Sex Therapist Says: Go Ahead and Snoop on Him


Updated 09/19/09 1:45 PM · Posted by TresSugar · 31 comments

Sex Therapist Says: Go Ahead and Snoop on Him

In an ideal world, says sex therapist and relationship counselor Dr. Ian Kerner, partners in committed relationships wouldn't hide anything from each other nor be suspicious of the other's activities. But Internet infidelity is such a problem these days, he argues, that sometimes you are justified in snooping on your partner's online activity. You might not find out that your partner's cheating Read more

The Vampire Diaries "Ghost World": The Good, the Bad, and the Bloody


Updated 11/23/11 4:44 AM · Posted by · 5 comments

The Vampire Diaries Recap of "Ghost World"

There are lots of old faces on this week's episode of The Vampire Diaries — and they're all dead. Bonnie's botched spells are coming back to haunt her (and everyone else) in Mystic Falls, as the ghosts of dearly departed characters are brought back and allowed to walk around like they're alive. For Stefan that means an old friend is back to save him, Tyler's uncle is back to help him, and Read more

7 Deadly Sins of Relationships


Updated 03/08/11 9:35 AM · Posted by · 5 comments

Relationship Don'ts

Today we may revel in sin, but not everything will be forgiven tomorrow. The seven deadly sins of relationships are like dating dealbreakers, only with the ante significantly upped. They can damn a relationship just when it begins or after years of commitment. And not just on Mardi Gras! Fighting unfairly: There's no nice way to fight, but it must be done. You don't want to be a dirty fighter; Read more

Is Monogamy the Most Important Factor in a Relationship?


Updated 06/30/11 4:45 PM · Posted by · 8 comments

Dan Savage Anti-Monogamy

Perhaps prompted by the high-profile infidelities of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Anthony Weiner, The New York Times Magazine is taking on cheating spouses this weekend. But instead of asking "why men cheat," the article sets out to question the whole premise of monogamy and whether it's a realistic or even valuable goal. The magazine does this by way of profiling advice columnist and starter of Read more