Want to Be Successful? Start Worrying


Updated 05/19/11 10:43 AM · Posted by · 1 comment

Worrying About Work Will Make You Successful

We're always espousing the importance of work-life balance, because it's important to have a healthy mindset. Although anxiety is generally associated with being a negative feeling, a New York Times piece by professor Robert Frank of Cornell University's MBA program says that worry can actually motivate us and push us to be more successful. In fact, evolution has actually programmed us to become Read more

Group Therapy: Worried About Him Proposing Over the Holidays


Updated 12/17/10 2:55 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 13 comments

Worried About Him Proposing Over the Holidays

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Thanks to some not so subtle hints on my boyfriend's part and many conversations about marriage, I know that he has bought me an engagement ring and plans to propose over the holidays. We have been together for about a year and a half and lived together for six months. Our relationship is Read more

Graphotherapy Exercise For Relaxation


Updated 09/02/10 6:15 PM · Posted by OnSugar Blog · 3 comments

Graphotherapy Exercise For Relaxation

Stressed out? Grab a pen or pencil and some paper, and do this relaxation exercise from the OnSugar blog goddessbody. I call this exercise the Phone Cord (before the cell phone and cordless phone). It promotes calmness and relaxation and relieves inner tension. It also helps improve balance and coordination. Learn how to do this easy exercise when you read more Read more

Group Therapy: Return From Vacation Plagued With Panic


Updated 09/04/10 2:30 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 8 comments

How to Return to Work After Vacation

This question is an excerpt from Group Therapy in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! After a wonderfully relaxing long weekend away at my parents house in the mountains, I returned to the city yesterday evening with plenty of time to unpack, clean my house, and prepare myself for the week. However, when I went to bed, I was struck with a horrible bout of insomnia due to a Read more

Music: It's Like a Massage but Cheaper


Updated 03/23/10 9:02 AM · Posted by FitSugar · 3 comments

Music Helps Relieve Anxiety and Stress Like a Massage

Listening to music may not feel the same as getting a massage, but it does have the same calming effect. A new study shows that massage therapy is just as effective in reducing anxiety as lying down and listening to music. Researchers from the Group Health Research Institute randomly assigned 68 participants with 10 one-hour treatments: a massage with music, breathing deeply while lying down and Read more

What Makes You Nervous These Days?


Updated 05/24/09 6:22 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 9 comments

What Makes You Nervous These Days?

Americans are smiling less and worrying more than they were a year ago. Depression, cigarette sales, and sleepless nights are on the rise. But you probably didn't need this new survey from Gallup to tell you that. According to today's New York Times, it's not debt or a lack of money that's making people more miserable. Rather Americans feel worse when something bad might occur, than when they Read more

You Asked: Waiting For the Other Shoe to Drop


Updated 03/26/09 3:10 PM · Posted by · 4 comments

You Asked: Waiting For the Other Shoe to Drop

Dear Sugar, I feel like I've been on a mental downward spiral for the last few months and I don't know how to get out of it. Two months ago my company announced that there would be layoffs, but we won't know exactly who is getting the ax for another few weeks but the stress of waiting is starting to affect all aspects of my life. I tell myself how lucky I am to still have a job, but still, I'm Read more

Dear Poll: Are You Yearning For Mindless Entertainment?


Updated 02/28/09 9:05 PM · Posted by · 15 comments

Dear Poll: Are You Yearning For Mindless Entertainment?

I don't know about you, but all I want to do to unwind when I get home from work these days is watch some mindless TV or read a trashy magazine. Not only can I get a good laugh out of it, but it's much less stressful than worrying about the economic crisis. If you've been feeling anxiety in the air lately, too, tell me, are you also yearning for some senseless entertainment to get your mind off Read more

Relationship Protocol: Has Monetary Stress Affected Your Relationship?


Updated 01/28/09 8:17 AM · Posted by · 18 comments

Relationship Protocol: Has Monetary Stress Affected Your Relationship?

Even if the economy hasn't forced you to drastically change your lifestyle, the stress in the air is undeniable. Though 2009 is sure to be an exciting year, it'll also be one chock-full of uncertainty and apprehension. I know that money woes affect everyone differently, so tell me, has it played a role in your otherwise carefree relationship? Source Relationship Protocol: Has Monetary Read more