IUCs&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/542383&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Depo-Provera&lt;/a&gt; can cause irregular bleeding. If you&#039;ve started experiencing spotting after trying out either of those methods of contraception, and it lasts for an extended period of time, you may want to discuss the possibility of trying out an entirely different method. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To see other reasons that may account for heavy, prolonged bleeding, read more.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If you&#039;re experiencing excessive bleeding, persisting over two weeks or more, there are more significant issues that could be at fault, including uterine fibroids, endometriosis, or ovarian cysts. Be sure to tell your doctor if you have any kind of pain or physical discomfort accompanying the excess bleeding.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Heavy bleeding post-period can also be a symptom of a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy, both of which are very serious. Even if you feel sure you can&#039;t possibly be pregnant, it&#039;s important to be seen by your doctor. &lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dear&#039;s Advice:&lt;/b&gt; Every woman&#039;s different, so don&#039;t panic if your cycle differs from your peers. However, if you&#039;ve noticed a change in your cycle, it&#039;s always a good idea to make an appointment to see your gynecologist and make sure that everything is functioning as it should. And don&#039;t be afraid to let her in on any other issues you may be experiencing, including emotional ones, as they could be related. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1716731&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=106 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/25_2008/200274605-001(2).large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Now that we all have &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1716645&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;a few reminders&lt;/a&gt; when preparing for an upcoming pelvic exam, I have some quick suggestions for the day of the appointment, too. To see them read more.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt; Always use the bathroom before undressing.  Not only do most gynos advise this, but knowing that your bladder is empty may ease your nerves a bit.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Jot down the things you’ve been wanting to discuss so you can remember them all when your doctor is finally in the room with you.  You only see her once a year, so make it count.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li style=&quot;width:550px;&quot;&gt; Mention any tests to check for &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/STIs&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;STIs&lt;/a&gt; you&#039;re interested in having.  Surprisingly enough, most tests are not included in a basic annual exam, but can be quickly added on - some may require a trip to the lab for a quick blood test. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Finally, bring up any issues you may be having with your &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/birth+control&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;birth control method&lt;/a&gt;, including concerns about a decreased libido. Your gynecologist is there to answer questions and help you find a birth control solution that works for your body and lifestyle. &lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;And remember, don’t be shy! If you have a concern, speak up about it. There is no shame in your body, and it’s more important to face a moment of embarrassment then a dangerous health problem.  &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 09:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1716645&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=106 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/25_2008/200274605-001.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I don’t know any women who actually enjoy a trip to the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/gynecologist&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;gynecologist&lt;/a&gt;, though feelings about settling into the stirrups tend to vary from mild annoyance to extreme anxiety. No matter which end of the spectrum you fall on, it’s important to make the most of your annual exam. To see my suggestions to do just that read more.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;First of all, make sure you have a doctor that you like. A doctor you&#039;re comfortable with can mean the difference between a traumatic experience and an appointment that you don&#039;t actually dread going to. If you need to find a new gyno, ask your friends or female coworkers - word-of-mouth recommendations are the very best kind!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li style=&quot;width:550px;&quot;&gt;Try to get a morning appointment. It means less of a wait for you, and it’s always nice to go straight from the shower to the table. While there’s absolutely no rule that says you need to be cleaned up before an appointment, for many woman, knowing they&#039;re fresh down there is a huge relief.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Also, when making your appointment, remember to schedule around your &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/period&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;period&lt;/a&gt;.  It’s best to go in during the middle of your cycle, but definitely avoid the week when you expect to be menstruating.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Know the start date of your most recent period beforehand. This is a great habit to get into for all doctor appointments, but especially at the gynecologist because &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/cervical+fluid&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;cervical fluid&lt;/a&gt; changes based on your cycle.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Refrain from having sex without a condom 24 hours prior to your appointment as semen can make a proper pap smear and exam difficult. The same goes for &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1589893&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;douching&lt;/a&gt;, too!