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Psychologists Underestimated the Power of Female "Obsession" on Attraction

Colleen Barrett — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 02:00:56 PST

Earlier this week, I told you scientists thought political correctness was impeding gender research, so open your minds for this finding. Women are actually masochists when it comes to dating, preferring men whose feelings they are unsure of to those they are. Even when they're all attractive!

I know, you could have told me this. We don't need to look beyond fiction or real life to know the push and pull of attraction, but there is another illuminating, slightly womanizing, finding. The authors of the study, psychologists at Harvard and University of Virginia, believe they've underestimated the power of a woman's obsessiveness. Though, to be fair to "obsessive" women everywhere, the study did not examine men. So where does obsession come in?

The more uncertain a woman is about a guy's feelings, the more she thinks about him; the more she thinks about him, the more she thinks she likes him. The keyword is think - it's almost like an illusion.

So, guys, before you roll up your feelings and let the games begin, remember this: aloofness may spark initial attraction, but that just puts you on pedestal, setting the woman up for disappointment. It's like the real-life equivalent of putting only photos of yourself tan, 30 pounds lighter, and in your best clothes (the ones that no longer fit) on a dating profile, and then going on a first date. Only it's a lot meaner!

Photo courtesy of NBC

Sunday Confessional: My Celebrity Crush Is Out of Control!

Tres Community — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 04:00:54 PDT

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

You know how you fantasize about being with cute celebrity guys? Well not only do I fantasize, but I kiss things while I am purposely! I'll kiss my bed stand the wall and pretend it's them. Even have little pretend almost sex moments. IDK HOW TO STOP AND I NEED HELP!!!

There's lots of great stuff going on in our community - join it, check it out, share your posts or advice in the great groups, and maybe we'll feature it here on TrèsSugar!

Quick Quiz: What is the Best-Selling Perfume in the World?

BellaSugar — Mon, 01 Oct 2007 09:00:42 PDT

Have you been keeping up to speed on BellaSugar? The answer to this question is in a series from the last couple of weeks. Here's a hint: Fragrance sales dramatically increased when Marilyn Monroe was quoted saying, "All I wear to bed are two drops of ...." Can you guess which of these perfumes is the world's best-selling fragrance?

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One Awesome Thing: A Swimsuit to Make You Feel Like a Bond Girl

Noria Morales — Mon, 28 May 2012 04:00:15 PDT

In my quest to find a swimsuit that gives my post-baby body plenty of coverage and curves, I've found two solutions: neoprene and nonstop Pilates. Let's go with neoprene for now. The lightweight rubber material, used in scuba gear, helps suck you in and smooth over dimples and rolls, curing you from a case of the jiggles. A wetsuit, however, is not the answer.
Enter Lisa Marie Fernandez, the fashion-stylist-cum-swimsuit-designer who made neoprene fashionable with her line of sleek and, yes, sporty (but mostly sleek) suits. This season, she partnered with British designer Peter Pilotto (and prints master) to create a collection of gorgeous printed swimwear. My favorite is the Farrah ($495). The maillot features curved seam details to add some shape to the midsection, cap sleeves to make arms look thinner, and a sexy front zip to show off decolletage à la a classic Bond girl. At $495, it's not a guilt-free buy, but after trying on so many suits that don't help, it's worth it to find one that does. Plus, I'm totally obsessed with the artful print.

Peter Pilotto/Lisa Marie Fernandez Farrah swimsuit ($495)

22 Actresses Who Could Play Anastasia in Fifty Shades of Grey

Becky Kirsch — Sat, 26 May 2012 10:31:08 PDT

We've been throwing out ideas for who should play Christian in Fifty Shades of Grey, but he's not the only lead in the upcoming movie. It's safe to say that a ton of young actresses will be vying for the role of Anastasia Steele, the beautiful but insecure 21-year-old that becomes a love interest (and an obsession, really) for billionaire Christian. You've had a lot of thoughts and suggestions about which actresses you'd love to see play Ana, so here are the top 22 candidates.

