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Where Do You Stand? Taking a Break in the Beginning of a Relationship
Most of you think taking breaks in a relationship is a good thing (if need be) but when I heard a friend of mine tell me she wanted to take a break from her long-distance boyfriend after only a month of dating, I couldn't help but think, what's the point?
The beginning of a relationship is usually the best part — who doesn't love those butterflies in your stomach? — so do you think taking a break during that time is just a buffer before ending the relationship for good?
Group Therapy: He Needs Space, but He's Still Calling
My boyfriend of three years said he needs space. He said this after a long period of arguing and confusion over my big-time jealousy issues and clingy behavior. I don't feel he is trying to break up with me, since he's sent me at least five emails since he asked for space three days ago, and we have spoken on the phone (him being the one who called) at least three times a day.
You Asked: What Does He Mean by "Break"?
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I have been together for five and half years. We've dated since high school and throughout college, but have also had some rough periods. This Summer he got accepted into a four-year pharmacy program in another city.
You Asked: Should I Wait and See if He Changes His Mind?
Dear Sugar,
Back in July my boyfriend confessed that he lied to me about being a virgin — he had actually been with six girls before me. He was my first and it hurt terribly that someone I loved would lie to my for a year and half. I forgave him because I loved him and he genuinely was sorry; the guilt was eating away at him.
Group Therapy: How Can I Forget the Past and Be Happy?
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and during the Summer, went on a break. My boyfriend's grandmother died and we had been fighting constantly; he claimed that he wanted a break from the stress he was going through. Regardless of the fact that our break only lasted 10 days and I maintained my dignity by refusing to call or text, I still can't go over the fact that he hurt me after being together for so long.
The How-To Lounge: Time Apart Without Taking a Break
The notion of taking a break in a relationship is one many people ascribe to and one I’ve even recommended before, but it does seem that more often than not, taking a break is simply a step away from breaking up. When it comes down to it, a break may offer clarity, but it doesn’t actually solve any problems — only communication and compromise can do that — which is why I wanted to share some ideas for taking a break that doesn’t require any official breaks at all. To see my ideas, just read more
You Asked: Should I Give Him Space?
Dear Sugar,
I have been with my boyfriend for three years and he recently told me that he needs some space. He said that we should be "friends" for right now until he gets himself together. He has been through a lot, and seems to push everyone away.
You Asked: Is a Break Just Guilt-Free Cheating?
Dear Sugar,
I have been going out with the most perfect man for almost two years. I’m 21 and he’s 23. He tells me he loves me constantly, he compliments me nonstop, and whatever I need or want he does.
You Asked: Should I Call?
Dear Sugar,
I need dating advice. I'm your typical commitment-phobe but I've been dating this guy I met at work since last November and things were going great until two weeks ago. He quit his job and is now looking for something better.
Is Space in a Relationship a Good Thing?
I'm a firm believer that couples shouldn't spend every free second they have together. It's important for each person to have other friends, hobbies, and interests. Not only does it give you time apart (which is a must every once in a while), but it also helps to strengthen each person individually, which in turn makes you stronger as a couple.
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