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Sunday Confessional: I Didn't Tell Him the Condom Broke

DearSugar — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 09:00:00 -0800

I recently went off the pill because my husband and I want to start trying to get pregnant this Spring. I thought it would be a good idea to let my body adjust, so we've been using condoms ever since. Though I've been ready for a while now, my husband wants to wait until we're more financially stable, which I completely understand.

One night last month while we were having sex, I kept thinking to myself that it didn't feel like the condom was still on - it just felt too good. When he took it off, he didn't say anything so I just assumed it was still intact. I went to the bathroom to freshen up and checked the trash, just in case, and I was right - the condom had torn. Something inside of me got excited - there was now a possibility that I could become pregnant!

I didn't say anything to him about that night, and just this morning, I realized my period was late. I took a pregnancy test and it showed I am in fact pregnant! I'm thrilled, but at the same time, I'm guilt ridden for not being honest. The current state of the economy has made us even more financially unstable and I'm petrified to tell my husband this news. I would hate to think that he would have wanted me to take the morning after pill, so my train of thinking is what he won't know won't hurt him. Is it forgivable to keep my knowledge of the broken condom my little secret?

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Sunday Confessional: She Has Post-Wedding Blues

TresSugar — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 03:00:00 -0800

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits that she's sad her wedding is over. She says:

"I have post-wedding blues. Not because I really want to keep planning a wedding and crap like that, but because now it's gone. That is one more thing checked off the list, and that means I am getting older. I wanted to be his wife. I didn't want to feel like I had nothing left to look forward to."

Do you think this is a big deal?

Sunday Confessional: She Wants to Stay Home

TresSugar — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 09:00:13 -0800

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits that she wished she lived in a different era! She says:

"I was born in the wrong era. I would have been much happier as a stay-at-home wife. Yes, rights are good and women's lib or whatever, but it sucks to have to work an eight hour day, go home, and put in another eight hours."

Do you think this is a big deal?

Sunday Confessional: She's Never Been Kissed

TresSugar — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits to never being kissed!

"I'm almost 25 and I've never been kissed. I realize I'm not the oldest person to never have been kissed, but I'm just about the oldest person I know of personally. Recently it's gotten bad though. I see guys who I'm not necessarily even attracted to, (or who aren't even straight!) and I just want to grab them and plant one on them, just to know what it feels like. I hate feeling like such a pitiful loser. And I hate the waiting. And waiting. And waiting. And. . ."

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Sunday Confessional: She Pushes Them Away

TresSugar — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits that she sabotages her love life.

"I once considered myself to have high standards. Though this is true, I have noticed when there are men that meet all the 'standards' I push them away by whatever means necessary."

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Sunday Confessional: He's Not Excited About Our Anniversary

TresSugar — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor vents about her husbands lack of thoughtfulness.

Dear husband: You didn't fail to disappoint me today. You remembered our anniversary but had no intentions of doing anything beyond a grumbled "happy anniversary." What's so happy about it? I've spent a week putting thought and love into your gifts (cheesy, cutesy things like hugs 'n' kisses in a box, something you love), but you couldn't be bothered. Thank you for letting me know how very much you care.

Do you think this is a big deal?

Sunday Confessional: She's Dating Him Backwards

TresSugar — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits to her unconventional dating style.

"I'm dating a guy I met at a swinger party. It's like going backward: We had sex, then we started doing things like having dinner together and spending the night. Crazy."

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Sunday Confessional: His Female Friends Infuriate Me

TresSugar — Sun, 10 May 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you dole out the forgiveness - or not. Here's what one confessor had to say about her true feelings on those platonic girl friends:

I always say I'm not a jealous person. . . . but I HATE all of your female friends. For no other reason than, I hate that they get attention from you. Even though I know they are just friends . . . I still hate them.

So check out this true confession and tell us: do you think it's forgivable?

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Sunday Confessional: No Sex For Her

TresSugar — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 04:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week a confessor admits she's not getting any.

"Sex is not a big issue for my husband, he can take it or leave it. That makes me sad. I want a husband that wants me."

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Sunday Confessional: She's Using Him For His Pool

TresSugar — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 03:00:00 -0700

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week a confessor admits what's really behind her Summer love.

"I'm using you for your pool at your apartment complex, I'm gonna wait until summer's over to break it off. Oh and you might see me there next summer too, but it wont be with you!"

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