Inspiration For Adorably Geeky Engagement Photos

Kelly Schwarze — Thu, 24 May 2012 09:37:27 PDT

In between writing your vows and choosing the perfect video game-themed cake, get inspired for an engagement photo shoot that tells the story of you and your sweetie's love in a way all your own. Embrace the quirky side of your personalities and incorporate your mutual obsession with science fiction, comic books, and a certain bespectacled wizard when planning your photo session. Check out the adorkable engagement vignettes from real-life couples and their talented photographers in the gallery. Which is your favorite scene?

Band-Aid Magic Vision: Ga Ga or Gag?

Rebecca M Gruber — Thu, 24 May 2012 08:04:28 PDT

Like most tots, my lil ones have a bit of an obsession with bandages - one slight scrape and they're begging me to fix it up. Some of that is probably the fun characters they get to place on the boo-boo, but I have a feeling more of it has to do with the attention they receive. Imagine how they would react if it was none other than Kermit the Frog, Gonzo, or Miss Piggy calming them down?

Band-Aid Brand just introduced Band-Aid Magic Vision, a bandage that works in conjunction with a free iPhone app to help soothe injured kids. Here's how it works: Apply a bandage to an injured child (it can even be a pretend injury, if your kids are prone to inventing cuts and bruises the way mine are), and then point an iPhone or iPad loaded with the app at the bandage. The app then allows kids to interact with one of the three Muppet characters as they comfort the kids. Your children can pose with Miss Piggy on a runway, help Gonzo with one of his crazy daredevil acts, or swing with Kermit as he sings "Rainbow Connection." They can also photograph themselves interacting with the characters, and that sounds like just the cure tots need when they're facing noncritical injuries. What do you think?

Link Time: Christian Louboutin Says "It's Not My Job to Create Something Comfortable"

Marisa Tom — Thu, 24 May 2012 07:31:52 PDT

Christian Louboutin says, "It's not my job to create something comfortable." - Fashionista
J.Crew's new Bali-inspired style guide is drawing criticism - HuffPost Style
Glam tip: last-minute manicure setter - Olivia Palermo
38 indie online boutiques worth an e-browse - Racked
Tired of the thigh-high slit trend yet? - Stylelist
Bag brand to watch: Mark Cross - Purse Blog
Lauren dishes her mini-getaway essentials - Lauren Conrad
Lenny Kravitz designed some Toms, covered in his lyrics - Lucky
Another chic dose of this season's tropic thunder obsession - Style.com
Revenge's most memorable twists, with a side of serious on-set style - The Daily Beast

Photo courtesy of 2012 ABC, Inc. and WireImage

Kristen Stewart Inspires Our Latest Printed-Pants Obsession - and the Chicest Way to Style Them

Hannah Weil — Wed, 23 May 2012 07:29:52 PDT

Kristen Stewart made her first appearance in Cannes a memorable one with a sophisticated spin on the printed-pants trend. The actress posed for the On the Road photocall rocking a pair of serious statement pants by Balenciaga. We're used to seeing cool looks from Kristen, but this may be one of her chicest yet, thanks to a fitted Rebecca Minkoff blazer - she also ditched the Converses in favor of a sleek pair of pointed-toe pumps. Together it's casual and impeccably polished (and we're kind of obsessing over those awesome pants). Feeling inspired? Shop the key pieces below to channel Kristen's pulled-together cool.

Sugar Inc. Is Looking For 34 Awesome People!

PopSugar — Wed, 23 May 2012 16:30:58 PDT

Sugar Inc. is thriving and growing every day, and we're seeking brilliant minds like yours to join us! We are looking for 34 talented and passionate people to join our 215-person commerce, original content, and global media company in our brand-new NYC office on Park Avenue, our giant new Los Angeles PopSugar Studios in Culver City, and our bustling headquarters in San Francisco.

Are you an Art Director ready to help make our brand even more stunning?
A beauty-obsessed editor ready to join our team as the BellaSugar Editor?
Or maybe you're an energetic Operations Engineer jazzed to help us scale our production platform?

Check out all our open positions on our Careers page, and drop us a line describing why you think you'd be the perfect fit for Sugar Inc.!