You may have a vision of Tantric massage — gentle touching, nakedness, feathers, scented oils, silk sheets, and seductive Indian music playing in the background. You're not exactly far off, but there's much more to it than that. Tantric massage was created from the belief that if you're happy sexually, then you'll be healthy. This type of massage is meant to awaken Kundalini, a type of powerful Read more

The texture and taste of food is often a sensual experience on its own, so you can see how it could spice things up in the bedroom as well. I’m talking about sexy foods like strawberries, whipped cream, honey, and chocolate! But then again, food is also messy, sticky, and sometimes just downright dirty, which are the parts of sex most people like least. I’m torn on this one, so let me ask you Read more

Now, I don’t think that anyone should be rushing out and giving lap dances to random gents, but lap dances can be a sexy and fun way to spice up your foreplay. It can also be a serious treat for your man and a great way to take the initiative. To learn my tips, read more Read more

I'm sure you've all heard of the female G-spot, but what about the A-spot? And no, it has nothing to do with your bum, although that's what I first thought, too! I'm actually referring to the Anterior Fornix Erogenous (AFE) Zone. It's an area inside a woman in between her G-spot and her cervix. It's extremely sensitive and should feel a little swollen, spongy, and wrinkly. When stimulated, not Read more

While quickies can be fun, I think there's something to be said for languishing in some serious foreplay. Not only does it really get you in the mood, but it's a great opportunity to communicate your needs to your partner. I think foreplay is best when you take your time, letting a burst of intensity sneak in every once and a while, but some people like foreplay to be short and sweet. Every Read more