&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I have even more tips to keep in mind at the next visit to your gynecologist, so stay tuned for part two!  &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1590593&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=107 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/18_2008/200274616-001.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Earlier this week I shared some important information about &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1553074&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Pelvic Inflammatory Disease&lt;/a&gt; with you, which is a very serious infection of the reproductive organs. Take this short quiz to find out how much you learned!  &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1553074&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=106 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/17_2008/MD001050.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;According to the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.cdc.gov&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Centers for Disease Control and Infection&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.cdc.gov/std/PID/STDFact-PID.htm&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)&lt;/a&gt; is the term that refers to an infection of a female’s reproductive organs.  Perhaps what&#039;s most worrisome about PID is that it often goes unnoticed by women and undetected by their doctors - if untreated, it can eventually lead to permanent and serious damage, including infertility.  To learn more about the causes, symptoms, and treatment for PID, read more&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;PID occurs when bacteria moves past the vagina and cervix and into the reproductive organs. While numerous kinds of bacteria can cause PID, two of the most common infections associated with this disease are &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/615812&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Chlamydia&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1046869&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Gonorrhea&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Douching and having an &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/496749&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;IUD&lt;/a&gt; can also increase the risk of developing PID because they can make it easier for bacteria to grow in the uterus. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Unfortunately, symptoms of PID vary greatly, and in fact, in many cases a woman will not be aware that she has anything to worry about.  The most common symptom is lower abdominal pain, but if you’ve noticed any strange discharge, painful urination, odor, pain during intercourse, or a noticeably more uncomfortable period talk to your gynecologist. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;There is no specific test for diagnosing PID. However, if your doctor suspects PID, she is likely to run blood tests and/or perform a pelvic ultrasound to confirm. Treatment of PID typically requires the use of multiple antibiotics in order to effectively kill all of the potential bacteria that might be the cause. &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Like all infections, the sooner PID is treated the better.  The longer it goes undetected, the more likely it is that the offending bacteria will invade healthy tissue creating scar tissue, which can lead to blockage of the fallopian tubes and ultimately, an increased possibility of infertility, ectopic pregnancy, and chronic discomfort. This damage is irreversible.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;PID is the &lt;a href=&quot;http://women.webmd.com/sexual-health-your-guide-to-pelvic-inflammatory-disease&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;leading cause&lt;/a&gt; of preventable infertility in women, so while it may not be an &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/STIs&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;STI&lt;/a&gt;, it still needs to be treated just as seriously. Take the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tag/condoms&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;necessary precautions&lt;/a&gt; during intercourse and make sure to address any physical abnormalities with a trip to the gynecologist. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1520487&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=106 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl0/0/3362/14_2008/200242875-001.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Even at its best, a trip to the gynecologist is usually pretty uncomfortable and can be down right awkward.  Since going to a doctor’s appointment already makes most of us feel vulnerable, being naked in front of a doctor only makes things even more nerve-wracking.  Anxiety, discomfort, nudity, and &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/1052436&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;discussing sex and birth control&lt;/a&gt; are just about the perfect equation for an embarrassing moment to arise.  So ladies, do tell, have you ever had an embarrassing mishap at the gyno? &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I can&#039;t get aroused anymore. Everything was fine up until a few weeks ago, but then I just suddenly stopped being able to be turned on, either alone or with my partner. I think I&#039;m into it, but then my body doesn’t respond physically. I know it&#039;s probably just me being paranoid, but I&#039;m worried that there&#039;s something medically wrong with me. I wasn&#039;t sure whether this new change might be linked to my period or not. I have had about four periods a year for the last three years. Is there any advice you can offer on getting my sex drive going again?  What’s wrong with me?