Sugar Editorial Picks
Mar 05, 2009 -
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I went to a party on a Saturday night. We had a great time and as the night progressed, the drinks started to flow. A dance party erupted in the living room and as I was talking with some girlfriends off to the side, I saw my boyfriend dancing rather inappropriately with a girl I had never met before.
- 48 Comments
May 02, 2008 -
I told you on Wednesday that I'm often the go-to person for advice, and while I like being there for my friends, I often catch myself in the middle of their arguments. If they both come to me to vent their frustration or anger about the other person, I'm automatically put in a difficult position. Of course I try my best to just stay out, or at least be as neutral as possible, but that's sometimes easier said than done.
- 10 Comments
Feb 27, 2008 -
There are certain rules we all know: Communication is key and honesty is the best policy. But sometimes, anything seems easier than fighting with your partner, including telling him a little white lie. Now I don't condone lying, but I think sometimes avoiding a confrontation with a lie is probably better than having the confrontation to begin with.
- 5 Comments
Dec 14, 2007 -
I recently had a fight with my boyfriend about something so stupid, but since we're both stubborn, we couldn't come to an agreement, so we both went to bed angry. As I was lying in bed, trying to forget about it all, I kept hearing a little voice in the back of my mind that said, "Never go to bed angry."
What do you think?
- 39 Comments
Sep 08, 2007 -
Dear Sugar and Still in Love Lucy need your help. Should she get back together with a guy her family and friends don't approve of?
Dear Sugar--
I have been in this relationship on and off for 4 years.
- 32 Comments
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Jul 21, 2009 -
Every couple faces that moment when the fairy dust of romance settles, they're in a relationship — and a conflict triggers their first fight. How a couple fights (or if they fight at all) can determine whether or not they will have a healthy and enduring relationship.
The word "fight" has such negative connotations, but in every relationship, disagreements will come up that need to be negotiated and resolved.
- 15 Comments
Dec 30, 2008 -
I've definitely been in a few relationships where it felt like I was always the one apologizing after an argument — even when I knew it wasn't actually me who was in the wrong. Let's face it: Some people just can't say, "I'm sorry" first, regardless of the circumstance. So how is it in your relationship?
- 21 Comments
Jan 30, 2008 -
Fights are inevitable in relationships, but do you ever purposely pick them just to rock the boat? Sometimes making up after an argument can make you feel closer to your significant other and while I'm not advocating fighting, there's something to be said about make-up sex! I can admit that I'm guilty of picking a stupid argument from time to time, but what about you?
- 22 Comments
Jan 11, 2008 -
I don't know about you, but I dread awkward moments. One of the most awkward moments I've experienced was witnessing a couple's meltdown in a restaurant — after a 45-minute argument, the man said he wanted a divorce, the woman left alone crying, and I heard every word. Luckily, I didn't know them, but I have been in situations when I've had to witness one of my friend's arguments.
- 15 Comments