Group Therapy: A Guy Wonders If He's His Girlfriend's Friend, Not Lover


Updated 04/24/11 10:14 PM · Posted by · 21 comments

Girlfriend Won't Have Sex With Me

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Well my girlfriend and I have been together just over two years now. We don't have sex anymore and when we did it was once a month and I think I have fallen out of love with her. I am 26 she is 32. She has always been rather uninterested in sex and romance for that matter. I am a very sexual Read more

Childless Women: A Good Night's Sleep or a Good Night of Sex?


Updated 03/15/11 8:54 PM · Posted by · 13 comments

Would Women Rather Sleep or Have Sex?

Today a headline on the Daily Mail article reads "Sex? Most Women Would Rather Have a Good Sleep, Says a Mother in a Confession That Will Strike a Chord With Millions." Let's forget how ridiculously long the headline is and ask this: does it mean "most women" or "most mothers?" Though it attributes the statement to a mother, I imagine many people read "Sex? Most Women Would Rather Have a Good Read more

Group Therapy: Why Don't I Want Sex?


Updated 01/23/11 5:29 PM · Posted by · 28 comments

Why Don't I Want to Have Sex

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I don't want it often. Maybe, every few weeks, I'll want it a fair amount, about 2-3 times a week. But, then . . . I don't want it again. It can be up to about a month where I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for 6 years. We love each other so much. He gets Read more

Group Therapy: I Don't Want to Have Sex With Him, but I Do


Updated 10/10/10 12:44 PM · Posted by · 28 comments

Relationships and Sexual Aversion Disorder

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I have been married for 5 years and my husband and I both love each other so much and believe we are soul mates/meant to be/ and do not wish to be with any other person ever. Problem is I have sexual aversion disorder. This means I have no desire to have sex with him. I don't even ever want Read more

Hump Day: Wanting Love During That Time of the Month


Updated 09/03/10 8:24 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 7 comments

Having Sex While on Your Period

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. If you have questions about sex, send them to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's question: I find myself wanting sex more when I’m menstruating. Is that normal? And how do I avoid potentially making my partner feel turned off? To see Dr. Glickman's advice read more. Read more

Hump Day: Everything's Good Except the Sex


Updated 08/28/10 9:13 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 4 comments

Everything's Good Except the Sex

Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. If you have questions about sex, send them to TrèsSugar, and our friend Dr. Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations will offer his sound advice! Today's question: I have a great new boyfriend and although it’s only been six months, we’ve really connected and I know what direction the relationship seems to be heading. The only problem is the Read more

Don't Let These Meds Dampen Your Sex Drive


Updated 10/14/11 11:50 AM · Posted by FitSugar · 0 comments

Medications That Interfere With Sex Drive

Sometimes we're just not in the mood for sex, but a persistent lack of sexual desire is a bigger issue. Numerous factors can contribute to low libido, including common prescription drugs. If you've been battling a weak libido, maybe your meds are to blame. To see which drugs can decrease a woman's sex drive, read more Read more

Group Therapy: My Sex Drive Is Higher Than His


Updated 01/31/12 12:06 PM · Posted by · 14 comments

Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

This question is from Group Therapy in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and are very happy together and have a very satisfying sex life. The only problem is that I want sex more often than he does. I don't think his drive is abnormally low; mine has never been this high before . . . there's just something about him that I Read more

Could Birth Control Pills Be Hurting Your Sex Drive?


Updated 10/14/11 11:50 AM · Posted by FitSugar · 20 comments

Could the Pill Be Hurting Your Sex Drive?

Attention users of the pill: according to a new study, women who use hormonal contraceptives are at a higher risk for sexual problems. The German study, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, evaluated over 1,000 women using various birth control methods; the pill, the ring, and condoms were most popular. Most of the women involved in the study were in a stable, monogamous relationship for Read more

Has the Pill Decreased Your Sex Drive?


Updated 05/05/10 11:48 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 26 comments

The Pill and Lower Sex Drive

The Pill has done many things for women during its 50 year history. It can regulate periods, get rid of cramps, help our skin, and of course, prevent pregnancy on demand. But it also has side effects for some, including mood swings and a low libido. A new and extensive study out of Germany offers proof that women who take hormonal contraceptives have a higher risk of Female Sexual Dysfunction Read more