Group Therapy: My Friend Is Having an Affair With a Married Man


Updated 05/17/11 10:54 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 26 comments

Friend Is Having an Affair With a Married Man

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! One of my friends has been having an affair with a married man. Part of me feels like this is none of my business. Another part of me feels like this is so much not my business that I shouldn't hang out with her anymore. I'm recently engaged and getting married in a few months and her tales Read more

Group Therapy: I Want Another Woman's Boyfriend


Updated 03/16/11 8:57 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 15 comments

I Want Another Woman's Boyfriend

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Don't get me wrong. I would NEVER ever do anything to come between them or let my feelings be known in any way while they are together. In fact the ironic thing was that if he were to show any interest in me at all while in a relationship with his girlfriend, he would lose all appeal to me. Read more

Group Therapy: I Found Inappropriate Emails


Updated 02/21/11 2:14 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 22 comments

Read Boyfriend's Email

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We went through our rough patch last summer (almost a year ago); he told me he wanted a break because we were fighting a lot, and as any girl would, I had to make sure it wasn't because of another woman, and he assured me it wasn't. Although it Read more

Bad Genes: Promiscuity and Fidelity Are in Our DNA


Updated 12/05/10 12:48 AM · Posted by · 7 comments

The Cheating Gene

We could debate why people cheat longer than we dissected what exactly counts as cheating, and now a new study has added another lame excuse: the tendency to cheat is genetically predetermined. The same gene linked to alcoholism, gambling, and thrill-seeking makes people more likely to cheat and have one-night stands. It's all related to a system of pleasure and reward that releases the Read more

Charging by the Infidelity in Prenups — Love It or Leave It?


Updated 10/26/10 11:46 AM · Posted by · 9 comments

Charging For Cheating in Prenups

There's the right to random drug tests. A fine for a woman exceeding a certain weight. Or $100,000 "bonus" every time a partner is unfaithful. Prenups can get far more unromantic than "mi casa es mi casa." Whether you'd ask your intended to sign a dotted line or not, the idea of charging per cheat seems counterintuitive — especially if the person has money. It's like parking tickets or late Read more

Group Therapy: He Won't Leave His Wife


Updated 11/09/10 6:59 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 29 comments

He Won't Leave His Wife

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Two years ago I divorced my husband after 10 difficult years of marriage. I reconnected with a man I went to college with on a social network when he began asking me questions about how to get divorced. He wanted to know what steps to take. We became pretty good friends and spoke or Read more

Group Therapy: Husband Says It's Over After 20 Years


Updated 10/21/10 9:43 PM · Posted by Tres Community · 13 comments

Husband Says It's Over After 20 Years

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Husband says it's over after 20 years. There's been a lot of infidelity on his part on his travels for work while I'm home raising his children and no matter the situation I've always taken him back!! I love him so much I've let him get away with it!! Now he tells me he's done and no Read more

Would You End It If You Found Out Partner Cheated Years Ago?


Updated 10/06/10 7:18 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 18 comments

Would You End It If You Found Out Partner Cheated Years Ago?

It's always heartbreaking to find out your partner cheated on you, but what if the episode of infidelity happened years ago? You might not want to walk away from years of a solid relationship, but on the other hand you could feel like the whole thing has been based on a lie. A TrèsSugar Community member recently shared her dilemma: she cheated on her husband years before they were married, and Read more

Group Therapy: Husband Discovered My Past Infidelity


Updated 10/13/10 11:43 AM · Posted by Tres Community · 26 comments

Husband Discovered My Past Cheating

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My husband and I are going through a tough time. I was unfaithful to him years before we got married and I had a small indiscretion one month after our nuptials that he recently found out about all at once. And now our once happy, blissful relationship is torn apart. We're seeking therapy Read more

What to Do When an Affair Leads to a Relationship?


Updated 11/02/10 12:15 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 13 comments

Can You Have a Legitimate Relationship After an Affair?

LeAnn Rimes shook up her image last year when she started hooking up with Eddie Cibrian — who was married just like she was. Now that they're officially together, the newly divorced singer is facing some critics. After pictures of the couple's shirtless and bikini-filled vacation surfaced this week, LeAnn tweeted: "Since when is kissing your boyfriend a crime?!" If two people fall in love when Read more