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 <title>Creative Lingerie Ad - Love It or Leave It? </title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/5812716&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=120  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/ed2/301/3019466/43_2009/image_7.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t want to say too much about this lingerie ad running in Germany because I fear it could give away the effect. But I&#039;ll tell you this: it definitely makes the point that anyone can have the desire to feel sexy. Check it out and tell me if you think it is powerful or problematic. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dreaming Shirtless: A Look Back at Maidenform Bra Ads</title>
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            You know those mortifying dreams where you suddenly realize you&#039;ve been going about your day in your underwear? Well a lingerie ad campaign was stuck in a similar dream throughout the entire 1950s and 60s. The &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maidenform&quot;&gt;Maidenform bra&lt;/a&gt; print ads featured a woman wearing her underwear in public doing something different each time. The copy always read: &quot;I dreamed I (insert the relevant activity) . . . in my Maidenform bra.&quot; Check them out and tell me, if dreams could come true, what would you do in your Maidenform bra?

&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.vintageadsandstuff.com/adsmaidenform.html&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 04:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Do You Think Pointy Bras Will Make a Comeback? </title>
 <link>http://www.tressugar.com/3166201</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/3166201&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=116 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/42/423748/21_2009/c93aea46b52bb0b1_2491835602_ab6fc122f1_o.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;When I look at this vintage ad, I think three things. First, apparently Lady Gaga did not invent &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bellasugar.com/2748067&quot; &gt;the hair bow&lt;/a&gt;. Second, who plays pool topless? And third, how long until pointy bras make a comeback? Madonna made them famous on stage in the &#039;80s, but will ordinary women ever want to look this perky again? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px! important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://community.livejournal.com/vintage_ads/1181487.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 13:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>TresSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Flashback: Before There Were Spanx </title>
 <link>http://www.tressugar.com/3141446</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/3141446&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=63 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/42/423748/20_2009/7fe234bb0b2d2912_spanks.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This elongated 1940s ad for constricting lingerie promises to help you retain your youthful beauty for years to come. . . as long as you don&#039;t stop breathing first! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://community.livejournal.com/vintage_ads/1169185.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 07:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>(Syrian) Girls Just Wanna Have Fun</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/3094266&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=120  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/42/423748/18_2009/3ca37e67fdd1029c_85193115.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Bombarded with images of scantily clad women on billboards, television, and magazines, it makes sense that some women who live in liberal societies like the US succumb to lingerie&#039;s lure. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You may be surprised to hear, though, that even women who reside in extremely modest countries in the Middle East have the hots for seductive and sexy undergarments. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In Syria, where women often wear veils and long robes, the demand for push-up bras, leather outfits, whips, and edible underwear &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/04/21/syrian_lingerie/index.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;is on the rise&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;After her wedding, a Syrian woman traditionally brings a trunk full of underwear to her husband&#039;s home. Some shop owners say that the Internet has added fuel to their imaginations and in turn altered the tradition. Now, some Syrian women don&#039;t want just any old underwear - they want the latest in kinky lingerie. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What do you think it is about lingerie that makes some women desire it, even if it&#039;s often invisible to everyone else? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 06:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Last Chance To Win a Weekend Away and a $500 Shopping Spree at Agent Provocateur!</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/2747226&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/05_2009/5fd7a9338261d7cb_DEAR_VDAY_400x400post.large.gif&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;You don&#039;t have to be lucky in love this February; you just have to be lucky - to win DearSugar&#039;s Luxurious Valentine&#039;s Day Giveaway, that is! To help you celebrate this intimate holiday, we&#039;re giving away the perfect getaway and romance package to get you in the mood for love. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One lucky reader will win the ultimate &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tags/Valentines+Day&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Valentine&#039;s Day&lt;/a&gt; package worth over $1,900, which includes a two-night weekend stay at any &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.WHotels.com &quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;W Hotel&lt;/a&gt; in the US; a $500 shopping spree to my favorite &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dearsugar.com/tag/lingerie&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;lingerie&lt;/a&gt; store, &lt;a href=&quot;http://adfarm.mediaplex.com/ad/ck/7897-70466-25900-0&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Agent Provocateur&lt;/a&gt; (which is sure to help spice up your night!); and six months of a dozen roses and some amazing chocolates, courtesy of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.organicbouquet.com/sugarvday09&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;OrganicBouquet.com&lt;/a&gt;! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To enter to win, simply answer these five questions below that will test your Valentine&#039;s Day knowledge, and remember, your eligibility is not based on getting the answers correct. You must be a registered user to enter however, so log in to &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/&quot; &gt;TeamSugar&lt;/a&gt; before taking the quiz, and if you haven’t yet registered, &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/user/register&quot; &gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; to create a profile.  For the official rules, &lt;a href=&quot;http://teamsugar.com/2750956&quot; &gt;click here&lt;/a&gt;. The contest is open to US residents only and the lucky winner will be chosen on Wednesday, Feb. 11, at 11:59 p.m. PST so be sure not to miss out on your chance to win this awesome giveaway - good luck!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 10:04:59 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear&#039;s 5 Favorites From Agent Provocateur</title>
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            Since we&#039;re &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dearsugar.com/2747226&quot;&gt;giving away a $500 shopping spree&lt;/a&gt; to my favorite &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dearsugar.com/tag/lingerie&quot;&gt;lingerie&lt;/a&gt; store just in time for Valentine&#039;s Day, I thought I&#039;d share my five favorite pieces from &lt;a href=&quot;http://adfarm.mediaplex.com/ad/ck/7897-70466-25900-0&quot;&gt;Agent Provocateur&lt;/a&gt; to help get you excited for your chance to win. The contest only lasts for two more days, so be sure to enter for your chance to win all the great prizes by clicking &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dearsugar.com/2747226&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Good luck!
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 <pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DearSugar</dc:creator>
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 <title>Sunday Confessional - I Thought About My Ex While Having Sex With My Boyfriend</title>
 <link>http://www.tressugar.com/2783852</link>
 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/2783852&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=113  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/0/3362/06_2009/7307221dfd8bb421_dv1991021.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I&#039;ve been with my boyfriend for two years now. In the beginning, we couldn&#039;t get enough of each other and the sex was phenomenal. As we settled into our relationship, the passion began to fade. I know that&#039;s completely normal, but sex has always been really important to each of us so it wasn&#039;t long before things got awkward between us. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I knew something had to change so I started to wear &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dearsugar.com/2747226&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;sexy lingerie&lt;/a&gt; to help reignite the flame. It felt great to have him want me again like the good old days, but he wasn&#039;t reciprocating the effort. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To make matters more complicated, an ex-boyfriend of mine recently contacted me on Facebook. Things didn&#039;t work out between us for legitimate reasons, but I always found him incredibly desirable. He&#039;s been top of mind lately and the other night while having sex with my boyfriend, I found myself fantasizing about my ex. I felt guilty the entire time, but that was the first time we had mind-blowing sex in months. I don&#039;t want to get into the habit of thinking about other men while being intimate with my boyfriend, who I love more than anything, but can I be forgiven if I let my mind wonder from time to time? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2009 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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            I asked you yesterday &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/2692064&quot;&gt;what one thing you&#039;d change about your sex life&lt;/a&gt;, and while most of you seem pretty darn satisfied, many of you admitted to wanting more of it. In an effort to give you just that, check out my five tips for making sex a priority in your life and his. If you have anything to add, please do so in the comments - the more tips the better!

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 <pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 06:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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