"I Snooped and Found Something . . . Now What?"


Updated 05/23/12 2:05 PM · Posted by · 29 comments

I Snooped My Boyfriend's Phone

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I'll try my best to make this short. I really appreciate any and all advice here, I am so stumped on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months now. I'm 24 he is 28. We met at work, and were not really friends before we started dating. So basically I have some Read more

Group Therapy: Boyfriend Admitted to Cheating on His Exes


Updated 11/16/11 12:56 PM · Posted by · 12 comments

Boyfriend Cheated on His Ex Girlfriend

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! OK, so by now I think everyone here knows this: I am six months into a relationship, in love with a guy who claims he loves me, too. So last night we were talking on the phone and I was telling him how I couldn't understand those girls who date several people at the same time. He jokingly Read more

Sunday Confessional: I'm Crazy About Him, but He Has a Girlfriend


Updated 09/19/11 11:01 PM · Posted by · 8 comments

I Love a Guy With a Girlfriend

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. I met this guy about four months ago and when we initially met, he told me he was in this on and off relationship, but nothing serious. His brother who happens to be my friend said he wasn't in a relationship last he knew. Well as at the time I met him I was Read more

Sunday Confessional: I Am a Cheater


Updated 02/10/12 6:31 AM · Posted by · 33 comments

I Cheat on My Husband Regularly

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. I have been married for eight years and have been cheating on my husband for seven of them. I am 25, and he is 37. We have children together. My rendezvous started out as kissing one of our mutual friends, and has escalated all the way to going to sex websites to Read more

Group Therapy: Is My Husband Cheating?


Updated 08/15/11 12:09 AM · Posted by · 17 comments

Is My Husband Cheating?

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I've been married for 31 years to the father of my two girls (married now). A couple of days ago I found my husband masturbating himself about 8 pm while watching TV and holding his smart phone. I confronted him but he denied the whole issue. I know he enjoys porno and I believe that's what Read more

Group Therapy: Should I Tell Him I Lied?


Updated 08/05/11 12:09 PM · Posted by · 11 comments

Should I Tell Him I Lied?

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I have made a massive mess of my love life and hurt two people in the process. Please don't judge, because I already know what I did was wrong. I am looking for advice on what to do next. I was involved in a long distance relationship for 4 years. The man was attentive, gave gifts and offered Read more

Men Who Have Trouble in Bed Have Less Trouble Cheating


Updated 07/26/11 10:20 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

How to Predict If a Man Will Cheat

Men who have trouble performing in bed are more likely to have sex outside of a monogamous relationship. The counterintuitive finding comes from a new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior and suggests that sexual anxiety doesn't prevent men from seeking sex with new partners, but rather makes them more likely to do so. The research set out to determine various factors that predict Read more

Would You Break Up Over Online Transgressions?


Updated 06/09/11 4:52 PM · Posted by · 10 comments

Is Sexting Cheating?

Cheating may be the ultimate deal breaker for many women, but these days it comes in so many forms of tweets and texts that it's hard to nail down what exact behavior warrants no second chances. Take the much discussed case of Congressman Weiner. He stressed in his confession that he never had a physical relationship nor even met with any of his cybersex buddies. Considering a photo apparently Read more

Group Therapy: Can I Tell If He's Sleeping With Someone Else?


Updated 04/15/11 8:49 PM · Posted by · 13 comments

Signs a Man Slept With Another Woman

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago on good terms. Our relationship was falling apart, and we decided to go separate ways. Well recently we have been talking to one another again, we've been seeking each other out, and to me it really just seems like we needed a break from one Read more

Sunday Confessional: Married and in Lust With Another Man


Updated 04/11/11 11:42 AM · Posted by · 16 comments

Having an Affair

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below. I've been seeing this guy off and on for about 5 years. The thing is I'm married he's divorced, but in a relationship. I did fall in love, or I guess lust with him. I just don't know what it is about him that made me feel this way. I'm guessing maybe it just feels Read more