Group Therapy: Is It the Age Difference, or Is It Him?


Updated 03/04/11 11:39 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 17 comments

Age Difference in Relationships

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! It's not a big age difference, only seven years, but he used to say they're ten years. Frankly I don't know if this has to do anything with the relationship or it is the nature of the man vs. the woman. Anyway, I am so romantic and the fact that I hadn't had a relationship for three years Read more

Group Therapy: I Am More Intimate With FWB Than My Boyfriend


Updated 12/30/11 5:44 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 23 comments

More Intimate With My FWB Than Boyfriend

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I am in an open (some might call it "polyamorous") relationship. This doesn't mean I go around mounting strangers willy-nilly, but I do have a primary relationship and will sometimes develop one or two secondary relationships as well. My (primary) boyfriend and I have been together for two and Read more

Get Ready to Blush, It's Sexy Quiz Time


Updated 02/09/10 3:05 PM · Posted by FitSugar · 5 comments

Sex Is Good For Your Health Quiz

If there is any excuse to connect with your lover, Valentine's Day is a good one. Besides its pleasurable side, sex has some health benefits too — as if you needed an excuse. Think you know why all that kissing and rubbing is so good for you? Take my quiz to find out . . . Take the Quiz Read more

Intimacy Device Helps Long-Distance Couples See the Love


Updated 05/27/09 9:30 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 11 comments

Intimacy Device Helps Long-Distance Couples See the Love

No, not that kind of intimacy device; this one has glimmers of science fiction. But if you're in a long-distance relationship, some British researchers want to help you get more intimate with your partner. A new invention, dubbed Mutsugoto, allows couples to "communicate intimacy" by drawing with lights on each other's bodies. Sounds hot! The device promises to go beyond phone calls and email by Read more

Dear Poll: Do You Look For Romance or Friendship?


Updated 04/01/09 12:18 AM · Posted by · 13 comments

Dear Poll: Do You Look For Romance or Friendship?

In order to have a long-lasting relationship, it's important to share love, trust, romance, intimacy, friendship, and most of all, attraction with your significant other. But since so many relationships end in divorce, you have to really think about what matters to you before committing to a lifelong union. Some people say it's friendship that makes a relationship work, but other say it's Read more

You Asked: His Libido Is Too Much For Me!


Updated 04/11/10 9:29 PM · Posted by · 28 comments

You Asked: His Libido Is Too Much For Me!

Dear Sugar, My boyfriend loves giving me oral sex. It's gotten to the point where he's like obsessed with it, and while I love him and thoroughly enjoy being intimate with him, I don't want oral sex everyday of my life! He actually got mad at me once because I told him no — I just wasn't in the mood for anything sexual — and he pouted the entire night. How do I make him understand that it's Read more

Handle This: He's More Interested in Porn


Updated 08/21/09 6:09 PM · Posted by · 20 comments

Handle This: He's More Interested in Porn

In the past few months your sex life has all but dried up. You’re always trying to initiate things, and you’ve even gone so far as to buy sexy new lingerie, but nothing seems to get your boyfriend interested. When you ask him about it, he says he’s sleep deprived and stressed out. One night you wake up and realize he’s no longer in bed. Following sounds coming from the living room, you Read more

Do Tell: Do Certain Seasons Make You More in the Mood?


Updated 10/22/08 12:33 PM · Posted by · 18 comments

Do Tell: Do Certain Seasons Make You More in the Mood?

Don't you just love Fall? It's such a cozy time of year, full of fleece coats, sipping hot cups of cider, and afternoon outings pumpkin picking. Long walks admiring the warm colored leaves and crisp air give hints that Winter holiday celebrations are on their way. If you're in a relationship, all these pleasant feelings can make you fall in love all over again. Other seasons can have this same Read more

Can You Be Too Intimate?


Updated 10/05/08 4:05 AM · Posted by · 25 comments

Can You Be Too Intimate?

Intimacy is a relationship necessity, but is there such a thing as too much intimacy? This is something I consistently debate with my girlfriends, which is why I was so glad to see it broached by Jake of Married Jake, one of Glamour's love and sex blogs. Jake was confounded when his new wife asked him not to pee in front of her anymore. Her rationale is that now that they're in it for the long Read more