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OMFG! Blow, Booze, and Threesomes on Gossip Girl

TresSugar — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 02:00:00 -0800

You know what the Parents Television Council doesn't like? Threesomes. Implicit or explicit, it says there's no place for a ménage à trois on network TV. Fair enough! The council has asked The CW to reconsider airing Monday's Gossip Girl episode, which will feature a threesome.

After an US Weekly interview about the sartorial splendor of Gossip Girl, Costume Designer Eric Daman took a jab at the controversy while talking to New York magazine's Daily Intel. He made a very valid point, saying:

"So, it’s okay for them to be doing blow and drinking Scotch when they’re 18, but it’s not okay for them to be having a threesome?"

I can't really argue with that! About a quarter of TrèsSugar readers have had a threesome, which sounds about right to me. In my experience, teen drinking is more about taking your vodka messy in Gatorade bottles rather than neat in martini glasses - forget thinking about threesomes! So while the Parents Television Council can take their argument to the network that brought us OMFG, I'd have to say GFL! What say you?

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Have You Ever Had a Threesome?

TresSugar — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:57:00 -0700

Britney Spears debuted a steamy video today for her single "3" - a song that explores the singer's threesome fantasy. The idea of sexual experimentation involving more than two people really turns some people on, including certain celebrities. Have you ever had one?

Stranger Than Fiction: Man Steals Another's Pants to Get in Pub

TresSugar — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 10:00:00 -0700

It must've been some pub this guy in Sweden wanted to get into! A 26-year old from Helsingborg in Southern Sweden showed up to a pub (clearly, a fancy pants pub!) wearing sweatpants. He was denied admission, and instead of doing what a sane, rational person would do, you know - go home and change clothes - he basically mugged another guy for his jeans.

Cops saw two semi-naked men, got suspicious and didn't buy the 26-year-old's claim that they were merely swapping pants. I think they should have this "no sweatpants" rule everywhere - especially the kind with writing on the butt!

Sunday Confessional - I Had a Threesome

DearSugar — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 09:00:00 -0800

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and I love him with all my heart. We live together and we've begun to seriously talk about getting married. He's been out of town for the past month on a work project and though I miss him, I've been having a lot of fun with my friends. Over the weekend I went over to my best friend's house for dinner. She lives with her boyfriend and the four of us spend a lot of time together. Jokingly, the subject of a threesome came up. They've been wanting to try it for some time now, and since they know I've had one before, they drilled me with all sorts of questions. It's not something I usually talk about since my boyfriend is utterly opposed to the idea, but after a few glasses of wine, we started to have fun with it. As the night went on, one thing led to another and I ended in the bedroom with them. Before things got too crazy, I realized what I was doing and I quickly got up and left.

I'm terribly ashamed by what I have done. Not only am I embarrassed to see/talk to my friends again, but I cheated on my boyfriend with a couple we spend most of our time with. I don't doubt that they would have the decency to keep this between us, but it's already eating me up inside and it's only been two days! I've never kept a secret from my boyfriend before but I know for a fact that this will ruin our relationship. Can I be forgiven if I leave well enough alone? I'm so confused and have no clue what to do.

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Group Therapy: We Wanted a Threesome, but Now I Want Out

Fri, 21 Nov 2008 04:00:00 -0800

My boyfriend and I have have been tossing around the idea of having a threesome. I stated a couple months ago that it was something I fantasized about, and he of course thought it was a fantastic idea! He is willing to have a threesome with another guy if I'm willing to have one with another girl - we agreed on those terms. I picked the guy, a good friend of ours who lives out of state that we hardly see, and now that I gave him a name for the guy, he wants to choose a girl.

Here's where my problem lies. He recently named a girl he works with (that I have never liked) to be the other woman. His reasoning for choosing her is because she's had threesomes before, but now I'm starting to have second thoughts about it altogether. I feel myself getting jealous and I think it could be destructive for our relationship. How do I break it to him that I changed my mind? I feel like he may never forgive me for going back on my word.

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Handle This: He Wants a Threesome

DearSugar — Thu, 28 Feb 2008 10:00:00 -0800

You and your man are all about having fun in the bedroom, which has lead to a lot of experimentation. You've been game thus far because it's always been about mutual respect and pleasure. Just as you started to feel like you guys had really found your groove, he tells you that he wants to try a threesome - with another female.

You’re all about fulfilling fantasies, but you just don’t know how to respond to this. You’re also not sure how this makes you feel about him; is it possible that he’s just looking to hook up with another girl? He's staring at you, waiting for a response, so how do you you handle this?

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Ménage à Eeeeeew! on The View

GiggleSugar — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 03:00:00 -0800

One thing I love about The View is how the ladies never fail to gang up on Barb. When our gal in tie-dye (Whoopi) makes the unfortunate decision to talk threesomes, Barbara proposes to take an informal poll on who's "done it." All of the ladies seize the opportunity to quickly turn the question on Barb. Oh jeez. Talking "thweesomes" with Barbara Walters? I'm out.

