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You Asked: Should I Tell the Truth About My Ex?
Dear Sugar,
A couple months ago I got a friend request from someone on Facebook. I ignored it because I didn't know who it was, but she kept messaging me, pretending to know me. My curiosity got the best of me so I responded, asking who she was.
This or That: Bailing For Better Scenery or a Boy?
You and your closest friend have finally been fortunate enough to live in the same city for the past year, for the first time since high school. She moves around a lot and is always searching for the next best place. It’s been amazing having her around and your life feels full in a way you just can’t get from a boyfriend.
Dear Poll: Can You Have Sex Too Soon in a Relationship?
Whether you’re having it or you’re not, sex is always a personal choice. For some people, the physical act alone is enough to create a pleasurable experience and thus waiting for an emotional connection is unnecessary. But for many, being close to the person you’re engaging in sex with is an absolute requirement, which necessitates more time getting to know each other.
You Asked: Should I Choose My Boyfriend?
Dear Sugar,
I've been with my boyfriend for three and half years, and he's cheated on me more than once in that time. Obviously we have a lot of trust issues, and in this past year our relationship has become even crazier. I've finally decided I need a change.
Where Do You Stand: Holding Off on Sex Until You’re Committed
Sex and the decision to have or abstain from it is a very personal decision. I can understand arguments from each side but ultimately, it’s a matter of what feels right for you. Though contemporary women are lucky enough to have more sexual freedom, it’s not uncommon for women to wait to have sex with someone they're interested in until they’ve entered into a relationship with that person.
The How-To Lounge: Making a Difficult Decision
I consider decision making a skill that you have to hone, much like public speaking. No matter how smart, self-assured, or strong willed you may be, when it comes to confidently making a big decision, it requires an entirely different set of tactics. But fortunately, being more decisive is something that can be improved with just a little dedication and a lot of practice.
Dear Poll: Do You Trust Your Instincts?
In my own experience, I’ve always found my instincts to be right on on the money. In fact, I've come to realize that ignoring my instincts can really lead me astray. While it definitely takes some practice, I’m learning to trust them no matter what — even if it means going against other people’s opinions.
You Asked: Am I Ready for This Next Step?
Dear Sugar,
I can't believe I'm going to ask this but I don't have anyone else to ask and I have come to trust your opinions, so here it goes. I am a very happy married young lady and my relationship with my husband is great and so is our sex life, but for the past couple of months he's been wanting to have anal sex — something I've never done before. I must say I am really scared of having sex that way and I don't even know why ( I guess I think that it will hurt) but I also want to satisfy my husband's needs.
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Adam Lambert: Just Another Provocative Pop Star?
Last night on the American Music Awards, Adam Lambert gyrated along dancers dressed in S&M inspired costumes. At one point, the American Idol alum pulled a dancer's face toward his crotch. Of course, not everyone was entertained — the spectacle was edited from the West Coast broadcast.
More Harm Than Good?
To add more fuel to the teen pregnancy fire surrounding the Palin family, Jamie Lynn Spears thought it would be a nice gesture to send Bristol Palin, Sarah Palin's 17-year-old pregnant daughter, a baby gift with a card reading "hang in there." While I'm not one to judge these girls or their decisions to be young moms, I did think this was a little bizarre — they don't even know each other!
Jamie Lynn is no stranger to public scrutiny, so I have to ask why she'd turn the spotlight on Bristol and back onto herself.
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