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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Spell it out on his desktop.&lt;/b&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(Some dude found this &quot;note&quot; from his wife when he came home from drinking one night.)&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://haha.nu/misc/the-wifes-statement/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;read more&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 09:30:00 -0700</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>GiggleSugar</dc:creator>
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&lt;p&gt;Although you&#039;ve called your folder, &quot;19th Century Love Poetry,&quot; it should probably really be called &quot;Decoy Hidden-Porn Folder,&quot; or, in my case, &quot;Cats in Glasses: A Gallery.&quot; Click &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.collegehumor.com/article:1760004/ls:8964&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; to see the entire honest desk top.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.collegehumor.com/article:1760004/ls:8964&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;College Humor!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Stressed at Work?  Get Organized</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/560034&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;When it comes to your job, deadlines, annoying co-workers, and barking bosses can make us totally tense.  Did you know that a cluttered workspace could also add to your &lt;a href=&quot;/409924&quot; &gt;stress&lt;/a&gt; levels?  If your desk is a total mess, not only is it difficult to find what you&#039;re looking for, but it can make your mind feel totally bombarded.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tidying up your work space will bring calmness and order to your life, which we can all use.  Here are some great desk organizers I found that I wanted to share with you.&lt;br /&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Make It Work! White House Adjusts to Outdated Tech</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/2741812&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=109  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl1/16/162306/05_2009/7a99c8c9506a4acd_81039245.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Between President Obama&#039;s struggle and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.geeksugar.com/2711792&quot; &gt;sort-of triumph&lt;/a&gt; to keep his BlackBerry and the West Wing&#039;s faltering email system - yesterday Press Secretary Robert Gibbs said &lt;a href=&quot;http://voices.washingtonpost.com/44/2009/01/26/white_house_e-mail_system_goes.html?wprss=44&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;it was down&lt;/a&gt; - it&#039;s a hardly a surprise to learn the White House is mired in cords and cables and 6-year-old computers.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Staff has traded in campaign MacBooks for desktops fitted with outdated Windows software, and the few laptops available are being rationed to very select staff. No Facebook. No IM. No Twitter. Not even wireless!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For a staff that relied on technology and social networking to win an election, White House employees will have to begrudgingly adjust to the loss of mobility. While it&#039;s done partly out of tradition, restrictions also ensure information is protected under the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.citizensugar.com/2506872&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Presidential Records Act&lt;/a&gt;. Obama spokesman Bill Burton admitted, &quot;It is kind of like going from an Xbox to an Atari.&quot; And that&#039;s the official line! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If America is going to lead the world, should its government have access to leading technology? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 13:00:19 -0800</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/1074827&quot;&gt;&lt;img  src=&#039;http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl0/0/3362/09_2008/200265797-001.large.jpg&#039;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Your boyfriend is late getting back from the gym so you find yourself waiting for him at his place.  You decide to hop on the computer to pass the time.  His email is open on his desktop, and when you catch your name in one of the subject lines, you read through the message.  You’re really upset to read your boyfriend’s comments to his brother about the first time you guys had sex (less than a week ago).  Would it be worse if he… &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This: Described how disappointed he was by your moves, and didn’t feel like you were feisty enough for him?  He sure didn’t seem disappointed at the time!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That: Completely exaggerated what you guys had done, referring to you as a total freak who would do absolutely anything to please him, and describing sex moves you’ve never even heard of? You can’t help but wonder why he needs to lie.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Ladies, what would be worse in this situation? &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://legacycreative.gettyimages.com/source/home/home.aspx&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 09:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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 <title>I Want to Buy a Home Computer</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/7492&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Dear Sugar&lt;br /&gt;
I&#039;d like to buy a home computer but I am not sure how to decide what kind to get.  There are so many different choices; Laptops, Notebooks, Desktops, PCs, Mac, Sony, Gateway, Hewlett Packard, Dell etc . . . the list goes on and on.  What are the important qualities to look for?   Computer Geekette&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dear Computer Geekette&lt;br /&gt;
It completely depends on what your needs are.  Is this going to be for business, leisure or both?  What kinds of programs do you want to run?   &lt;a href=http://www.apple.com/&gt;Macs&lt;/a&gt; have better graphic design features, laptops are great if you travel a lot or if you like to hang (and blog) at coffee shops and cafes, &lt;a href=http://www.sonystyle.com/is-bin/INTERSHOP.enfinity/eCS/Store/en/-/USD/SY_BrowseCatalog-Start?CategoryName=cpu_VAIODesktopComputers&amp;amp;CP=sony_hm_nav_elec_dtpshop&gt;Sony&lt;/a&gt; makes a memory chip so your media center (digital camera, movie camera, TV) can all be interconnected and Desktops are more bulky but you can have a larger screen if you have eye problems or prefer to have a wireless mouse and a larger work space.  A good place to start your computer search is at &lt;a href=http://www.pcw.co.uk/products/buyersguides/&gt;Personal Computer World&lt;/a&gt; or at &lt;a href=http://www.oucs.ox.ac.uk/pcbuy/&gt;Oxford University&#039;s Computer Service Buyers Guide&lt;/a&gt; .  Do a little bit of research before you actually go into a store or make an online purchase.   &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2006 08:33:26 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Group Therapy: Jealousy over Celebrity Bodies</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/231921&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s springtime and I&#039;m dating again.  I have been seeing someone for a few weeks, and have visited his apartment where things got hot, but that&#039;s not what this post is about.  His apartment is what I imagine an archetypal bachelor pad to be like; simple but clean, and lots of gadgets.. babe calendar included. It was such a turn-off to see the calendar with girls in bikinis on his wall.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Click here to &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Meanwhile, the desktop image on his computer is none other than Jessica Alba in a bikini.  Mentally, it bothers me that he would participate in the commercial objectification of women in such a public way, but more importantly, emotionally I&#039;m bothered because I do not look a thing like Jessica Alba!  She is petite and has dark features and is skinny, whereas I am a tall blonde and I am fuller-figured.  I have big breasts and big hips.  To top it off.. I saw a quiz he took on what kind of body he is attracted to, and the results were &quot;skinny and cute&quot;.. I&#039;ll always be cute  but I&#039;m never going to be stick-thin.  Like I said, I have curves and I am tall.  I workout and do yoga, so I have lean muscle-mass.  Jessica Alba and I couldn&#039;t be more opposite..&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I guess my point is.. how can I overcome jealousy towards an ideal-type?  I know a lot of it involves dealing with my insecurity over my body, but I can&#039;t help but think that I&#039;m not his ideal preference physically, given the evidence.  He&#039;s a total catch in every way, except for this, and I want to get past this.. any advice?&lt;/p&gt;
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