You Asked: My Husband Wants to Have a Threesome

DearSugar — Tue, 02 Oct 2007 17:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar,

My husband and I have been together for two years. We recently had a son who is 5 months old, and we just got married September 20, 2007. He has been talking about having a threesome for almost a year now, with another woman. It's one of his fantasies and the subject only comes up during sex, which we haven't had much of since our son was born.

I don't really have any interest in women, and I couldn't imagine another woman having sex with my husband. I do want to fulfill my hubby's fantasy, but I don't want to be hurt at all from it.

Since I'm not into the whole threesome idea, just to please him, last night (while we were having sex) I asked him if he would like to have sex with another woman when I'm not around, kind of like a girlfriend, and he told me he would love it. I asked him if he knew of anyone in particular and he told me there is a new girl in his office that he thinks is attractive. I told him he could try her. He asked me if I would be mad if he gave her his cell phone number and I told him no. I told him I was willing to do anything that makes him happy.

Today I am torn about the conversation we had last night. I don't even want to go home after work; I just want to cry. He has never lied or cheated on me, and he respects me, pays all our bills, and is the best husband in the world. What did I do?

-Torn and Upset Tina

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Dear Torn and Upset Tina,

Since you are a new mom, I bet you're probably too exhausted to even think about having sex. Part of me is worried that you are only agreeing to let your hubby be with another woman because you feel guilty that you aren't satisfying him sexually. Your husband should be understanding and patient until your body and mind are ready to have sex again. Aside from being a new mom, it sounds like your man is into experimenting sexually, which is awesome, but he needs to respect your position as well. Since you're not really into inviting other people into your bedroom (which I completely understand), it's great that you are willing to suggest other options.

Even though you originally suggested that he have sex with another woman, it sounds like you changed your mind, which you are totally allowed to do. If you go against your judgment, not only do I foresee this ruining your relationship and sex life, but he's also putting your health at risk (hello STIs!). You should talk about this some more (I suggest when you are not having sex) so you can lay out all your feelings and concerns on the table. Things are bound to change if he has sex with another woman, even if he promises they won't.

There's got to be other ways you two can get creative under the sheets without there being another woman involved. Get yourself some sex toys, books, videos, or get a babysitter for the weekend so you two can take a romantic weekend somewhere alone. We all want to make our significant others happy, but there's something wrong if it makes you unhappy. Good luck to you, Tina.

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Would You and Your Partner Be Into Swinging?

DearSugar — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 08:30:00 -0700

Are you and your partner a little bored in the bedroom and need to spice things up? Have you ever thought about swinging?

Swinging might not be what you think it is - it's when a married or committed couple engages in any kind of sexual activity with another couple (who's also into swinging), multiple couples, or a single individual (threesome). It could involve kissing, oral sex, or sex while one partner watched their significant other with someone else - or vice versa, or 2 couples completely swapping partners.

You never know - seeing your man with another woman, and letting him see you with another man may be a real turn on. It may even make you appreciate your partner even more.

There is no jealousy involved, only openness in expanding and exploring your own sexual relationship. Swinging couples have been known to say that their sexual experiences with others has strengthened the connection they feel with their partner. They also say it makes their own sex life more exciting and that their overall relationship much stronger.

So what do you think....

DearSugar Needs Your Help: Should I Join the Threesome?

DearSugar — Sat, 25 Aug 2007 09:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar and Flattered Fran Need your help!

Okay so I’m in a sticky situation. About 2 months ago, my best friend (I've known her since middle school) met the most amazing guy. He’s just my type, actually, blond curly hair, blue eyes, and has a runner’s body. He’s adorable but he’s an artist (I prefer the more professional type). He’s really spontaneous and adventurous. She tells me all these wild stories, and I’m really happy for them, but I have to say I’m a little jealous.

The other night I went out to a bar with them and we all got pretty tipsy. They walked me back to my apartment and I invited them inside to continue the festivities. We were all sitting on the couch, laughing and joking around, and my girlfriend looked at me and said something like "I love you. You're my best friend," and she went to kiss my cheek, but she totally lost her balance and ended up kissing my mouth." We fell over on the floor laughing about it, and I said "I love you too," and I kissed her directly on the lips, just to be funny. They stayed and we watched TV for a little while, and then they walked home.

I had completely forgotten about it until she and I had lunch a few days later. After we ordered, she told me that her boyfriend thought our kiss was really hot and he wanted to ask me if I would be interested in joining them in the bedroom - in a threesome.

I am not that adventurous in the bedroom, but something sparked my interest and I feel kind of flattered that they asked me. If I were to have a threesome with anyone it would be them, but I'm just worried that it'll make things weird between her and I after the fact. And what if they want to do it again and I don't want to? Or what if I start having feelings for my friend's boyfriend? What should I do?

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