Bad Genes: Promiscuity and Fidelity Are in Our DNA


Updated 12/05/10 12:48 AM · Posted by · 10 comments

The Cheating Gene

We could debate why people cheat longer than we dissected what exactly counts as cheating, and now a new study has added another lame excuse: the tendency to cheat is genetically predetermined. The same gene linked to alcoholism, gambling, and thrill-seeking makes people more likely to cheat and have one-night stands. It's all related to a system of pleasure and reward that releases the Read more

Is Polyamory Back?


Updated 03/01/11 6:10 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 8 comments

Is Polyamory Back?

Sex outside marriage has been getting a lot of attention. There was the movie based on real life, Breaking Upwards, about a young couple that chose an open relationship over a bored one; dating sites for extramarital affairs popping up, and studies touting the benefits of booty calls and cheating. Research psychologist Jesse Bering blames his colleagues in evolutionary psychology and "liberally Read more

Has a Booty Call Ever Rang Too Late For You?


Updated 08/27/10 10:19 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 14 comments

Has a Booty Call Ever Rang Too Late For You?

Booty calls have their benefits, but they can be more of a turnoff if they ring too late in the night. My roommate got a call around 1:00 a.m. from a guy she'd never even hooked up with. She answered it, but said she was not schlepping halfway across town at that hour. I think it was a smart move. Not only did she get to hook up with him the next week at a decent hour, but it was on her terms. Read more

Pickiness and the Single Woman


Updated 06/11/10 11:12 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 12 comments

Are Single Women Too Picky?

Another day, another survey finds single women are pickier than married women. Inevitably, the next breath blames a woman's single situation on her sky-high standards — an argument Lori Gottlieb turned into all-out brawl after writing Marry Him. But maybe it's married women we should be looking at? Has anyone ever studied the same women before, during, and after marriage to see how standards Read more

My DISFunkshion: The Double-Standard of One-Night Stands


Updated 04/12/10 10:07 PM · Posted by · 28 comments

The Double Standards of One-Night Stands

Here's a post from OnSugar blog My DISFunkshion. If a man has a one-night stand, he celebrates his victory and receives numerous high fives from friends. If a woman has a one-night stand, she either must have been looking for more than a one-night stand, and was fooled, or she made a terrible mistake. Why can’t a woman receive the high fives the next day? Trying to picture this scenario, it’s Read more

Say What? Megan Fox Doesn't Do One-Night Stands


Updated 03/10/10 2:19 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 14 comments

Say What? Megan Fox Doesn't Do One-Night Stands

"I've only been with two men my entire life. My childhood sweetheart and Brian. I can never have sex with someone that I don't love, ever. The idea makes me sick. I've never even come close to having a one-night stand." — The notoriously sexy starlet tells Harper's Bazaar UK that her real-life sex life defies her reputation. Sounds like she has something in common with celibate Lady Gaga. Read more

Mad Men: Do One-Night Stands Make You Feel Worse?


Updated 09/28/09 11:39 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 8 comments

Peggy Sleeping With Duck on Mad Men

Peggy! So good at your job, so bad at choosing men. Back in the first season of Mad Men, she skittishly flirts with Don, her boss, on her first day because she's told he needs to like his secretaries to keep them. That fails, and she sleeps with smarmy Pete Campbell, who just happens to be getting married that weekend. Then last night, she has a "go-round" with — spoiler! — middle-age Duck. Read more

One Night Stand Kit — Hilarious or Horrifying?


Updated 09/17/09 11:01 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 12 comments

One Night Stand Kit — Hilarious or Horrifying?

When I first saw the pink beaded strands in this One Night Stand Kit ($19), I thought they were hair rubber bands, which actually could come in handy during an unexpected hookup. But no, they are "love beads," packaged alongside a tiny vibrator, a vibrator ring, Please Gel samples, and two condoms — everything you'd need for a one-night stand. (This is basically the Walk of Shame Kit but Read more

The Truth About One-Night Stands


Updated 07/16/08 1:01 AM · Posted by · 26 comments

The Truth About One-Night Stands

Whether you're into one-night stands or not, a recent study shows that men and women engage in them with completely different intentions. Guys are interested in just one thing, the sex (what a surprise!), whereas women yearn for the feeling of being desired and needed. Of course, guys end up getting what they crave, but most women just end up feeling used and emotionally crushed. They have hopes Read more

Year-End Poll Results: Sex Partners and One-Night Stands


Updated 12/28/07 7:00 PM · Posted by · 5 comments

Year-End Poll Results: Sex Partners and One-Night Stands

As the year comes to a close, it's hard, if you're single, not to reflect on how many new sexual partners you had this year. If you're a little wilder, you might have even had a few one-night stands. So as part of my year-end coverage, I decided to pry a little bit and poll you about these topics. It comes as no surprise to me that DearSugar readers lead healthy but responsible sex lives: 56 Read more