Sunday Confessional: I'm Married and Have Been Dreaming About My Ex Lately


Updated 07/25/11 8:17 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 3 comments

Dreaming About My Ex

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. I've been having frequent dreams lately about my ex, with whom I have a child. Can anyone tell me why that is or what it means? We were so young, of course. But it's been so, so many years since we broke up. I'm wondering if it's because we parted ways and just Read more

Group Therapy: Is Having Sex With an Ex OK?


Updated 10/21/11 4:49 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 17 comments

Is Having Sex With an Ex OK?

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My ex-boyfriend and I recently broke up, but he still wants me in his life and he keeps telling me that he won't leave me. The reason that we broke up wasn't necessarily about the relationship, but it was him because he's been having some problems with his penis and he feels like he needs to Read more

Group Therapy: My Boyfriend's Ex Issues


Updated 05/04/11 5:00 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 7 comments

Boyfriend Still Cares About His Ex

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I have been seeing an incredible new guy for several months now. He's 10 years older than me — mature and sophisticated beyond any previous guy I've dated. I really like him, he already tells me that he loves me. He has been married but has been divorced for many years — he's friends Read more

Group Therapy: When Is It OK to Contact My Ex to Apologize?


Updated 04/05/11 6:50 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 14 comments

Contacting an Ex to Apologize

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Hey! Well I broke up with my boyfriend of two years on Saturday. This isn't exactly the first time I've broken up with him; I tend to do it a lot out of anger, but it's always temporary and everything turns out fine afterward. If it helps you to understand me, I'm a pisces so I tend to get Read more

Group Therapy: Can I Win Him Back?


Updated 11/22/11 1:56 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 10 comments

Winning Back Boyfriend

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! After nearly a year of dating, I broke up with my adoring boyfriend because I was experiencing some conflicted emotions and was scared of further commitment. This whole situation made me realize just how much I really loved him and realizing my mistake, I attempted to reconcile. I realized Read more

Link Time — Don't Fall Into the Ex Trap


Updated 12/10/10 1:35 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 0 comments

Hot to Avoid Hooking Up With Your Ex

How not to hook up with your ex — Glamour A guide to orgasm etiquette — Em & Lo Eight guys you should avoid because of their jobs — The Frisky Why men stay out of the kitchen during holidays — Lemondrop Read this before you snoop! — YourTango Fighting? What to do when words fail — Huffington Post What really turns men on? — GuySpeak Read more

Group Therapy: Hearing Your Ex Never Liked You


Updated 12/06/10 8:31 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 19 comments

Ex Says He Never Liked You

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I broke up with my ex about three months ago. The breakup itself is inconsequential: we were together for about 18 months, and we were happy together for most of that time. But we also knew it wouldn’t be a long-term relationship leading to marriage for many reasons that were discussed Read more

Group Therapy: What to Do About His Crazy Ex


Updated 01/17/12 10:33 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 23 comments

Boyfriend's Crazy Ex Won't Stop Contacting Him

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I've been dating my boyfriend about a month, and before me he dated this other girl for about a year and a half, and she broke up with him around three months before I started dating him. In no way was I the reason for their breakup; I didn't even know him then. But his ex continuously tries Read more

Diary of an Online Dater: Signing Out


Updated 10/18/10 1:17 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 1 comment

Diary of an Online Dater

Editor's note: Welcome to our weekly guest series Diary of an Online Dater, written by anonymous 20-something blogger matchgirl. In her final week she shares the lessons she's learned through this series . . . This series has been so much fun to write, and thank you for your support and sweet comments! However, I've decided with all I've been juggling offline in my life, online dating is going to Read more

Diary of an Online Dater: Too Many Balls in the Air


Updated 10/31/10 1:28 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 7 comments

Diary of an Online Dater 2010-10-11 08:00:33

Editor's note: Welcome to our weekly guest series Diary of an Online Dater, written by anonymous 20-something blogger matchgirl. This week things got complicated . . . Week 4: Seriously, when it rains, it pours. I couldn't make up the events of the last week if I tried. Things started out normal enough: I had a second date planned with the Intellectual, and I had begun emailing with a new Read more