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- Turned Off in Tulsa&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Dear Turned Off in Tulsa, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There are &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/872017&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;so many reasons&lt;/a&gt; for both a woman’s libido to change as well as her arousal ability to be affected. While it is not uncommon for periods to break from their typical cycle, you should see a gynecologist just to make sure everything is okay; however, it sounds like this problem didn’t start with your irregular period. Is it possible that something significant happened a few weeks ago that you’re not remembering? It could be something as small as a cold or as life-altering as a new job. Subconsciously you might be feeling uncomfortable or distanced from the entire act, which is making your body act this way.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It’s incredibly normal for woman to have periods of time where they’re just not as into sex as usual. Try to focus on anything emotional that could be on your mind and talk about it with someone. Keeping your emotions bottled up will only make it worse. Another thing that might help is when and if you have sex, remember to use &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/713115&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;lube&lt;/a&gt;; it’ll make it a much more pleasant experience even if it can’t be a pleasurable one. Good luck.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>Dear Poll: Do You Prefer a Man or Woman Gyno?</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/702972&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=120 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/users/0/3362/42_2007/stirrups.large.JPG&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Visiting the gyno is never fun, but liking your doctor can make it a whole lot less painful. Some women feel that having a female doctor is the only way to go: they know about the woman&#039;s body first hand, they can sympathize with everything you&#039;re experiencing, and they are easier to talk to, but other women are more old fashioned and feel a male physician is more trustworthy, so ladies, tell me which sex do you prefer? Do you like going to a male or female gynecologist? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 13:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/621438&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=142  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/users/1/12981/37_2007/diaphragm.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve been talking a lot about many forms of birth control including &lt;a href=&quot;/435951&quot; &gt;hormonal&lt;/a&gt; ones like the &lt;a href=&quot;/505720&quot; href=/467042&quot;&gt;Pill&lt;/a&gt;, the &lt;a&gt;Patch&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href=&quot;/542383&quot; &gt;Depo-Provera&lt;/a&gt;, and about barrier methods like the male and &lt;a href=&quot;/496673&quot; &gt;female condom&lt;/a&gt;.  A &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/diaphram.htm&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;diaphragm&lt;/a&gt; is another form of barrier method, which prevents sperm from getting to your precious eggs.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It is a shallow, bowl-shaped piece of rubber with a flexible rim that fits over your vagina and covers the cervix so sperm can&#039;t reach your uterus.   &lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Your vaginal muscles keep it in place.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Advantages:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You need to get fitted for one by your gynecologist, but once you have it, and if you take care of it properly, it should last 1-2 years.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It usually can&#039;t be felt during sex by either partner.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You can keep it inside you for up to 24 hours.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It doesn&#039;t change your menstrual cycle.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It doesn&#039;t affect future fertility.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There are unfortunately many disadvantages so click here to read more&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Disadvantages:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It&#039;s only &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/birth-control/BI99999/PAGE=BI00009&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;84% effective&lt;/a&gt; at preventing pregnancy.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It doesn&#039;t protect you against STIs.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You have to use it with spermicide, which can be messy and irritating to some women.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;More spermicide has to be added every time you have sex.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You have to leave it inside you for at least 6 hours after intercourse&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If the diaphragm is left in place for more than 24 hours, the woman runs the risk of toxic shock syndrome (TSS).&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It&#039;s possible that the diaphragm can become dislodged during sex.  If that happens, there&#039;s a chance you could become pregnant.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;It may cause &lt;a href=&quot;/581909&quot; &gt;UTIs&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If you gain or lose 10 pounds, you may need to be fitted for a new size.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you are in a mutually monogamous relationship with someone you know is disease free, this could be a great option for you.  Although the fact that it&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/birth-control/BI99999/PAGE=BI00009&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;only 84% effective&lt;/a&gt; at preventing pregnancy doesn&#039;t make me want to jump up and get one!  Talk to your gynecologist about whether a diaphragm is right for you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dear&#039;s Advice:&lt;/b&gt;  The natural hormones in a female body affect the position of her cervix throughout her cycle.  To ensure a proper fit, women should make sure that she is fitted mid-cycle at the time of ovulation, when her cervix is the highest. &lt;/p&gt;
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