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Dear Quiz: What's Up With Erections in the Morning?

DearSugar — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 12:00:00 -0700

Ever noticed that your man wakes up a little excited sometimes? Well it actually happens pretty often, but do you know why? Take this quiz and find out!

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Group Therapy: He Couldn't Perform

Thu, 15 May 2008 03:00:00 -0700

I'm a 20 year old college student, and a while ago I met a guy at a party. There was a great vibe between us, and since then we've been seeing each other regularly. We've been really into each other physically, but I've wanted to take things slow because I've only been single for four months after two and a half years of being taken.

Last night, I invited him over to my flat, and it was really fun. We had already discussed sex, and it seemed like things were headed that direction. We were clumsy at first, but it seemed normal to me because it was the first time we'd gotten this intimate. Unfortunately, he wasn't able to get an erection, and we had to stop. I felt quite rejected, and he couldn't figure out what was wrong with him since it had never happened before. We were mostly silent after that and things were pretty awkward.

We fell asleep and in the morning tried to discuss what went wrong. It was the first time he had sex with a girl he's really interested in, and I concluded that he was just nervous. I tried to make things right, by initiating sex again, but he refused and said he didn't feel like it. I felt horrible because I was standing there naked being turned down. I asked him to leave, and without saying something he got up and left. I just don't know what to do now. I really like him. Will things ever work out between us again? Is there something wrong with me?

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The How-To Lounge: Reacting When He Can't Perform

DearSugar — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 09:00:00 -0700

I don’t care how long you’ve been in a relationship, it’s always a difficult scenario when your man can’t perform. But, it happens - to everyone. And while it's not the end of the world to most women, it can be devastating to a man. For some helpful tips on how to cope with a situation such as this, click here to read more

Don’t repeatedly ask him what’s wrong or why it happened. Once should be plenty sufficient, and trust me, he probably doesn’t have an answer.
It’s likely that he’ll no longer be in the mood, so don’t force anything right then. Give it time, a day or two, and then initiate things again, but go slowly. It’s likely he might be feeling some residual anxiety.
Even if he acts frustrated, try not to return the sentiment. Instead, maintain some affection. You don’t need to smother him, but rest your hand on his stomach or give him one last good kiss before going to sleep.
Though this isn’t a big deal (really, it’s normal!), don’t say, “It’s not a big deal.” You don’t want to undermine how he’s feeling, it’s better to convey that through your actions.
Don't take it personally! It doesn't mean your boyfriend isn't attracted to you, turned on by you, or totally blown away by you, in fact, that's about the least likely scenario.

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Noooooooooooo!

GiggleSugar — Fri, 28 Dec 2007 09:00:00 -0800

Gentlemen, can we kindly forgo the public displays of erection (PDEs)? It's great that you got it, but please don't flaunt it- especially when sporting a pair of Speedos on a crowded beach during broad daylight.

X-Rated Weather Report

GiggleSugar — Tue, 16 Oct 2007 11:30:00 -0700

Someone should tell him that he has a bad angle. (Or a good one, depending on how you look at it.)

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What Exactly Are We Selling Here?

GiggleSugar — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 16:01:33 -0700

Who needs sexy bikini models to sell cars when your equipment looks like this?

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Wrestler Thinks He's Being Subtle

GiggleSugar — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 11:00:00 -0700

...But we know he's got no game.

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What's The Funniest Slang Term For "Erection"?

GiggleSugar — Fri, 04 May 2007 01:00:00 -0700

We thought we'd just bypass the "slang for 'penis'" post and go straight to the "slang for erect penis" post. (Oh, and enjoy the picture of David Beckham.) So what do you think--what's the funniest slang term for "erection"?

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Nudie Mag Wants to Show Men in All Their, Ahem, Glory

TresSugar — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 10:00:21 -0700

It's hard out there for a magazine full of naked men - or, maybe not so hard. I was already skeptical about Filament, the recently launched erotic periodical for women. Now the magazine is wondering whether it should print photos of males who are clearly aroused.

Filament aims to be artful and appealing to women, setting itself apart from Playgirl. But if it prints images of erections, does it cross the line from art into pornography? See what Filament has to say about the matter.

Pitching A Tent Is The New Cleavage

GiggleSugar — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 08:00:00 -0700

The same prankster who stuffed himself a stiffy to parade around at a car show is back, and this time, he's taking an already bad joke even farther. He's parading around a park where there are plenty more innocent old folks and children to terrify with his indecent display of crotch. I noticed that he seems to get more attention from men than from women. What's with that?