Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: I Adore My Friend, But So Does Everyone Else!


Updated 12/17/08 4:54 PM · Posted by · 28 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: I Adore My Friend, But So Does Everyone Else!

Dear E. Jean, I have a friend who's so beautiful that every man who crosses our path wants her. This is not paranoia. It's reality. Even movie stars gawk at her on the street — ugh! More cases in point? My ex casually asked me if she was dating anyone, my current ex joked about a three-way, and a man who's been pursuing me for a year has suddenly shifted his interest to her after he met her Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Take the Job For the Money?


Updated 12/10/08 2:55 PM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 35 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Take the Job For the Money?

Dear E. Jean, I've received an unusual job offer: boxing ring girl. What do you think? The pay is $1,000 a match, and I could really use it. But I can’t decide if walking around a ring is something I'd look at in a different light if I didn’t need the money. I'd be in a bikini or cutoff t-shirts and what they call "booty shorts." I'm very comfortable with my body, but I don't know how I'd Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Am I an Online Dating Dud?


Updated 11/22/08 5:58 AM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 22 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Am I an Online Dating Dud?

E. Jean is still enjoying her time off, but don't fret, she'll be back December 4th! In the meantime, here's an oldie but goodie. Enjoy! Dear E. Jean, I know I’m old-fashioned, but I’ve never tried any of the dating sites. It is now time. Past time! (I’m 30 years old and haven’t had a date in seven months. Awk.) Ok. So. I put my profile on Match.com. I worked hard trying to sound Read more

Ask E. Jean for DearSugar: Should I Let My Sister Move in With a Republican?


Updated 11/10/08 8:40 AM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 92 comments

Ask E. Jean for DearSugar: Should I Let My Sister Move in With a Republican?

E. Jean is still enjoying her vacation, but not to worry, she'll be back in two weeks! In the meantime, I hope you enjoy this oldie but goodie! Dear E. Jean, This is about an awful man, thankfully not mine. My beloved sister is stylish, cute, well-educated, and recently managed to lose 60 pounds. Naturally once she got a rockin’ bod, she became a dude magnet. And he’s horrible! Eeee Jean! Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Have an Affair?


Updated 09/05/09 2:32 PM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 116 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Have an Affair?

Dear E. Jean, I’m married to a man who works 14 hours a day. When he finally gets home he doesn’t talk to me, doesn’t ask how our 7-year-old son is, he only grunts, gets a bottle of water out of the fridge, sits down in front of his computer and does more work. He hasn’t thrown a baseball with our son once! When he’s home he’s either in front of his computer in his den or watching Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Can a Relationship Without Sex Work?


Updated 05/10/09 6:09 PM · Posted by · 51 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Can a Relationship Without Sex Work?

Dear E. Jean, I'm trying to sort out my dilemma, which concerns the man I've been dating for two months — he's 34, me 30. We have an incredible amount of things in common, laugh a lot together, both have our ducks in a row career-wise and financially. We love surfing together, making dinner, biking, we've traveled together twice without a hitch, gee what a match! Well after about a month of Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Did I Upset Him That Much?


Updated 09/06/08 2:46 AM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 22 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Did I Upset Him That Much?

Dear E. Jean, Last weekend I had a new guy over for dinner. I spent two days cleaning, one day cooking, and everything went fantastically until we started watching a movie after dessert and fooling around on the couch. I admit I had three cognacs, but as he was kissing me, I began laughing at the movie and at one point I started repeating some of the dialogue. E. Jean, I couldn’t help myself. Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Tell My Best Friend That I Saw Her Fiancé Kissing Another Woman?


Updated 09/04/08 9:29 AM · Posted by · 65 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: Should I Tell My Best Friend That I Saw Her Fiancé Kissing Another Woman?

Dear E. Jean, My hands are literally shaking as I type this. Tonight I saw my best friend’s fiancé kissing a woman in an Atlanta restaurant. There’s no mistake. I’ve known this guy for five years, and they were all over each other — at one point he actually had his hand up her skirt and his tongue down her throat. No way was this an innocent “business” dinner. The weird part Read more

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: The Olympics Have Me Down, How Do I Get Motivated?


Updated 08/23/08 12:17 PM · Posted by E Jean Carroll · 12 comments

Ask E. Jean For DearSugar: The Olympics Have Me Down, How Do I Get Motivated?

Dear E. Jean, I’ve been watching the Olympics. How do I get as motivated as these athletes? Watching all this extraordinary achievement makes me feel like such a loser. And the worst part is I can’t stop watching them. I’ve been glued to the TV since they started, and I mean glued! Tonight while I watched the gymnastics I ate three bowls of cereal and a plate of lasagna! God! Am I Read more