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Dear Poll: Do You Enjoy Attention From Strangers?
Construction workers whistling at women? That’s probably an unfair stereotype. But receiving unsolicited positive attention from strangers can certainly be an ego boost, whether it’s from a passerby on the street, a cute guy at a coffee shop, or, yes, even the occasional construction worker.
Where Do You Stand? Receiving Compliments
The other day a friend of mine complimented me, telling me that I looked good in the shade of pink I was wearing, and she caught me so off guard that I actually blushed! I've never considered myself shy, but I have to admit, receiving that accolade out of left field made me slightly uncomfortable. I know that a lot of people share my sentiment, so tell me where you stand on receiving compliments.
You Asked: How Can I Compliment My Boyfriend?
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend loves to tell me how sexy, hot, or gorgeous he thinks I am. I love that he loves how I look, but I find it hard to return the compliments. I find him sexy and am very attracted to him (and tell him so), but I would never describe him as "hot."
Do Tell: What Do You Typically Get Complimented On?
Yes, men have a knack for dishing out some pretty terrible pickup lines when trying to get lucky, but they can be sweet and honest with their words too. Paying someone a sincere compliment, without any personal gain, has the ability to truly lift our spirits and self-confidence. Since we all have unique attributes that make us who we are, do tell, what is it about you that usually gets the most compliments?
You Asked: Should I Pass on Praise to My Ex?
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend of five years and I broke up (rather awkwardly) last October and it completely shattered my heart. While we were civil and polite immediately after, we haven't spoken much or seen each other for about a year. I've since moved on, and I am confident he has too.
Relationship Protocol: How Often Does He Compliment You?
There’s something extra meaningful when you get praise from a significant other. Of course, a compliment is always nice, but when it comes from your loved one, it tends to hold more meaning. That kind of positive energy really goes a long way in keeping the romance alive.
Dear Poll: Do You Like Getting Looks?
A little flattery can go a long way when it comes to boosting the ego, but even praise can get excessive sometimes. To be honest, I’ve never been a fan of the male gaze; no matter the guy, I just don’t like being stared at. My girlfriends see it as a form of flattery, but to me, being ogled is just too much.
You Asked: I Can't Accept a Compliment
Dear Sugar,
When someone compliments me, I get extremely uncomfortable and don't know what to say. I know it's all a matter of insecurity, but I don't see myself as insecure. I love my appearance and who I am on the inside, but for some reason I just cannot accept flattery.
Do You Use Flattery to Break the Ice?
A few months ago I asked you all if you return a compliment when given one, and 71 percent of you said no. I also mentioned that flattering someone is a nice thing to do when breaking the ice, but now I want to pose a similar question in a different way: Do you ever compliment someone just to appease them, almost out of nervousness? Some of us do it as second nature because we know it feels good when people do it to us, but others aren't as forthcoming with accolades, especially to other women.
This or That: He's Creepy or He Won't Stop Peeping?
You’re on a very romantic first date with a guy, who seems perfect on paper. You met him through a friend of a friend, so you don’t know much about him besides the basics. Over the course of dinner and some pretty decent conversation, you guys each enjoy a few glasses a wine.
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