Expect More Men to Hold the Door For You Today


Updated 02/02/12 3:25 PM · Posted by · 0 comments

Men Are More Chivalrous on Valentine's Day

Whether you're partnered, solo, or something in-between, this Valentine's Day expect men to be a little more chivalrous than every other day of the year. At least French men! Scientists at a French university hypothesized that words can unconsciously affect behavior, so they set up a test with the word "valentine" in the French city of Vannes. A 19-year-old asked 120 men, between 30 and 50, Read more

Is Teaching Children to Be Traditionally Chivalrous Sexist?


Updated 11/14/10 8:29 PM · Posted by · 3 comments

Is Chivalry Sexist?

Chivalry hasn't died, but is teaching it (in the traditional form) to kids sexist? Eighty-seven percent of LilSugar mamas said they are raising their sons to be well-mannered men — the type who offer their jacket to their date or pull a chair out as she is seated at the table. In this modern world, should mothers also teach their daughters to extend the same niceties of holding the door and Read more

Modern-Day Gents Can't Rely on Old-Fashioned Tricks


Updated 01/19/11 7:12 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 9 comments

Study Finds Old-Fashioned Etiquette No Longer Impresses Women

Opening doors, pulling out chairs, and walking closer to the street are all nice, gentlemanly gestures, but they don't actually help a woman out. The modern gentleman has had to adapt and acquire a whole new set of skills. Now their old tricks seem inadequate. A new study found that women value gestures like filling gas tanks, cooking dinner, taking out the trash, and uploading songs on iPods Read more

Chivalry Isn't Dead: What Moms Should Teach Their Sons


Updated 08/13/10 11:53 AM · Posted by LilSugar · 5 comments

Ways Moms Teach Their Sons Manners

It's a modern world, but has chivalry died? Eighty-seven percent of LilSugar readers said it isn't so and that they are teaching their sons to be well-mannered men. We asked Lisa Gaché, the founder of Beverly Hills Manners, a company that makes learning fun for children, her thoughts. She said: Chivalry never goes out of style, so moms take note! In fact, it is perhaps more vital than ever Read more

10 Tips and Reasons For Teaching Manners


Updated 09/01/11 1:15 PM · Posted by LilSugar · 2 comments

10 Tips For Teaching Your Children Manners and Why

Money can't buy manners, but it can afford some lessons! Lisa Taylor Richey, The Official Etiquette Ambassador for The Plaza Hotel in New York City offers children a week-long course (15 hours of instruction in everything from holding a fork to a offering to perfecting the handshake) at Charm School with Eloise for $495. Fees for the charm school include an Eloise handbook, a catered meal, a Read more

Is Chivalry Dead?


Updated 05/30/10 6:41 AM · Posted by · 23 comments

Is Chivalry Dead?

Here's a post from OnSugar blog Romantically Challenged. I know this question has been posed countless time before, but yes, is chivalry dead and buried? It's a bit of a catch-22, isn't it?  In this day and age of equality, perhaps it is looked upon as something not needed or not P.C., etc. It's perhaps looked upon as being sexist if you refer to a woman as a "damsel." But then, what of pure Read more

Did Chivalry Die Once the Kids Arrived?


Updated 04/12/10 11:23 AM · Posted by LilSugar · 5 comments

Did Chivalry Die Once You Had Children?

Husbands who once leaped from the car to open their wife's doors might not be as quick to do so when once they have tots to wrangle in parking lots. Some couples find that chivalry dies a bit once children arrive because the focus shifts from spousal etiquette to the practicalities of raising a family. On a cold day, the child will likely get daddy's jacket before mommy does. Have you found Read more

Where Do You Stand? Do His Manners Matter?


Updated 03/11/09 9:49 AM · Posted by · 39 comments

Where Do You Stand? Do His Manners Matter?

Though I do appreciate a chivalrous man, it's not cause to write someone off completely if he's not. But good manners, on the other hand, I’m a stickler about. No open mouth chewing or asking for something without a please and thank you, for me! OK, I might let some things slide a year into a relationship, but not while we're just dating. Is it the same for you? Where do you stand when it comes Read more

What Chivalrous Things Do You Expect a Guy to Do?


Updated 10/11/08 6:22 PM · Posted by · 125 comments

What Chivalrous Things Do You Expect a Guy to Do?

As I told you last week, Maxim magazine has asked me to help get you to take their sex and relationship survey in an effort to help their male readers understand us women a little better. You had quite a lot to say about how long you wait before sleeping with a guy you just met, so weigh in on another question here before taking their survey! Men aren't mind readers, so now's your chance to let Read more

Do Tell: What's Your Favorite Thing to Do on a First Date?


Updated 07/09/08 9:17 PM · Posted by · 22 comments

Do Tell: What's Your Favorite Thing to Do on a First Date?

I'm pretty traditional so when it comes to a first date, I'm all for dinner and drinks. Some women prefer just to meet for a quick glass of wine or a cup of coffee on a Saturday, but I don't think you get to know someone as well in such a short amount of time. Over dinner, at least, you get to know what he likes to eat, if he has table manners, and if he's chivalrous. Then there are those Read more