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What You Should Know About Premature Ejaculation
Earlier this week the BBC noted the results of a recent study suggesting that premature ejaculation, long thought to be a psychological disorder, may actually be genetic. According to the article, the men in the study who suffered from premature ejaculation had a variation of the gene that regulates serotonin levels — the hormone that controls, among other things, mood, appetite, and the speed at which ejaculation occurs.
And while this information will eventually help researchers create an effective treatment, for now there is no medication, leaving many couples searching for solutions to something that is often a serious detriment to a satisfying sex life.
DearSugar Needs Your Help: Condom Spillage
Dear Sugar and Wanting a Neater Option Omalee needs your help. How do you deal with the mess after sex?
Dear Sugar,
I usually use condoms with my boyfriend, but now that we've both been tested and I'm on the pill, we've had some issues with...er...spillage after he ejaculates.
What's the Deal With Dry Orgasms?
A while ago, I answered a question about a woman who was dating a guy who lost both of his testicles in a car accident. It wasn't clear if this man could have an erection or an orgasm, but that post brought up many questions about orgasms and how it's possible to have one if you don't have any semen.
Here's the deal.
You Asked: I Don't Think I'm Pleasing My Boyfriend in Bed
Dear Sugar,
I'm troubled by my sexual relationship with my boyfriend. I love him very much and he tells me he loves me too. Everything in our relationship is great except there are times when he doesn't ejaculate during sex.
Pull and Pray - NOT Good Birth Control
Being in a monogamous sexual relationship can be one of life's greatest pleasures, especially when you have both been tested for STIs and you know that you are disease-free. That means you don't have to use condoms when you have sex, but you do need to use another form of birth control if you don't want to get pregnant.
It's been brought to my attention that some couples are using the Pull and Pray Method, also known as Withdrawal.
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Do Tell: Have You Ever Dated a One-Minute Man?
Along with penis size, height, and the ability to get it up, the locus of many a dude's insecurities lies in his stamina, or ability to have sex for as long as it takes to satisfy his partner. This hilarious (for anyone who doesn't have a premature ejaculation problem!) Australian ad capitalizes on this insecurity.
Created for the Advanced Medical Institute, a Sydney-based provider of treatment programs for fun things like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, it shows the police breaking into a couple's bedroom and telling a one-minute man they'll give him a speeding ticket unless he calls AMI for help.
Hump Day: My Boyfriend Is a One-Minute Man
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
You Asked: We're Not Very Good at Sex
Dear Sugar,
I have been married for a little over a year. Both my husband and I waited until we got married to have sex for the first time. As expected, we aren't very good at it.
You Asked: When I Have Sex, I Feel Like I Have to Pee!
Dear Sugar--
During intercourse, when I get ready to orgasm, I feel like I have to urinate and I have to stop because I'm scared I'm gonna wet the bed. Is that a normal feeling???
--Unsatisified and Frustrated
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Hump Day: Where's My G-Spot?
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
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