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October Must Haves

DearSugar — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 09:00:00 -0700

October is a big month. Not only does it kick off the holiday season, but there are two very important missions that take place in October - the National RESPECT! Campaign and Breast Cancer Awareness Month. I've handpicked some great must haves so you can take part in everything October has to offer. Enjoy!
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October Must Haves

DearSugar — Mon, 01 Oct 2007 16:00:00 -0700

Although it seems like just yesterday that I told you all my September must haves, I am back with the latest and greatest things to get and do in October!

Pick up knitting! It's beyond relaxing and once you get the hang of it, you can start knitting gifts for the holidays - there's nothing better than a homemade gift.
Have a pumpkin carving party. Make a night out of it and serve a fabulous fall colored cocktail.
Clean out your closet and make room for some new Fall clothes.
If you have already read Jon Krakauer's Into the Wild, be sure to see Sean Penn's adaptation of the best selling book in theaters now.
Take a Sunday afternoon to walk your dog, walk with your best friend, or hubby and take in the crisp Fall air. If you're lucky enough to live where the seasons do change, take in the beautiful Fall foliage as well.

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DearSugar — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 04:00:00 -0700

October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month so make sure you don't miss our important information on this topic or the RESPECT! campaign.
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How to Perform a Self Breast Exam

DearSugar — Wed, 03 Oct 2007 10:00:00 -0700

Being proactive and aware of our body and health is so important, especially as women. While heart disease is the leading cause of death for women in the United States, breast cancer comes in at a close second. Since October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I wanted to pass along some tips to help educate you on breast self exams. Click here to read more

By the age of 20, women should be giving themselves breast exams at least once a month in addition to seeing their gynecologists on a regular basis
The best time to perform your exam is when your breasts are not swollen or tender, most recommended a week after your period
Women who are breast feeding, have implants or who are pregnant should be more diligent about their exams as lumps can be harder to detect
You must administer your exam while lying down so your breast tissue can spread out evenly on your chest
Whichever breast you examine first, place that arm above your head and use your fingertips from your opposite hand to massage and feel for lumps in a circular motion
Start your exam by your armpit and continue down to your rib cage, or until you no longer feel breast tissue, in an up and down pattern (chin to belly button).
Repeat on the other side
After both breasts are completed, sit up and check for lumps in your armpit with your arm slightly lifted. If the skin is too tight, it will be more difficult to feel for abnormalities
Many women have lumpy breasts to begin with; so don't be too alarmed if you feel some bumps along the way. Some lumps could be calcium deposits, cysts, or Fibrocystic breast condition, which are typically non malignant, perfectly normal lumps

If you feel anything abnormal, consult your doctor as soon as you can. Many women get lumps that are non cancer threatening all the time, but it is always better to be safe than sorry. Getting to know your breasts, the shape, the feel and their look is the best way to detect if they have changed in any way which to alert you of any red flags. It's easy to forget your self exam, so if you need a monthly reminder, iVillage will send you an e-mail reminder along with expert answers to common questions, helpful tips and a complete guide to doing a self-exam.

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You Asked: My Boyfriend Changed His Mind

DearSugar — Tue, 19 Jun 2007 13:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar--

I am 18 yrs old and have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half (he will be 21 in October). I'm very confused right now because he and I are planning on moving in together. We have been talking about this for at least six months, but now that I have finally talked to my mom and got her to accept it, he is very crabby and gets irritated when I bring it up. He says I talk about it every day, which I know I don't. My boyfriend is the most hard-headed person I know, so that makes everything difficult.

Well I don't know what to do with that, but on top of everything else, he has started to drink a lot more and go out with his friends almost every night, which I am sure is only going to get worse when he actually turns 21. I have a lot going on and just really need some advice, can you help me?

--Confused Catherine

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Dear Confused Catherine--

Take this as a huge warning sign! It sounds to me like your boyfriend is NOT ready to live with you, even though he agreed to it in the past. He must have changed his mind, which is pretty disrespectful to you and your relationship, but it's better to find out now before you get settled into a new apartment. He should be honest with you and tell you that he's not ready, or that he changed his mind, or whatever his reason is, instead of turning the tables and insinuating you are pressuring him. If he's too "hard-headed" to listen, well then, he doesn't deserve to live with you in the first place. Living together is a huge step, so if you are struggling with communication now, I would re-think your decision to cohabitate.

Turning 21 is a huge deal to some people, since it allows so much freedom. It sounds like he'll want to be out drinking with his buddies and if that doesn't sit well with you, that is just another reason that living together just might not be the right thing to do at this time. Moving in with someone requires commitment, trust, patience, and respect, and unfortunately it sounds like he's too immature for all that. He needs to "sow his oats" and if I were you, I wouldn't be around when he does. Good luck Catherine.

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GiggleSugar Reader Spotlight: JennaV

GiggleSugar — Fri, 08 Jun 2007 15:02:22 -0700

JennaV's been reading GiggleSugar for so long, she remembers who one of our favorite "so bad he's good" rappers is (see below). She's funny, nice and has some awesome blogs. Without further adieu, let's welcome JennaV into the spotlight! (Be sure to check out pics in the gallery!)

GS: What is your motto?
JV: When in Rome.....Click it or Ticket.

GS: Where are you from?
JV: I am half from Atlanta and half from Northern, Central, and Southern Ohio.

GS: What do you do?
JV: I am the #1 Flight Attendant in the Universe. This is a true story. I am sure you have heard about it.

GS: How would you describe your sense of humor?
JV: I think I have a dry sense of humor, however, I also enjoy a good fart joke....so I have the sense of a humor of a 12 year old boy.

GS: What's your fave GiggleSugar post?
JV: I LOVE "Average Homeboy" Blazin Hazen....he deserves many medals and ribbons for his bravery and talent.

GS: Best looking funny peeps?
JV: Jimmy Fallon and Amy Poehler.

GS: Fave funny peeps?
JV: David Cross (back off, J....hissssssssssssss) and Julia Louis Dreyfus.

GS: Fave comedy of all time?
JV: Legally Blond, Clueless, Miss Congeniality, Bring It On.

GS: If your life were a comedy, what would it be?
JV: I don't think the comedy has been written to describe my life. It is a true story and it MUST be told, maybe I will write it so I can win even MORE awards and medals.

GS: Do you ever get told you look like someone famous?
JV: I am a dead ringer for Alyssa Milano. I mean, our baby pics. So like 27 years ago, we could have been twins.

JennaV free for all: April 28th is the perfect date. It's not too hot and not too cold. That's what she said. 5 Grand and 401K and beer in a carafe. Read about all about my award winning blogs on Myspace. Oh, and it is hotter than a $2 whore in church down here in HOTLANTA. Come back in October.

GS: Thanks, JennaV!

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(JennaV's motto, Cutie-pie Maddie, Jimmy Fallon, Amy Poehler, David Cross, Julia Louis-Dreyfus)

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