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Sunday Confessional: I Am a Cheater

Tres Community — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 03:05:18 PDT

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

I have been married for eight years and have been cheating on my husband for seven of them. I am 25, and he is 37. We have children together. My rendezvous started out as kissing one of our mutual friends, and has escalated all the way to going to sex websites to find people and sleeping with other married people.

I have cheated "all the way" with four people, two of them being female. I have gone as far as to have a three way with one of my girlfriends and her husband. What's really sick about that one is that they were both in my wedding. I have recently gotten a married man to leave his wife to be with me, but then I backed out at the last minute . . . They got divorced because of it.

I am constantly fantasizing about other people and crazy sexual situations. My husband and I do not have sex anymore. He is not able to "perform," and when he does, it is usually less than a minute. We focus on the kids and regular family things. I have told him that he and I are emotionally detached, but neither one of us knows what to do about it. I sometimes enjoy having this freaky, sexual secret life . . . But I worry that I am going to end up hurting my children. I want to stop and be the wife that I'm supposed to be, but I would also like to get f*cked at least once a week. I am 25, not 75. What do I do?

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Sunday Confessional: I've Been Lying About My Virginity

Tres Community — Sun, 07 Aug 2011 03:05:00 PDT

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I have lied to every single one of my friends who has ever asked me about being a virgin. I always say that I am not a virgin, because the people that I interact with on a daily basis talk trash/make fun of virgins (I'm on a sports team). I know that this is something someone should not be ashamed of, but I'm 21 and can't handle listening to all of their sex stories knowing that they think I understand what they are talking about and can contribute to the conversation. I've had boyfriends, but we never got to the level of sex. Now my dilemma is that I'm almost out of college and can't bear the fact that I could finish college and enter the real dating world as a virgin. My constant internal debate is deciding whether I should wait for a great guy (who I won't find in college, all the guys here are pricks), or just give it up to the next one that asks to take me home after a late night at the bars.

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Sunday Confessional: I Don't Want Children

Tres Community — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 03:05:06 PDT

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I don't want kids but my boyfriend does. We've been together for 4 years and he keeps thinking I'll change my mind. I don't think I will, but I don't want to break up.

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Sunday Confessional: I'm Jealous of My Married Friends

Tres Community — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 03:05:27 PDT

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Whenever I look at people's wedding pictures on Facebook I think their weddings look horrible. But it still makes me jealous I'm not engaged yet.

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Sunday Confessional: Almost 27 and Haven't Been in a Relationship Ever

Tres Community — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 03:05:00 PDT

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Sometimes you know a guy's relationship status other times you just don't; it all depends on the situation. But is it possible for a woman to have never been in a relationship, because she only falls for guys that either don't care, don't like her, are already in a relationship or like someone else? Because I have never been in a (serious) relationship. Now I'm at the point where it's starting to scare me to death. I mean it can be normal for a woman to repeatedly fall for men who don't care, don't like her or who are already in a relationship . . . I mean you can't know from the beginning a guy won't like you, can you?!

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Sunday Confessional: I'm Married and Have Been Dreaming About My Ex Lately

Tres Community — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 03:05:49 PDT

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I've been having frequent dreams lately about my ex, with whom I have a child. Can anyone tell me why that is or what it means? We were so young, of course. But it's been so, so many years since we broke up. I'm wondering if it's because we parted ways and just left with so many things unsaid.

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Sunday Confessional: I Don't Want My Sister as My Maid of Honor

Tres Community — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 03:05:21 PDT

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I'm feeling a lot of pressure to choose my sister as my maid of honor. She lives in a different city and is only 20, so it doesn't make much logistical sense to have her take on the role. I'd rather ask my best friend, but I don't want to upset my mom and sister.

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Sunday Confessional: I Caught My Boss Sexting

Tres Community — Sun, 29 May 2011 03:05:52 PDT

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I was working beside my (married) supervisor during a particularly boring day, when I noticed he was texting for a very long time. Texting is banned at work, and though I shouldn't have, I had to see what was so important. I looked over to see his response, which went into graphic detail about what they would do after work and the images he wanted her to send him. The recipient's name was different from his wife's, and we still had 6 hours left on that shift.

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Share Your Secrets in TrèsSugar's Confession Booth

TresSugar — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 01:00:00 PST

If you racked up some sins during Mardi Gras, it's the perfect time to confess them in our Confession Booth group. Just like Group Therapy, all your posts will be automatically anonymous. There is no need to sign out! Not ready to confess? Then read other people's dirty deeds, and weigh in at the Confession Booth.

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Sunday Confessional: I Slept With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

Tres Community — Sun, 07 Nov 2010 04:00:26 PST

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Him and I were really drunk, came home from the bar, and my roommate/best friend was already asleep. We were sitting on the couch together, one thing led to another, and we had sex. The next day we talked and said it would never happen again, but then 2 nights later it did. We agreed again that it was a mistake. A month later, when I was drunk, and he was sober, he said he wanted to try and figure out a way to keep hooking up. I wasn't thinking, and we hooked up again. Nothing has happened since then, but I don't know what to do. I feel like it is not fair to my best friend because she is planning on marrying this guy, but I know she will never speak to me again if I tell her.

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