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Editors Debate the Hot New Moon Posters, Kate Plus 8 Without Jon, and Jude Law in Drag?!

Molly — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 14:35:00 -0700

Today's PopSugar Rush has a look at tonight's season premieres of The Hills and The City, as well as our exclusive peek at MTV's upcoming StyL'D. Plus, editors debate which New Moon poster is the hottest, and what Jon and Kate Plus 8 will be like without the man of the house. Also, there's a bit of Jude Law in drag. Watch it all on PopSugar Rush now!

Is Cell-Phone Snooping Ever OK?

TresSugar — Wed, 06 May 2009 09:00:00 -0700

Is going through someone's text messages OK if you suspect he's up to no good? That was the question on The Hills this week: Heidi goes through Spencer's text messages, finds a text from a bartender he'd been flirting with, and promptly deletes it. In therapy, all Spencer can talk about is how Heidi shouldn't have gone through his phone. I hate to agree with Spencer, but I'd be annoyed too.

Would you ever snoop in your significant other's cell phone if you suspected he or she was cheating? Or do you think snooping is a bad idea under any circumstance?

The Hills: A Surprisingly Chaste Discussion of Chastity

TresSugar — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 13:00:00 -0700

Even if I didn't save myself for marriage, I have friends who did, often for religious reasons, and it was sweet to imagine them having a real "wedding night" on their wedding night. On last night's episode of The Hills, Heidi's Southern-Baptist high-school boyfriend, Colby, and his girlfriend come to visit; the couple doesn't drink and sleeps in separate hotel rooms. They're very open about the fact that they're waiting to do "it" until saying "I do."

If the other option is turning out like Spencer Pratt, maybe saving yourself for marriage isn't a bad idea. And as I recently learned, there doesn't necessarily have to be a separation of church and sex. How do you feel about the idea? Did you wait until marriage to do the deed? Did you have friends who did?

Have You Ever Gone to Therapy With a Significant Other?

DearSugar — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 09:58:52 -0700

I suggest therapy all the time on DearSugar for those in need of a listening ear, and therapy was brought up yet again on last night's episode of The Hills. Clearly Heidi and Spencer have some things to work out if they want to make their relationship work, and it's probably no surprise to you that I think couples counseling would do wonders for them! Taking that step and admitting you need help isn't easy but I'm curious to know if any of you have actually done it before. Whether your dating or married, tell me, have you ever gone to therapy with your significant other?

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Could You Get Rich Playing Therapist to Your Friends?

DearSugar — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 14:39:21 -0700

The Hills returned last night with many heart-to-heart talks - some of them surprising, others predictable. In the second episode of the new season, Stephanie and her brother Spencer have it out over how he treats Heidi. In the clip below, Stephanie points out that he's not exactly treating Heidi well and claims, "If I was a therapist, I'd be a millionaire with how many conversations I have with Heidi."

I can definitely identify with that one; some of my friends would owe me serious cash if I started charging for my services, but I don't mind. How about you: Do you have a friend whose therapy needs could make you millions?

Would You Be There For a Friend No Matter What?

DearSugar — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 11:00:00 -0800

Fighting with your best friend can be even more heartbreaking than fighting with a significant other, but a bond between BFFs is hard to completely let go. This was proven last night on The Hills when Lauren and Heidi caught up at the SLS Hotel opening. Although their relationship is undoubtedly strained, Lauren could see right though Heidi's tough exterior and told her that no matter what, if she ever needed anything, she'd be there for her.

After all they've been through, it was clear that they missed each other, but tell me, could you ever be that gracious to someone who betrayed you?