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Where Do You Stand? Guys Buying You Clothes

TresSugar — Mon, 04 May 2009 16:00:00 -0700

On a list boldly titled 25 Skills Every Man Should Know, the May issue of Esquire offers advice for men looking to buy clothing for women. The tools required: a credit card and a woman's clothing size. The steps, according to the article:

Don't.

Ha! Clearly the mag has a pretty immovable position on whether guys should buy women clothing as gifts, but is it justified? I'll admit, I've gotten some pretty terrible gifts from guys that I then felt obligated to wear, but I've also had boyfriends who were great at picking out my style. So what's your take? Is it always a terrible idea for men to buy women clothes?
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Where Do You Stand? Going to the Bathroom in Front of Your Girlfriends

DearSugar — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 06:00:00 -0700

I have to say ladies, I was pretty surprised to see how many of you feel comfortable going to the bathroom in front of your significant other! And while most of you draw the line at going pee, some of you felt that even that was taking it too far. So to delve deeper into this subject, I thought I'd ask where you stand on going to the bathroom in front of your girlfriends! If you're one to travel to the bathroom in packs, tell me, do you actually drop trou in front of each other?

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Where Do You Stand? Staying in Lounge Clothes All Weekend

DearSugar — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:00:00 -0700

When the weekend arrives, I instantly transform into chill mode. I sleep in and take my time around the house, and it feels like I seldom get out of my sweatpants until it's time to go out at night. I run errands in my sweats, I shop in my sweats, I even go out to lunch in my sweats. My plans, of course, dictate my outfit, but I'm curious to know where you stand on staying in your loungewear on the weekend. Is it something you do, too, or do your sweats make you feel less productive?

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Where Do You Stand? Choosing a Ring Together

DearSugar — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 06:00:00 -0700

Generally speaking, most women know when a proposal is on its way - they may not know the time or the place, but they can usually sense it. And since that step is such a big one, some women like to be in on it, especially when it comes to the ring! But if you shop for it together, the cat's out of the bag and then it just becomes a waiting game. I'm torn on this one, because while I wouldn't want to be unpleasantly surprised, I wouldn't want to know what to expect either. So what about you? Where do you stand on picking out your engagement ring with your husband-to-be?

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Where Do You Stand? Cutesy Names For Your Private Parts

DearSugar — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 10:00:00 -0700

I'd like to think I know a thing or two about sex and erogenous zones on males and females, but over the weekend I heard a new term that made me scratch my head - sweater kittens. For those of you in the dark with me, it's an affectionate nickname for a woman's breasts. You can use your imagination as to why they're called that, but it got me thinking about using cutesy names for your private parts. A friend of mine calls a guy's business "twig and berries," and I've also heard the term "bits and pieces" thrown around. Tell me, are you into using nicknames for your private parts, or do you think it's completely immature?

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Where Do You Stand? Going to the Bathroom in Front of Your Significant Other

DearSugar — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 10:30:00 -0700

While I'm all for being completely yourself with your significant other, I also think some things should be off-limits in front of each other, and going to the bathroom is at the top of my list. Yes, it's natural and we all do it, but in order to keep the romance alive, I strongly believe in a closed bathroom door policy! Some couples I know, however, think it's no big deal, so tell me where you stand on going to the bathroom in front of your significant other.

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Where Do You Stand? Getting Kinky Gifts

DearSugar — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 10:00:00 -0700

One way to spice things up in the bedroom is to bring something new and exciting into the mix. Sex toys, candles, erotic music, and edible undies are all surefire ways to turn your libido from blah, to blow-your-mind amazing! So I'm wondering how you'd feel if your partner surprised you with a kinky gift - maybe a light-up vibrator, a provocative piece of lingerie, or a steamy porn video. Would it embarrass you, shock you, or would you love it if your SO did something to add some zest to your relationship?

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Where Do You Stand? Phone Sex

DearSugar — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 09:00:00 -0700

When you're in a long-distance relationship, face-to-face contact is sometimes hard to come by, which is why couples have to get creative in order to keep the romance alive. And luckily, with so many ways to communicate these days (text, email, iChat, and of course the phone) it's easier than ever to stay connected to your lover. So to all of you who spend time away from your special someone, tell me where you stand when it comes to being intimate over the airwaves. Is it something that totally turns you on, or are you too bashful for phone sex?

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Where Do You Stand? Marriage and Kids

DearSugar — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 09:00:00 -0700

Deciding when to get married is a personal choice that's different for every couple, but I've been hearing more and more women say that they don't want to marry their significant other until they're ready to start a family. While I understand where they're coming from, I'd personally like to enjoy married life before diving into motherhood. To each her own so tell me, where do you stand on the notion of marriage and kids going hand in hand?

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Where Do You Stand? Going to Bed at Different Times

DearSugar — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 10:00:00 -0700

Nighttime is a popular snuggling time for most couples - it's a great way to unwind together and de-stress from your long day at work, but what happens when one of you wants to hit the hay before the other? Is staggering your bedtimes no big deal to you, or do you have a hard time falling asleep unless you go to bed at the same time? Tell me where you stand in the comments below.

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