The Most Powerful F Word: Forgiveness


Updated 08/01/11 11:46 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 2 comments

Why Forgiveness Works

We all know that sinking feeling of anger and resentment that creeps up when we least expect it. Whether your car got towed, your boyfriend ended things, or your parents constantly criticize your choices, you have two options of how to deal: you can make a scene or you can breathe and forgive. And it's not as easy as it sounds; after all, "forgiveness . . . is more than saying sorry." But it's Read more

Who's the More Forgiving Sex?


Updated 02/23/11 6:22 AM · Posted by · 6 comments

Are Women More Forgiving Than Men?

OK, it's no surprise. Women are the more forgiving sex, but first let's look at what forgiveness means. A study done by a Spanish university says both parties need to cooperate for true forgiveness to be achieved. The perpetrator must show true remorse, and the offended must not bear a grudge. Because men are more likely to hold grudges, they have a harder time forgiving regardless of the amount Read more

Grab Bag! 20 Things Your Boyfriend Should Forgive You For


Updated 08/30/10 8:05 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 5 comments

Forgivable Offenses in Relationships

Forgivable offenses in relationships — The Frisky Is a world record the new teen must-have? — Lemondrop It's OK for a woman to have a midlife crisis — Huffington Post 5 unofficial rules to dorm living — College Candy What I learned about commitment from my parents' divorce — YourTango Why books by women aren't "serious" — Jezebel Best sweet Summer movie romances — BuzzSugar Read more

Forgiving Can Help You Stay Emotionally Well


Updated 08/11/10 10:52 AM · Posted by · 1 comment

Forgiving Is Good For Your Health

Here's a post from OnSugar blog My DISFunkshion. Let’s face it — it takes a really big person to open up their heart and forgive. But being stuck at a crossroads with our mind giving the green light to sweet revenge and the red light to a daunting path of forgiveness is not the answer. Forgiveness is the decision and process of letting go of resentment. As women, we tend to have an instinct Read more

How Do You Let Go of Hate?


Updated 04/06/10 4:50 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 17 comments

Gwyneth Paltrow Shares Her Friendship Drama With British Vogue

Celebrities really are just like us. They have "frenemies" and "friendship divorces," but unlike regular folks, they have the ability to share these battles with the world. Take Gwyneth Paltrow. She has a tendency to reveal her friendship woes to the public, albeit without naming names. In the upcoming May British Vogue, she divulges: "I'm having a situation right now with a friend where I'm Read more

Book Bag: Kingdom of Simplicity Explores Forgiveness


Updated 07/24/09 1:52 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 4 comments

Book Bag: Kingdom of Simplicity Explores Forgiveness

They say an accident happens by chance, with no planning or deliberate intent. And people who knew my sisters would have said just that. It was an accident. But I would like to tell them there are no accidents.There are only opportunities. Kingdom of Simplicity, the story about an Amish boy who loses his family in a car accident, explores the simple power of forgiveness. In 1994, author Holly Read more

What Are You Sorry For?


Updated 03/03/09 8:13 PM · Posted by · 17 comments

What Are You Sorry For?

I just came across a clever new website — Oopsimsorry.com — which gives people "Options, Opportunities, Possibilities and Solutions (OOPS), to deal with the 'OOPS' that happen in life." Members can anonymously make amends to people they've hurt or disappointed, and they can ask for an apology from someone else too. Saying I'm sorry isn't always easy, so if there's something you need to get Read more

You Asked: I Can't Trust Him


Updated 11/05/08 4:04 AM · Posted by · 22 comments

You Asked: I Can't Trust Him

Dear Sugar, I have been with my boyfriend for about six years now, five of which have been spent living together. For the past year, we have been staying in different cities due to work, although we'll be getting married in a couple of months. He really loves me, and we have never had any problems regarding another woman previously; however, when I went to visit him recently, I found out he was Read more

Is It Possible to Truly Forgive?


Updated 10/13/08 8:51 PM · Posted by · 18 comments

Is It Possible to Truly Forgive?

If you tuned into The Hills last night, you saw Heidi's sheepish attempt to make amends with Lauren. And even though Lauren has admitted to missing her ex BFF, it didn't seem like becoming friends again was high on her priority list, especially if Spencer remains in the picture. Since their relationship has been on the rocks — to say the least — for the past two years, Heidi got to fear that Read more

You Asked: Should I Forgive My Ex?


Updated 05/07/09 9:51 PM · Posted by · 24 comments

You Asked: Should I Forgive My Ex?

Dear Sugar, I am a man looking for the advice of women since my male friends aren't sensitive enough to comprehend what I'm going through. I had been going out with this girl on and off for four and a half years. I truly loved her and she was my best friend. We were happy and we shared some of the best times of our lives. But a few months back, while I was on and she was off, she stopped talking Read more